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Contributor: thordora thordora
Yeah, I know-I've had a few women look at me like I had three heads, but it's getting super frustrating. I'm with a new partner, and my body has changed-now, there's just SOOOOO much lubrication that it's like a fricken slip and slide, and I can't get off, and it's starting to be frustrating and weird.

Has anyone else experienced this? Any suggestions, aside from keeping a towel near? I'm sure he's flattered, but as someone who doesn't usually have trouble getting off, it's driving me batty.
04/03/2010
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Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by thordora
Yeah, I know-I've had a few women look at me like I had three heads, but it's getting super frustrating. I'm with a new partner, and my body has changed-now, there's just SOOOOO much lubrication that it's like a fricken slip and ... more
Well if it's been a long time since you previously had a partner, it's normal that your body is overexcited with the partner,and the new-found pleasure of being touched. In-between boyfriends I would normally spend more than 6 months with no sex and I'd be wet as a river in the beginning. I was so sensitive to any touch, I was able to get an orgasm from a very lengthy back rub. It should settle down to a normal level within a month.

If you did not go through a long period without a partner or sex, then I do not know what to say. Hope it did help.
04/03/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Are you talking about female ejaculate (which you can be expelling without having an orgasm, it's thin and watery and fairly clear) or about vaginal secretion (mucous-y, thick)? They're different situations, with different causes, so perhaps it would be useful to clarify.
04/03/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I wish I had your problem. I miss the days of being really wet all the time.

All I can suggest is doing less of the things that increase wetness. For you, drink less water, eat less estrogenic foods like soy products and flax seeds and don't take vitamin E.
04/03/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Unclear to me...are you also very wet when you masturbate or is this a concern just during intercourse?
I have to disagree with Tuesday...to drink less water can cause dehydration. Not good.
04/03/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Liz2
Unclear to me...are you also very wet when you masturbate or is this a concern just during intercourse?
I have to disagree with Tuesday...to drink less water can cause dehydration. Not good.
You're right. That's not good health advice. I was just trying to list all the things I know that affect wetness.
04/03/2010
Contributor: thordora thordora
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
Are you talking about female ejaculate (which you can be expelling without having an orgasm, it's thin and watery and fairly clear) or about vaginal secretion (mucous-y, thick)? They're different situations, with different causes, so perhaps ... more
So far as I can tell, it would be the former.
04/03/2010
Contributor: thordora thordora
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
Unclear to me...are you also very wet when you masturbate or is this a concern just during intercourse?
I have to disagree with Tuesday...to drink less water can cause dehydration. Not good.
This is only happening when I'm with my partner. Everything is normal otherwise while rubbing one out by myself.

