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How does your weight or your partners effect your sex life?

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Contributor: freda freda
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Originally posted by kittycat414
I am curious if weight is an issue during sex from all ranges. Too skinny,too big, men, women, from big butts, little butts, big breasts to small breast. Etc!
it doesnt
03/03/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
no effect, I love her just the way she is
03/03/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by kittycat414
I am curious if weight is an issue during sex from all ranges. Too skinny,too big, men, women, from big butts, little butts, big breasts to small breast. Etc!
I put on some weight since having a child, and I notice that being on top makes me a lot more tired. I really need to get back into shape. Plus the sound of my belly squishing up against him isn't attractive at all!
03/03/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Kayla
It makes some effect, but not really in a negative manner. It just requires some extra thought. I weight almost twice his weight, so I can easily get on top, but I just can't stay there as long because it will numb his hips. He also would have a ... more
I recently encountered a man with wide hips for the first time. It was awful being on top!
03/03/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
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Originally posted by kittycat414
I am curious if weight is an issue during sex from all ranges. Too skinny,too big, men, women, from big butts, little butts, big breasts to small breast. Etc!
i don't see what difference it makes
03/07/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by kittycat414
I am curious if weight is an issue during sex from all ranges. Too skinny,too big, men, women, from big butts, little butts, big breasts to small breast. Etc!
She is the one with the problem (though she's nuts for being insecure!). I'm trying to break her of her negativity about her body and to just relax and enjoy everything because I love her and I love how she looks so there is no reason to feel self conscious about things. THAT is how weight effects us. Not the actual act, just getting her to be comfortable with who she is.
03/07/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
I love it most times, but sometimes my partner can be too heavy for me. I don't say anything though because once we get into it, I do not give a rat's ass!
03/07/2012
Contributor: sexy19364 sexy19364
My one man is rather thin and I feel like I am going to break him sometimes! He is only a few inches taller than me, so in missionary at least I can see his face.

My fiancé is in the higher average, with a teeny bit of belly. He is 6'3 and I am 5'3 and my face is stuck in his shoulder/chest during missionary.

I have trouble losing weight because of hypothyroidism, and I have my fat days. I don't find that I have low stamina, I can keep going for an hour or more if necessary. I think the only difficulty that my weight has caused is if I am on my back sometimes my boobs will suffocate me! Or my partners if I'm on top.
03/07/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by kittycat414
I am curious if weight is an issue during sex from all ranges. Too skinny,too big, men, women, from big butts, little butts, big breasts to small breast. Etc!
At first, being with my current husband was a bit odd for me. He was rather thin, and I was used to being with beefier or larger guys. Myself, being a larger girl, I also felt a bit weird and awkward at first with my current husband. However, after a while, it just stopped being an issue. Now, Im used to his body and mine being together.
03/08/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
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Originally posted by kittycat414
I am curious if weight is an issue during sex from all ranges. Too skinny,too big, men, women, from big butts, little butts, big breasts to small breast. Etc!
he is alot bigger then me but it doesnt affect our sex life
04/11/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by kittycat414
I am curious if weight is an issue during sex from all ranges. Too skinny,too big, men, women, from big butts, little butts, big breasts to small breast. Etc!
Him being the weight/build he is makes our sex life better because I'm attracted to him... I believe that my weight/build does the same for him, though I hardly think that I am anything better then ordinary.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I'm insecure and I hate my body. Sometimes it makes me depressed and I feel gross. I just think he says things to me to be nice, I really don't know how anyone can look at my body and think I'm attractive....my face yeah...my body...no...
04/11/2012
Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
My partner and I are both happy with our weight, its not worth obsessing over.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
I've never had an issue, with either mine or my partner's weight, whoever that may be at the time.
04/11/2012
Contributor: griffonc griffonc
Its not been a big deal for us really.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
every body is different and has thing that need to be worked around. Weight is just one of those things. it doesn't stop the fun!
04/11/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I'm sure it has some effect on our sex life, but I can't be sure because he's been big since before we were together. I do know that when I gain weight (which is when I'm pregnant) there's a very noticeable impact, (I have a harder time supporting my weight, heartburn, etc.) but that could also be regular pregnancy symptoms.
04/11/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
It does, a little. I'm a little heavier then I would like to be and it affects my self esteem. My guy loves how I look and is always saying "You're beautiful" and whatnot. We can't do some positions because he's too heavy to be on top. I can't breathe like that. He's not overweight or anything, he just has a very dense body.
04/12/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
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Originally posted by kittycat414
I am curious if weight is an issue during sex from all ranges. Too skinny,too big, men, women, from big butts, little butts, big breasts to small breast. Etc!
My weight causes insecurities. My husband loves me for me, but I wish I had less baby weight left over. Working on it, though.
04/12/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Our sex life is great eventhough, I feel I could lose some weight. He thinks I'm perfect, but I don't. If you was to ask him the same question he'd tell you everything is perfect!
04/13/2012
Contributor: Hekate101 Hekate101
I'm 5'7, 145 lb, and my partner's 6'4, 250 lb. I never thought I could be attracted to someone so much bigger (not all of it's muscle, though a substantial bit is), but I've figured out that how he looks matters a whole lot less than how I feel about him and how he feels about himself. So I do my best to reassure him that I appreciate every bit, and he's so amazing in bed that it's most definitely true!
04/13/2012
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
My bf loves my curves, so my weight helps our sex life. But I do have bad knees and that has been our biggest problem.
04/19/2012
Contributor: Explore Explore
I feel a little self conscious when it's time to strip but my boo's reactions are enough to banish those evil thoughts quickly!
04/19/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
We are both on the bigger side of things but really it doesn't affect our sex life we have an AMAZING sex life
04/20/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
doesnt effect us
04/20/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
It's mostly a mental block on my part; I've gained weight since I broke my leg and also started a new medication, and it makes me self-conscious. I don't do as much as I used to, especially cam to cam online play. My SOs don't care what I look like, as long as I'm healthy.
04/20/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I'm curvy-ish (5'4", 150 lbs) and my boyfriend is pretty tall and skinny, and we've never had a problem. I used to worry about crushing him but he's told me repeatedly not to worry about that, because it never happens.
05/31/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i am very uncomfortable how i look and i think she is too.
06/05/2012
Contributor: Bodhi Bodhi
Well, my partner is really tall and kind of built, so he weighs a lot. I don't particularly enjoy having him on top for that reason.

I have a bit extra weight and it makes me really uncomfortable being naked.
06/05/2012
Contributor: brooketacular brooketacular
I sometimes get uncomfortable about my weight and it makes sexual things difficult. I dunno what to do about it most of the time, though.
06/07/2012