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Contributor: swaggsohott12 swaggsohott12
ladies have you ever with held sex purposly?
12/05/2011
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Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Withholding sex is stupid and kinda pointless. Sex is an activity, not a reward system... And it's an activity between two people, if someone withholds sex, guess who, besides the person it's being withheld from, isn't having sex?

There have certainly been times when I wasn't in the mood to have sex, but if I want my lover to understand that he did something wrong, there are better ways to do it...
12/05/2011
Contributor: BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
I would imagine if you're holding sex purposely, there are some issues that may need to be addressed. Like the PP stated, sometimes you may not be in the mood, but to hold back to make a point seems...well....pointl ess to me.
12/06/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
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Originally posted by swaggsohott12
ladies have you ever with held sex purposly?
I've been mad or annoyed and not wanted to have sex, but that was the result of my emotions, not a punishment.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
Nah.
12/07/2011
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
Quote:
Originally posted by swaggsohott12
ladies have you ever with held sex purposly?
when I was hurt or angry YES!
07/26/2012
Contributor: kq kq
same here but it kind of backfires when he gets off while I'm at work and I'm left to fend for myself thankfully my B.O.B (for those that do not get it -> ) is there to help!
08/03/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
Only when my vagina was out of commission for some reason (infection, soreness, whatever). But that just meant PIV sex was off the table; everything else could still happen.

Withholding sex for revenge or punishment is never a good idea. If I ever got to the point where I wanted to do that, I'd just end the relationship because it wouldn't be healthy.
08/03/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I never with held. I love sex too much.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Soulsekrou Soulsekrou
Yess because my man was being mean to me and the next day I pleased myself while he was at work.
03/10/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by swaggsohott12
ladies have you ever with held sex purposly?
nope
03/10/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by KrissyNovacaine
I never with held. I love sex too much.
amen lol
03/10/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by AndroAngel
Withholding sex is stupid and kinda pointless. Sex is an activity, not a reward system... And it's an activity between two people, if someone withholds sex, guess who, besides the person it's being withheld from, isn't having sex? ... more
agreed
03/10/2013
Contributor: marriedlady123 marriedlady123
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Originally posted by Soulsekrou
Yess because my man was being mean to me and the next day I pleased myself while he was at work.
yes...because we were fighting, but he never went for it, so i don't really know if that is withholding...
03/10/2013
Contributor: keeweepoo keeweepoo
i do everything purposefully!
03/10/2013