seeing if people submit to sex when they're upset with their mate
If you're mad at your mate, will you still give up the goods and give it all you got?
11/22/2011
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11/22/2011
it really depends on why I'm angry at them. I would never withhold sex as a form of punishment, but if they do something that really sets me over the edge, then my libido will suffer a little bit and sex may be the last thing I'll want.
However, if it's more minor, than I may be in the mood for some angry sex and I'll feel better afterwards.
However, if it's more minor, than I may be in the mood for some angry sex and I'll feel better afterwards.
11/22/2011
If I'm working through things cause we'd had an arguement, then I'm not going to feel aroused for sex. Everything just shuts down and I need time to sort through things.
I don't deliberately withhold sex, it's just how I deal with things. And if I'm not aroused, I'm not forcing myself to have sex with anyone!
I don't deliberately withhold sex, it's just how I deal with things. And if I'm not aroused, I'm not forcing myself to have sex with anyone!
11/22/2011
When I mad at my husband, I won't even talk or look at him, so sex is definitely out of question.
11/22/2011
We've had angry sex once.. hated it so never again.
11/22/2011
All of the above? It just depends. Sometime's we'll have hot hate sex. Sometimes it'll be like "fine, i'll do this but I'm still mad at you" and sometimes depending on what it is I'll flat out not really want to be touched. Usually when it's that bad though, it's not something with us. It's more about something else that's going on with me in my life that's made sex just not seem like a viable or enjoyable option in the moment.
He can usually coax it out of me with a nice assrub though. That takes all the fight out of me. It's like a drug.
He can usually coax it out of me with a nice assrub though. That takes all the fight out of me. It's like a drug.
11/22/2011
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I dont ever withold sex because I am mad. I don't feel that its right.
Originally posted by
Girly Girl
it depends
11/22/2011
Really, it depends on why I am angry or upset with them, and everything about the situation. In some cases, things have gotten really hot. In others, I don't want to be touched at all and get incredibly angry.
11/22/2011
I think there is something to the saying "Never go to bed angry". It's a good idea to stay up talking about issues for several reasons...one of which is good make-up sex and cuddling. ^_^
11/22/2011
I can't do anger and sex at the same time, I would absolutely not want to be touched. Anger makes me extremely prickly and I'd be likely to lash out if my space wasn't respected
11/23/2011
It depends. My anger passes pretty quickly most of the time. Sometimes I will snuggle up to him and initiate sex to smooth things over. I, too, believe that you should never go to bed angry.
11/23/2011
The only thing I get mad about is not having sex often enough - so what good would it do me to abstain?
11/23/2011
It all depends, if my anger is easily subsided, i will, but otherwise, no.
12/05/2011
I can't do anything when I am angry. I just need to calm down and think.
01/21/2012
And probably more. Angry sex is the best.
01/23/2012
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No way. If I'm upset, we both want to fix it before sex. It can be too hurtful to go into something so intimate with an upset partner! Now I don't mind doing it after we've cleared the air, but not before. He'd be insulted I think. He'd feel awful if I didn't speak up before sex if I were upset.
Originally posted by
swaggsohott12
seeing if people submit to sex when they're upset with their mate
01/23/2012
Weird thing- some people are like "I don't feel close to you so i don't want to be physical" and others are like "I need to be physical with you to feel close to you".
Makes for difficult times but for me it really depends on the relationship. If we have it we have it and others it takes effort
Makes for difficult times but for me it really depends on the relationship. If we have it we have it and others it takes effort
05/06/2012
I don't give it up when I'm mad at him. That's what make-up sex is for!
05/06/2012
I will not be in the mood if I am mad at him.
05/06/2012
It really depends if i'm wearing a strap-on or not. If so, I just take it out on her that way. She enjoys it, and I get to blow off steam
05/13/2012
angry sex is the best!!! we dont really fight tho so it would have to be deliberately provoked lol
06/17/2012
Sometimes, but other times we take a break until we've both calmed down
06/19/2012
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Sometimes yes. Sometimes no.
Originally posted by
swaggsohott12
seeing if people submit to sex when they're upset with their mate
06/19/2012
Not if I'm REALLY angry, but if I'm feeling just slightly irritated and resentful I sometimes do.
06/19/2012
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No, but we don't go to bed mad. We agreed to this before we got married and it doesn't matter how long it takes to resolve the problem. Is there make up sex? Most of the time.
Originally posted by
swaggsohott12
seeing if people submit to sex when they're upset with their mate
06/19/2012
No way.
06/19/2012
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Even when I try really hard I can’t refuse him once he starts seducing me
Originally posted by
swaggsohott12
seeing if people submit to sex when they're upset with their mate
Either way I always want him and will give it up any time.
06/20/2012
it depends on why we are fighting
10/03/2012
Hell no! I don't let a little fight stop me from having sex. It's way too important for that. Angry sex makes for fun anyhow.
10/03/2012
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