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Women's Orgasmic Contractions and Men

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Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
So, I know that when I orgasm, and most other women as well, my vaginal walls will contract several times. For me it adds to the sensation if my boyfriend's penis is still inside me as I orgasm, and the contractions make me much more able to feel the texture of his penis, like the veins and the head. So now I have a question for you men out there. When a woman orgasms and you are inside her, can you feel the contraction with your penis? Does it feel good, bad, weird, anything else? I'd love a man's perspective on this. Thanks!

~Pixie
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Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I can feel her contractions when I remain inside her as she orgasms.
Jimbo Jones , ScottA , Redboxbaby , MeliPixie , ToyTimeTim , SexyStuff , newfoundlust , KikiChrome , zracer , LavenderSkies , Purpleducklings , Vaccinium , ID42 , SirTouchAlot , Miss Madeline , angel142stx , Rossie , Howells , kinksters , Lio , The Curious Couple , Mika R. , Cedarlooman , big b , jeangel246 , Miss Anonymous , Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
27  (87%)
I canNOT feel her contractions when I remain inside her as she orgasms.
Gunsmoke
1  (3%)
Other (please explain in a comment!)
Sweet-Justice , OhMy! , MaryExy
3  (10%)
Total votes: 31
Poll is closed
02/26/2011
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Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I'm really super interested and therefore shamelessly bumping my own thread ^^;;
02/26/2011
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
It does feel awesome when this happens and if I am close to the edge it will throw me over almost every time.
02/26/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I can for all but the weakest orgasms. It's a great sensation. I second Jimbo's note about it throwing me over the edge provided I can last that long.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I'm answering for my husband. He agrees with the other two guys here. He says, "sometimes I NEED you to orgasm in order to throw me over the edge. It's intense."
02/26/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I intentionally left this open so my boyfriend would see it, because I was too embarrassed to ask... He says the same thing all of you have. He can feel it, and it feels intensely good, if he can get me there during that session
02/27/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
It does feel awesome when this happens and if I am close to the edge it will throw me over almost every time.
Same for me! I would say 75% of the time it will put me over the top.
02/27/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Usually he finishes first, but he can feel it when I do
02/28/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Other.
02/28/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
Other.
Do you care to explain?
02/28/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I almost always have my first and most intense orgasms while we are doing other things than PIV sex. My later orgasms are not as intense (but are a lot of fun) he says sometimes he can feel them, and sometimes not, he knows when I'm having an orgasm, (I make noise, and squirm around) and that turns him on.

I rarely have that first or first 2 or 3 really intense ones while we are having intercourse, though. I need intense concentrated clit stim, usually from a plug in vibrator, and either a dil or vibrator or his hand inside. He has complained about his hand being crushed and then cramping, so I guess he does feel it.
02/28/2011
Contributor: KikiChrome KikiChrome
I'm answering for my boyfriend. I know that he can feel it because he says it always gives him a thrill. Sometimes it's exactly what it takes to get him over the line for an orgasm too. Sometimes that's a bit of a problem because I can come so hard that I push him out!

He really likes the little pulses I get during the afterglow too. Sometimes he responds by doing a kegel of his own, and we kind of play with each other a bit.
03/06/2011
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
(OhMy Guy) The amount of contractions that I feel depends on the intensity of her orgasm and what position we're in. Sometimes, I can barely feel it. Other times the contractions are so strong, I can feel every inch of my wife.
03/11/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
I can feel it, and if I haven't come yet, the contractions usually will make me come. Basically, they squeeze my penis and make the whole vagina tighter, and that sends me over the edge.
03/13/2011
Contributor: ID42 ID42
I asked my husband and am answering for him too...

He said that yes he can feel me contract during orgasm but that it is not stronger or weaker from one to the next during the same session. He said my my vagina just goes crazy and twitches everywhere. Ha! He is also in agreement with some of the other men on the forum that stated that sometimes it is what finally sends him over the edge and sometimes he also needs for me to orgasm to bring on his.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Answered for my husband. Yes he can feel my contractions. It'll make him cum more intensely if I'm contracting.
05/28/2011
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
love feeling him cum in me, and he loves feeling me cum lol
05/28/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I can definitely feel everything when I'm inside of my fiancee.
05/28/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
The contractions do feel really good and sometimes do seem to flow along the walls (the milking sensation described in erotic lit). If you really want to feel contractions the sphincter of the anus will often also contract during orgasm and it is usually a lot stronger than the vaginal muscles. I can usually continue thrusting during vaginal contractions--sometime s I like to just remain still and enjoy them other times I try to build on the sensation and bring on another immediate orgasm for her--but there is no moving if you are caught in the anal contractions!
05/29/2011
Contributor: big b big b
yes
05/29/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I'm voting on behalf of my boyfriend. He says he can always feel my vaginal contractions when I orgasm. I could feel them happening too, I never really asked him about it because I thought maybe he could feel them. He said two things about the contractions. He enjoys when they happen, and he has had a few times where he had to fight himself to keep from comming. That was a big thumbs up for me. He also says I could never fake an orgasm, because he would know. He says he feels the contractions when I orgasm from oral or finger penatration also.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
My husband says he can feel them, and he generally stays in unless my orgasm is so intense that I accidentally push him out.
08/18/2011