I will only accept it as a lifestyle. I do not want to share my buy with ANYONE. If I'm with a guy, he is to be with me and me only, or he can go find the curb he was sitting on when I found him . I've been cheated on more than once by someone and that pain-I NEVER want to feel that heartache again.

I don't like sharing - I want to keep all the good stuff for myself.

My present relationship is a bit ambiguous - I'm not certain if we're just friends with benefits or if it'll grow into more than that down the line. Our meetings for the next year and a half are going to be quite sparse. With that being the case, I wouldn't blame him if he slept around a bit.

As far as official coupling goes, I'd prefer monogamy, however I would be open to the idea of an open relationship (no pun intended) or the occasional third partner so long as it was discussed extensively beforehand. If a guy cheats on me, then at the absolute least there'd be a lot of long talks and probably a few weeks of me being really fucking angry. If I felt it might happen again, I'd drop him like a rock.

I think it is good. Not necessary, but good for some people

I like the idea of it but it doesn't really work for me in practice. I start to get depressed after a while if I don't have the excitement of a new potential beau on the horizon. A "monogamish" setup is much better for me.

My hubby and I are both seriously into monogamy. We are with each other and will not entertain any ideas of others involved. We have our reasons and our own personal issues from the past--together, but monogamy is the only way we can function in our relationship.

Thanks everyone!

I'm not really into sharing my man with others, but to each their own. One person is more than enough work for me though!

I hate it.

I like it as a lifestyle for myself. However, I think there's a lot of stigma associated with non-monogamous relationships in our culture, and I don't think that's cool.

I like it. It makes my life easier right now.

I am beginning to wonder.

I wont express my oopinion

it's for me

Its the only way to go for me. I love my husband too much to be with someone else.