When I let myself grow out I feel really self conscious. It doesn't matter if I'm with someone or not. It just doesn't work for me.

If my partner really wanted me to grow it all out i'd give it a shot for him. But really it's up to how you feel most comfortable with yourself.

Nicely trimmed.

Second option!

I just shave it bald.

I trim

im not a fan of totally hairless.

Wax(Brazilian)!

Sometimes I shave it all, sometimes just the labia, sometimes not at all. It depends on my mood, and I think all three looks are sexy.

Porn is detrimental to people's self esteem? I guess if you're a teenager and you have silly expectations for what's hot and what's not that would be true. Porn has so much variety in it anyway--I see all different types, and while it's true that shaved pussy is more common than not (and shaved balls, actually, but you never hear people complaining about that), there's definitely a fair share of the all natural look out there, and about 15 years ago and older, women in porn were almost always hairy...like, really hairy down there. And people still watch classic porn.

People should just do what they want and stop worrying about adults with minds of their own being brainwashed by pornography. Not all of us have such delicate self esteem and body image issues that we watch something and compare ourselves and our partner to it and decide that that must be reality. Porn is not reality. It's fantasy. If I dated someone who thought otherwise, I'd dump his ass in a second and find someone mature enough to understand this relatively simple concept.

Anyway...pussies of all types are lovely, whether they are shaved, partially shaved, trimmed, or wild and hairy. To each her own.

I like to shave it all. Hair is just gross down there.

When I was 12, I was partially shaved for the first time pre-surgery, (& for others throughout the years). The regrowth was so itchy & irritating that I didn't even think of trying it for myself until my 30's. When I removed it all, I had the same problems, plus a painful chafing feeling all the time without the buffer of hair, & no, powder didn't help. So, I decided to try just trimming & found I have the same problem as with shaving in that the cut end of the hair is blunt, scratchy & irritating. I don't like the feel of stubble anywhere on the skin. I can't imagine how uncomfortable it would be to go down on someone with any amount of stubble, not to mention the unattractiveness of red bumps, etc. At least when it's removed by the root, the regrowth is a naturally soft, tapered tip. My skin is too fragile for waxing or chemical removers, (but I'm going to try the No!No! on my legs). Apparently, my skin is just too damn sensitive, so for my groin, I'm au natural.

Once in a while I do some trimming but I HATE shaving and hate when my partners shave.

I definitely shave everything...

I can't stand hair on myself...doesn't matter what my partner likes.

Not shaved.

I get in-grown hairs too easily and don't have the time to shave that often. I would be shaving every day, if that were the case.

I mostly just trim, only when I feel like I'm getting too long (maybe weekly? I've never paid attention, but am throwing that out as a guess) or when I know I'm going to do a special event

I've shaved fr so long I can't remember when I started but I remember I was prolly in my late teens. Now I have the Coochy shave cream and I love it Even use it on my legs but couldn't imagine to have hair down there. But its strange cause I love my husband's pubic hair maybe its because he doesn't have very much because he is not a very hairy guy.

I shave or use hair removal cream on my cock and balls. I do this for several reasons, I think it looks nicer, it feels better, I like the way my metal cock rings feel when I'm smooth, and most important, my wife prefers giving my oral sex when I'm smooth because she doesn't get pubic hairs in her mouth.

My wife had laser hair removal on her pussy and pubic mound. We both like the look, she says it feels better, especially wearing panties in the Texas summers and I like giving her cunnilingus when she's smooth. They are both personal choices that were not driven by society or the porn industry.

shaved

I usualy do the whole ting.

I switch it up. For the past 6 months I've only shaved maybe 4 times. I'd rather trim and avoid razor burn or ingrowns after sex. I'm a lesbian too, and don't have a preference for what my partner chooses to do. A full on bush is a little overwhelming though.

I like it shaved.

We both shave, neither of us like hair downstairs. We do get lazy sometimes and skip a week though, I tend to stop for a bit if I get an ingrown hair or cut myself, then go back to it after healing.

The itch is terrible so I prefer to go natural, but when I'm going out I try to trim.

I shave, but not everything. I hate the feeling of hair growing back in certain areas and so it can be largely uncomfortable. I find a pair of scissors for trimming and/or an electric razor to do the best job since my skin is sensitive. Only time I do shave everything is in the summer if I am frequenting the beach.

my personal preference is not to shave, but from time to time i trim it up. i shaved in the past but it was too much work to keep up with before i got razor bumps/itching. i may be open to waxing, but i also dont care enough to get it done. my partner has no preference so either way is good for him.

I shave and prefer it shaved or a little something above the labia but nothing around