The New Intimacy

Woman Close to 30 and Over

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Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
So, "they" say that a woman hits her sexual peak in her 30's & that there's nothing like sex in your 30's. Even my mother could never refrain herself from saying to me "Wait till you experience sex in your 30's", which would make me feel oddly uncomfortable to say the least. I MUST say, turning 29 this fall, I've noticed a real progression since hitting 27.

I used to actually get real depressed that I'd never be able to orgasm vaginally, but here I am experiencing it any & every time I want to. The feeling is way more intense, EVERYTHING'S WAY more intense. I also used to be overly-sensitive after clitoral orgasms, but now I can have them endlessly without having to take any breaks.

So, how many of you close to or over 30 have found this "myth" to be true?
Seems like the universe's big gift for bringing us out of our 20's. Well worth the trade in!
07/10/2011
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Contributor: indiglo indiglo
My 30's have been good to me so far. Something else that is a HUGE help is getting more comfortable in your own skin and knowing what you want and not being afraid to ask for it.

I had issues in my 20's with not being able to orgasm. Now I have multiples almost every time. I don't know if that lends credence to the myth, but I am happy about it!
07/11/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
The only thing I've noticed so far (I've always been exceptionally orgasmic due to a series of vaginal surgeries as a teenager), is that my vaginal odor is more prominent (doesn't stink, it's just noticeable if I'm naked) and I sweat more during sex. Hormones! Gotta love 'em!
07/11/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Very strange but wonderful phenomenon! I'd love some scientific explanation for all this, how the female body matures. Maybe I'll go in search for some info.
07/11/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
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Originally posted by Ansley
The only thing I've noticed so far (I've always been exceptionally orgasmic due to a series of vaginal surgeries as a teenager), is that my vaginal odor is more prominent (doesn't stink, it's just noticeable if I'm naked) and I ... more
Yeah, some girls can just orgasm in any way from an early age. I was always SO jealous of that, but I don't have to be anymore.
07/11/2011
Contributor: babyrock babyrock
Yes, I have definitely seen my girl becoming more intersted in and having more fun with sex.
07/11/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
For me, sex from 37 to present has been phenomenal! Definitely more orgasmic (I have been able to orgasm from penetration since I was a teenager) now; multiples come easily and are more intense, but sometimes I have trouble reaching the first one. I want it all the time, sometimes that can be a problem.
07/11/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm single, but I have definitely noticed a big difference in my sex drive and really discovering myself a lot more than ever before! Don't know if that is because of age or because of my Master.
07/11/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by SexyLilPixi
So, "they" say that a woman hits her sexual peak in her 30's & that there's nothing like sex in your 30's. Even my mother could never refrain herself from saying to me "Wait till you experience sex in your ... more
In my own experience the real "best" comes older than 30, but that's just me. I always hear that the 40s were the "peak of a woman's sexual response."

I think it is VERY individual to the specific woman.
07/11/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'm near 34, and was off Zoloft for about six weeks. It was crazy - I could orgasm just THINKING about sex. I needed it a lot. And Master was 5,000 miles away.

Back on Zoloft ... nothing. No interest whatsoever. Completely dead.

There HAS to be something I can take that allows me to function emotionally AND let me have the drive when Master and I are together.
07/11/2011