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Contributor: eri86 eri86
I know your first time, with enough prep, natural moisture and lube, can be a painless experience. I'm assuming there might, only maybe, be some initial discomfort, less so if you've used dildos, just because you've never done it before.

But again, factoring in trying to fit two body parts together, and finding a comfortable position for both parties, first time, maybe a bit awkward and uncomfortable.

So was your first time painless, but a bit awkward and or uncomfortable at the start? What was the issue, how did you fix it?
05/22/2013
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05/22/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
There was very mild discomfort. I hadn't done much on my own with penetration before sex. My first was much above average in size though. It didn't really hurt; my body just took a few seconds to adapt.
05/22/2013
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Mine was plenty awkward, but luckily it wasn't painful or physically uncomfortable at all
05/22/2013
Contributor: mandaj mandaj
Hurt like hell but all well worth it cuz it was with my love of my life
05/22/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
There was a bit of discomfort. I had been fingered prior to losing my virginity, but didn't own any sex toys, so nothing went deep. There was a bit of pain when he went in, but I think it helped that we used quite a bit of lube and he wasn't average in length and girth.
05/22/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I had only penetrated myself once before the first time I had sex and it was months prior to my first time. I didn't use lube because I was clueless, and it felt a little uncomfortable for a minute, but was self lubricated enough that it was okay. I was more sore later on in the day than at the moment.

I got on top of him, it was a little awkward inserting him inside of me, because I was still so shy about touching him. One he was inside it was easy though.
05/22/2013
Contributor: Evoluchun Evoluchun
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Originally posted by eri86
I know your first time, with enough prep, natural moisture and lube, can be a painless experience. I'm assuming there might, only maybe, be some initial discomfort, less so if you've used dildos, just because you've never done it ... more
i was 14 with a girl and 15 i was raped by a boy i was 16 before it was voluntary with a boy
07/18/2016
Contributor: TexasBrat TexasBrat
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
I know your first time, with enough prep, natural moisture and lube, can be a painless experience. I'm assuming there might, only maybe, be some initial discomfort, less so if you've used dildos, just because you've never done it ... more
I lost my virginity at 16. Back then, we had really good sex education, which is a good thing, because my mother never discussed sex with me.

I knew the basics, what went where. I was prepared for the pain as much as I could. Thankfully, the man I chose to give my virginity to wasn't overly well endowed (at the time though , he felt HUGE!!!).

The only way I prepared was bringing condoms and being on The Pill. At 16, I didn't know really about lubes or anything. I'm making up for that now!!! LOL
07/21/2016