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Contributor: Glitterfly85 Glitterfly85
Whats the best way to maintain a healthy sexual life while your partner is away. I am going to be abstinent for about six months. What is the best way for me without cheating
09/22/2013
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Contributor: Pinkhotmess82 Pinkhotmess82
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Originally posted by Glitterfly85
Whats the best way to maintain a healthy sexual life while your partner is away. I am going to be abstinent for about six months. What is the best way for me without cheating
toys
09/22/2013
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
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Originally posted by Glitterfly85
Whats the best way to maintain a healthy sexual life while your partner is away. I am going to be abstinent for about six months. What is the best way for me without cheating
I would say finding sex toys that you enjoy and adore, and then enjoying and adoring them.
09/22/2013
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
find some ways to be intimate with your partner without being physically present. Like others have said, toys are great. But maybe try using them while talking on the phone or over Skype so your partner can be involved too and keep the connection going.
09/22/2013
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
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Originally posted by Taylor
find some ways to be intimate with your partner without being physically present. Like others have said, toys are great. But maybe try using them while talking on the phone or over Skype so your partner can be involved too and keep the connection ... more
That works too. You can also pair it with an OhMiBod toy, which is music controlled (but can respond to things like Skype if plugged in), to still have your partner be intimate with you in a certain sense.

I just got the Freestyle W and plugged it into my laptop for fun while chatting with a friend on Skype (to show her because I thought it was pretty cool) and it's relatively responsive.
09/23/2013
Contributor: peppermintgal peppermintgal
My partner is not here, we sext or use Skype a couple of times a week while using toys. Not as good as having him here, but it works okay.
09/23/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Toys, porn, phone sex, skype sex, etc
09/24/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I would say definitely stay in touch. Every night if not more. As everyone else says toys and more toys. Also stay busy with friends so you will not be too lonely. Go to the gym and workout, stay away from bars and the such.
09/24/2013
Contributor: MaeGal MaeGal
My boyfriend and I have phone sex and/ or sext a fair amount. It's mainly for his benefit. I'm content to masterbate for sometime without needing another person. He on the other hand needs are sex talks and even then he can barely stand it. Haha.
02/23/2014
Contributor: grimithen grimithen
SEX TOYSSSS!!!! =D less your a virgin... then try to find a hobby or go out constantly till you can't think of it no more.
03/08/2014