Large or small clit

Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Some women have large clit's some really small. I personlly dont have a larg clit but it's not the smallest. I'm not ashamed of it, i use to be growing up but once i became older i relized i'm actually lucky. When having sex, i can cum so easy. It's nothing i have to work at, so i've learned to love it. i cant now think of life without it. I've seen women with clit's almost the size of a small penis but then i've seen some so small it's like okay where is it?

How do you feel about it? How do you feel about larg clits and or small ones.

dont't worry about hurting my feelings, i just want to see what people really think.
05/19/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
I think I have a mid size, not large and not small. I would rather see a small or medium size than a large one.
05/19/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
Some women have large clit's some really small. I personlly dont have a larg clit but it's not the smallest. I'm not ashamed of it, i use to be growing up but once i became older i relized i'm actually lucky. When having sex, i can ... more
I have a relatively small clitoris. It is actually hidden until I am aroused. Once I become aroused, it pops out a bit. Almost the size of a pearl.

I feel fortunate that I can indeed have a clitoral orgasm. But I have heard from women with larger clits that they can orgasm easier DURING sex. This is something that I envy. I work at a women's health clinic and i volunteer at planned parenthood for sex talks and little group night occcasions. We have a lot of "Love Yourself" group nights where the women view pictures of various different types of vaginas.

That is how we got on the conversation of who can climax easier. Many of the large clit women said they can actually cum easier. So I don't completely agree if that is what you meant.

I do also wish that it was larger so my fiance could find it easier. After 5 years he has a pretty good idea, but mine is so easy to "lose" after a while. You can be rubbing the right area, but you have to somewhat stay on top of it by lifting the clitoral hood slightly. This is hard to do as you stimulate. He's got the hang of it 99.9% of the time, but we have our days.

Another thing is that women with larger clits (some of them) say that they are less sensitive to touch. You cannot hurt their clits easily. For me, that would be great because I often make myself sore from too much stimulation.

All in all, at the end of the day, I love myself. I preach it at health centers, I preach it to friends, and that is how I feel. I love my lady garden simply because it is mine. It's how God intended me to be. I am blessed to even be able to climax to begin with, so that's good enough for my. My fiance also says it's cute to have a smaller clitoris. He thinks girls with the large ones look a little deformed.
05/19/2011
Contributor: newlady newlady
I have the same issues as secrettoylover.

I've been married much longer, but have the exact same problem. Luckily, I have a very patient husband!
05/19/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
I've got quite a large clitoris (it nearly rivals that of a FTM trans person, but not quite). I would guess it's about the size of a larger lima bean when aroused, and maybe a larger kidney bean when not. I'm not sure if that's a good comparison. It's been awhile since I've seen those beans, heh.

Anyway, my clitoral size is due to PCOS. Even though I have a larger clitoris, I still find it difficult to orgasm during (normal, non-assisted) intercourse, but I've got a clit-o-steel. Am I more or less sensitive, sans clit-o-steeliness? I don't know.

I don't mind my clitoris, I like it, and I like that my partners don't have to consult a map to find it. As I'm getting treatment for PCOS, I don't know whether or not it will go down in size or not.
05/19/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
My SO has a small-medium sized clit. That does not, however, detract at all from its sensitivity! She orgasms from just clit stimulation and with the right action on it (my secret) she will squirt more than once a session.
05/19/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
I think I have a medium sized one.. lol
05/21/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I can't say that I can tell. I've been with a fair number of women and have never noticed much difference. I guess you could say that my experience is with 'average' size clitori - which I consider small when compared to most other body parts.
05/21/2011
Contributor: Brosia Brosia
I have a pretty large clit. I've never noticed a difference in performance when I compare it to the women I've been with. It's just easier to get your mouth around. Sorry, no hidden benefits here.
05/24/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
I have a relatively small clitoris. It is actually hidden until I am aroused. Once I become aroused, it pops out a bit. Almost the size of a pearl.

I feel fortunate that I can indeed have a clitoral orgasm. But I have heard from women with ... more
I have a similar problem. I don't have to have direct clit stimulation though, usually hitting spots immediately to side or above my clit do the job just as well though.
05/24/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Morphine
I have a similar problem. I don't have to have direct clit stimulation though, usually hitting spots immediately to side or above my clit do the job just as well though.
I read somewhere that the right side is most sensitive.
05/24/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Wow! There are actually clitorises as large as small penises? Holy heck I did not know that. I've never seen another person's clitoris so I really don't have any way of comparing, but mine is smaller than a pea. I like it I guess. I don't like other parts though. Mine is definitely what I call a gift! Actually my partner asked me earlier if I'd thanked God for my gift lol. I said "Why yes!"

Anyways, I'm kinda interested in seeing a really big one. Lol. Just because it made me curious about it. Mine is super sensitive and it takes no time at all to get me going unless I'm using a crappy vibe. When my partner licks it, wow! It's pretty quick. I hear people say they don't get much feeling from theirs and I feel bad for them! I get TONS from mine and even the slightest touch of vibrations through my jeans will perk him up! Lol.
05/26/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Annemarie
I've got quite a large clitoris (it nearly rivals that of a FTM trans person, but not quite). I would guess it's about the size of a larger lima bean when aroused, and maybe a larger kidney bean when not. I'm not sure if that's a good ... more
Aw! I'm sorry about the PCOS I hope it gets better! And I liked the "clit-o-steel" lol that was so funny!


In my opinion...
I don't see how the size would matter much. I mean, if my partner was turned off or didn't prefer my clit to be the size it is, I'd say take an FN hike! It's a clit! I don't think it's bad or ugly if one is tiny or if one is huge. I don't see how it would be less pretty. A bigger one is just easier to get to. I have a small one, but it peeks out a bit when it's been touched so it's about regular I guess. Still, I wouldn't think less of me if it were 5 times the size it is! I doubt my partner would be shallow enough to think less of me or think i'm not as pretty because of the size. Hell, what if I said I didn't like HIS size?! What now? Lol
05/26/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Mine's smaller I guess. I like to think it's about average though.
07/15/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
I read somewhere that the right side is most sensitive.
Really? I heard it was the left side. Its definitely the left side for me.

I have a bigger clitoris. It doesn't take me longer than average to get off but I definitely need more stimulation than average.
07/15/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
Some women have large clit's some really small. I personlly dont have a larg clit but it's not the smallest. I'm not ashamed of it, i use to be growing up but once i became older i relized i'm actually lucky. When having sex, i can ... more
You ask the most interesting questions. Keep 'em coming.
07/15/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I've never thought about the size, but after googling some photos, I apparently have a larger clit. No complaints from me, though: I'm happy with the pleasure it brings!
07/16/2011