I think it feels so much better, and my guy says he cant feel anything with a condom on. So for us we dont use one as it dont feel right with one on.
Is sex without a condom much better than with?
11/06/2010
doesn't matter
11/06/2010
My husband & both hate condoms. I have been out of birth control for several weeks and until I can get a refill we haven't had sex. I suggested to him we could use a condom and he say no he would rather wait. That's how bad he hates condoms! I am glad he wanted to wait since I hate condoms too. It just takes way of being able to feel his penis inside me. When we did it with a condom all I feel is the condom and not his penis.
11/06/2010
Makes more sensual experience to not use a condom
11/07/2010
When I was younger I couldn't tell the difference of a condom or no condom during sex. With my ex I could completely tell when he was or wasn't wearing one. I've only had unprotected sex with two men, both of which I loved deeply and was in a long committed relationship with.
Personally I think that wearing no condom feels a lot better than wearing one. The feeling of nothing being between you, just skin on skin.
Personally I think that wearing no condom feels a lot better than wearing one. The feeling of nothing being between you, just skin on skin.
11/10/2010
For me ... sex without is a lot more intimate... but again...thats just me...
11/11/2010
Sex is better without a condom, but its not worth the chance of getting pregnent.
11/18/2010
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It isn't the mess from vaginal lube or gushing (wife hasn't done that yet) that is the problem, it's the mess from after I orgasm that is. Once I pull out, it comes out as well, and gets on either the floor, bedding, or whatever we are over. Even the other day after having gone into the bathroom and wiped it away, when I was fingering my wife on the bed, some more still came out. Not a big deal by any means, and the last two times we did it without condoms, and it did feel nicer.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
For us convenience is never more important than pleasure - bring on the ejaculation and gushing!
Just wondering - how do you control the 'mess' from vaginal lubrication or even gushing - is there a condom for that too?
Just wondering - how do you control the 'mess' from vaginal lubrication or even gushing - is there a condom for that too?
11/18/2010
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Some messes are better than others! Messy sex is just one of those cases - glad to hear you're enjoying it as well!
Originally posted by
leatherlover
It isn't the mess from vaginal lube or gushing (wife hasn't done that yet) that is the problem, it's the mess from after I orgasm that is. Once I pull out, it comes out as well, and gets on either the floor, bedding, or whatever we are
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It isn't the mess from vaginal lube or gushing (wife hasn't done that yet) that is the problem, it's the mess from after I orgasm that is. Once I pull out, it comes out as well, and gets on either the floor, bedding, or whatever we are over. Even the other day after having gone into the bathroom and wiped it away, when I was fingering my wife on the bed, some more still came out. Not a big deal by any means, and the last two times we did it without condoms, and it did feel nicer.
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11/18/2010
As my husband told me in college; "Sex with a condom is like eating candy with the wrapper still on."
12/01/2010
It's much better without a condom. But I use them regardless.
12/01/2010
I can't recall what condoms feel like too well. I think the difference was usually subtle for me, I think for my significant other, too. I'm more bothered by the smell of some condoms and the look of them. I like the look of a bare member best. Ohohohoho!
We have been using the withdrawal method without fail for ten years, but it isn't something I recommend.
We have been using the withdrawal method without fail for ten years, but it isn't something I recommend.
12/03/2010
Sounds weird, but I've never had sex without a condom. I have an intense fear of pregnancy and my family line is fertile. Don't want to risk kids til I'm ready
12/03/2010
I love sex without a condom but with a new partner, it is always with a condom.
12/03/2010
I'm of the mindset that the best sex is that in which you feel pleasure in addition to security that you are limiting your risk to pregnancy or STIs to a level that you feel is safe enough for you. If you feel comfortable enough to try to have sex without a condoms, go for it! But if you are hesitant to take such a risk out of fear of pregnancy or STIs, sex without a condom is likely to heighten your anxieties and may well not be worth it.
12/05/2010
Always better without one on.
12/06/2010
I personally do not notice much of a difference, though my boyfriend says it is way better.
12/06/2010
I've had both, though J has never finished inside me. They don't feel the same to me, but neither one feels better than the other to me either.
12/06/2010
I prefer sex without a condom but I couldn't vote due to the inclusion of "I'll never go back" in the choices.
I absolutely will use a condom with someone I am not fluid bonded with or on toys that are less safe.
I absolutely will use a condom with someone I am not fluid bonded with or on toys that are less safe.
12/06/2010
If I know my partner is clean, I love it because it's more spontaneous. Also, there's less of that rubbery friction.
12/06/2010
Yes, it's wonderful. If only we didn't have to use a condom...She'd get pregnant if we didn't. Sigh...
12/11/2010
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agree here with him. the foreskin and condoms dont go together. I usually put a lot of lube before putting in a condom. that helps.
Originally posted by
Coralbell
I picked a little better. I can only feel a slight difference but my partner says it's a lot better since it feels warmer and because he's uncircumsized condoms interfere with the way his foreskin normally moves.
12/23/2010
I hate hate hate condoms.
My boyfriend and I are both clean and we have been faithful to each other for the last three years plus. Ya, we're fine without them.
My boyfriend and I are both clean and we have been faithful to each other for the last three years plus. Ya, we're fine without them.
12/23/2010
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ditto here. I can not cum with them on.
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Kindred
We never used condoms until recently after my wife gave birth. Neither of us are fans. I lost a lot of sensation and occasionally had difficulty climaxing wearing one. My wife also doesn't like them because the feel is different. She prefers
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We never used condoms until recently after my wife gave birth. Neither of us are fans. I lost a lot of sensation and occasionally had difficulty climaxing wearing one. My wife also doesn't like them because the feel is different. She prefers the feel of direct contact.
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12/23/2010
my wife and i dont have to worry about std's and she is using a IUD. Sex is so much better with out a condom.
12/24/2010
Much prefer the feel of without a condom but even more importantly not needing to interrupt everything to put one on as well as the freedom to have sex anywhere anytime (that's permitting) without having to carry around condoms.
12/27/2010
We have been condom free for the majority of our fourteen year relationship. I could never go back to using condoms and there is a strict NO CONDOM policy in our household. If we find one, there is something up. This is obviously specific to our relationship and trust boundaries. However, I would never ever recommend someone have sex without protection if the proper prerequisite testing had not occurred.
I would love to ditch all methods of birth control in favor of him being snipped. We haven't fully researched this matter and he has concerns as any normal would.
I would love to ditch all methods of birth control in favor of him being snipped. We haven't fully researched this matter and he has concerns as any normal would.
12/27/2010
For me it totally depends. If you are using some other form of birth control, and totally trust your partner - yes it's wonderful. But, if you have to be afraid of pregnancy or an STD - no it's awful just due to the worry aspect.
01/31/2011
Its better without but, if your looking to not get preggo use em.
02/19/2011
It's so much better without one. I can't stand condoms at all.
02/19/2011