It might have a lot to do with the new partner thing, but while I appreciate the happy vulva and all, it makes getting off a fricken effort.
04/03/2010
Contributor: Heartthrob Heartthrob
Quote:
Originally posted by thordora
Yeah, I know-I've had a few women look at me like I had three heads, but it's getting super frustrating. I'm with a new partner, and my body has changed-now, there's just SOOOOO much lubrication that it's like a fricken slip and ... more
If you are having a problem attaining orgasm it's more than likely not caused by being overly wet. Have you been taking any new medications (don't answer that here)? Something new could make it harder to climax. If it's really a problem you can see a sex therapist who is trained in these issues.
04/03/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
I've always had this problem too. The only thing that I can do when this is happening is to either slow it down and spend some time pleasing my husband, or move my body in a position that doesn't particularly excite me. And keeping a towel nearby is always a good thing too. And if you're worried about the bedding, Liberator makes something called the "Throe" that is great at absorbing all wet messes. We got one a few months ago. And I don't know how I managed without it all these years.
04/03/2010
Contributor: misty53 misty53
I AM 56 I WAS LIKE THAT IN MY YOUNGER DAYS, ENJOY,,. NOW I CAN,T GET WET ,,IF I WAS SITTING IN A RIVER. ENJOY BEING TUNED ON BY A NEW PARNER
04/03/2010
Contributor: sweet sally sweet sally
well, at least i'm not the only one with this problem. lol
my bf calls me splash mountain sometimes.
it is frustrating when your sooooo wet you can't even feel anything anymore. i've pretty much always been like that when i really get turned on. since we've been together for 10 months and there's no sign of it slowing, i don't think it has to do w/ a new lover. (thank God)
so, i'm just thankful and giggle it off. BF doesn't mind taken a wet ride on splash mountain every once in a while.
10/14/2010
Contributor: socceras socceras
Quote:
Originally posted by thordora
Yeah, I know-I've had a few women look at me like I had three heads, but it's getting super frustrating. I'm with a new partner, and my body has changed-now, there's just SOOOOO much lubrication that it's like a fricken slip and ... more
never happened to me
10/17/2010
Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
I have the same problem a lot of the time and have yet to find something to slow the wetness down.
10/21/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Yeah, I've had this problem. After having my daughter though, I was less wet.
10/21/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Sounds like me...my husband is flattered lol. The only difference is I have no problem getting off. Good luck hun.
10/21/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I have the same problem with solo fun. I use a wash clothe when its really bad that my fingers or bullet wont stay on my clit. Its annoying and I tend to lose a lil of the excitement with having to wipe but I'd much rather be soaking than to be dry. Im not a huge fan of bought lube.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Latsyrc728 Latsyrc728
Quote:
Originally posted by thordora
Yeah, I know-I've had a few women look at me like I had three heads, but it's getting super frustrating. I'm with a new partner, and my body has changed-now, there's just SOOOOO much lubrication that it's like a fricken slip and ... more
I have the same problem. I sometimes use a towel, but then I am too dry and I normally can't feel it anymore. It sucks. Please let us know if you do get a better solution.
11/15/2010
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
Quote:
Originally posted by sweet sally
well, at least i'm not the only one with this problem. lol
my bf calls me splash mountain sometimes.
it is frustrating when your sooooo wet you can't even feel anything anymore. i've pretty much always been like that when i really ... more
They need to make a product that reduces wetness, like anti-lube. I'm sure it wouldn't be very healthy but I'm with you on the "it get's frustrating" part. It will feel really good the first few thrusts until I get juiced up and can't feel ANY friction.
02/02/2013
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
No haven't
02/02/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
I get really wet, but I don't think it's a problem; actually, it is a turn on for my man
02/03/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Not sure what to do.
02/03/2013
Contributor: F1akaLuvsE.F F1akaLuvsE.F
It could just be your new partner.. every persons body is different so some might lubricate more than others. i suggest keeping a small towel close by and just discreetly using it as your switching positions if you perfer not to say something about the extra lubrication.. i tend to get super wet with my husband but theres never really been a problem with that he seems to love it the wetter i am.. I hope it helped..
02/03/2013
Contributor: F1akaLuvsE.F F1akaLuvsE.F
As to you getting off try not to concentrate so much on the wetness ??? That should work??
02/03/2013
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
Im actually having the same problem right not. Its so wet to where I dont get te friction I want and cant get off. Havent found a solution yet.. A friend old me to put a dry tampon in for a little bit to help dry it out. I havent tried yet but might.
02/03/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by thordora
Yeah, I know-I've had a few women look at me like I had three heads, but it's getting super frustrating. I'm with a new partner, and my body has changed-now, there's just SOOOOO much lubrication that it's like a fricken slip and ... more
i have been to wet before. i seriously say hold on go wipe and come back.lol
02/03/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
My best advice is to wipe it off and see if it keeps doing that. Is it causing there to be not enough friction to allow you to orgasm? I could see that as a problem.
02/03/2013
Contributor: purpledesert purpledesert
I have this same problem, but only externally, I usually just wipe a little.
02/04/2013