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Contributor: Kinkypixie Kinkypixie
Im 19 and have never had one..is something wrong with me?
01/26/2011
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Contributor: DixieDoo DixieDoo
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Originally posted by Kinkypixie
Im 19 and have never had one..is something wrong with me?
I'm not an expert by any standards, but I've heard of plently of women who are older and never had an orgasm. Have you really played around with different types of stimulations and seeing what turns you on?
01/26/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Nothing's wrong with you! You just need to figure out what you like, different things affect people differently. Maybe try a couple toys and spend time playing around with yourself - even if you don't get anywhere, at least it's fun, right? If you figure out what gets you off and want to orgasm with a partner, remember to communicate! They can't read your mind, but chances are they want you to feel good and will appreciate the help. Relax, enjoy yourself, and figure out what you like.
02/11/2011
Contributor: MMMARY MMMARY
I feel for you, I am 30 and have NEVER had one. Despite, various sex toys, positions, partners, or silly amounts of masturbation no luck yet...... but I have a HELL of a lot of fun trying! I always get RIGHT THERE, and cant get over that edge, yet, still hoping though! So I am no help, just wanted you to know your not the only one!
03/03/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I don't think anything is wrong with you. I wasn't able to orgasm at all in my teens and into my early 20's. It is not an uncommon problem for young women. It's totally normal. Something that can help, is not focusing so much on the orgasm. Just focus on how it feels. If it feels good, keep doing it, try doing it a little harder or a little faster too. If it doesn't feel good, try doing something else. If you can focus on how good it feels rather than the final objective of having an orgasm, it can help you relax and enjoy - and when you relax and enjoy an orgasm is more likely. Best wishes!

PS - Just wanted to add, although I started out slow in this department as a young woman, I currently usually have multiples every time. So don't lose hope!
03/03/2011
Contributor: Shayna! Shayna!
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Originally posted by MMMARY
I feel for you, I am 30 and have NEVER had one. Despite, various sex toys, positions, partners, or silly amounts of masturbation no luck yet...... but I have a HELL of a lot of fun trying! I always get RIGHT THERE, and cant get over that edge, yet, ... more
get a bullet and hold it on your clit while you are on top of your partner riding! it works
03/15/2011