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Is it possible to learn to squirt?

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Contributor: Fullbeauty Fullbeauty
This is something I've wondered about for a while, so I figured I should ask some advice on the subject.

I've never squirted, in fact, I don't even really cream when I cum. I've heard that there are toys that can help you squirt, and that every woman can learn to do it. I'm just wondering how much truth there is in that idea. Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks
04/10/2011
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Contributor: bunny love bunny love
So far I've only squirted when my boyfriend uses g-spot toys on me. It took us a little while, and he had to go a lot harder and faster than he had before. It was SO worth the effort! I once squirt so hard that I hit his arm; it was one of the best orgasms I've ever had. It felt like complete release.

I bought the book Female Ejaculation & The G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl a couple months ago. It has a lot of great information about finding your g-spot and how to stimulate it so you will squirt. I highly recommend it!

The instructional porno Expert Guide to G-Spot by Tristan Taormino is really informative and fun, too!

It typically takes hard pressure and a bit of time to stimulate your g-spot enough to squirt. Don't get discourage if you don't squirt the first time you try the new techniques. It took me a awhile
04/11/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
there are many DVD's to help you learn to squirt. Nina Hartley puts out a good guide for learning.
04/11/2011
Contributor: Fullbeauty Fullbeauty
Thanks for the info! I think I need to check out some of these books and videos. I spend a lot of time as a cam model, and constantly have men asking me to do it, and it's frustrating to tell them I can't. Thanks again!
04/11/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
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Originally posted by Fullbeauty
Thanks for the info! I think I need to check out some of these books and videos. I spend a lot of time as a cam model, and constantly have men asking me to do it, and it's frustrating to tell them I can't. Thanks again!
You're welcome!

I've heard that a lot of people have been able to squirt for the first time using the Pure Wand. I don't own one...yet

Good luck!
04/12/2011
Contributor: Fullbeauty Fullbeauty
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Originally posted by bunny love
You're welcome!



I've heard that a lot of people have been able to squirt for the first time using the Pure Wand. I don't own one...yet



Good luck!
OMG, I love njoy products! I'd love to try that one! hmmm....maybe next pay period hehe
04/14/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
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Originally posted by Fullbeauty
OMG, I love njoy products! I'd love to try that one! hmmm....maybe next pay period hehe
Dude! It looks so cool! I held one at a sex shop, and has an awesome heft to it. I can't wait to get one.
04/14/2011
Contributor: Fullbeauty Fullbeauty
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Originally posted by bunny love
Dude! It looks so cool! I held one at a sex shop, and has an awesome heft to it. I can't wait to get one.
I have the pure plug small, and my guy owns the pure plug 2.0, and they have a great heft to them as well! I love the feel of the nice solid stainless steel. Yay for njoy
04/14/2011
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I don't know many people who just know how to squirt. I think most of us have learned. Might I recommend Deborah Sudhal's book? Other's like the Njoy products and they are made well but don't do it for me. A cheapo vibrator works better for me now but I think the thing that kick started my G-spot was K-balls. I'm a little outside the norm, though.
04/14/2011
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
I have only recently squirted for the first time. Friday, actually. And have done it twice since then. I was surprised to find that it actually wasn't about stimulating my G-spot for me, at least not internally. I use a wand massager.

But I think it's different for every woman and probably not every woman can. It's part physical and part mental. I probably could have learned to do it much earlier but I kinda held it in, like I was holding back peeing. It's all about relaxing and going further past than what you think you can handle and just being comfortable with it.

Of course, now I need a throe because I can't keep washing my bedsheets...
04/17/2011
Contributor: Fullbeauty Fullbeauty
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
I have only recently squirted for the first time. Friday, actually. And have done it twice since then. I was surprised to find that it actually wasn't about stimulating my G-spot for me, at least not internally. I use a wand massager. ... more
Congratulations on learning to squirt! My guy and I have decided that we're going to try to teach me how. I figure even if we don't succeed, we'll have a hell of a lot of fun trying!!!
04/17/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
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Originally posted by Fullbeauty
I have the pure plug small, and my guy owns the pure plug 2.0, and they have a great heft to them as well! I love the feel of the nice solid stainless steel. Yay for njoy ... more
Ooo! I'm jealous! I'm still a little intimidated by a stainless steel butt plug, but I know I would fall in love with it instantly
04/17/2011
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
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Originally posted by Fullbeauty
Congratulations on learning to squirt! My guy and I have decided that we're going to try to teach me how. I figure even if we don't succeed, we'll have a hell of a lot of fun trying!!!
That's exactly what I think is best! Just relax, be comfortable, laugh every now and then, and have loads of fun! Good luck!
04/17/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
I have only recently squirted for the first time. Friday, actually. And have done it twice since then. I was surprised to find that it actually wasn't about stimulating my G-spot for me, at least not internally. I use a wand massager. ... more
Congratulations! Isn't it fun!?

I totally agree with you about the mental aspect. There were times in the past where I felt like I was going to pee, but held back the feeling.

I no longer associate that feeling with needing to pee. I now recognize it as a pleasurable feeling that leads to awesome orgasms. It's kind of like how butt play reminded me of pooping at first. I now recognize it as a totally different feeling that is erotic rather than, er, poopy.
04/17/2011
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
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Originally posted by bunny love
Congratulations! Isn't it fun!?



I totally agree with you about the mental aspect. There were times in the past where I felt like I was going to pee, but held back the feeling.



I no longer associate that feeling with ... more
I think that's a great comparison! Don't be afraid of what you think it feels like. Besides, even if you did end up making a mess of the less sexy nature, be comfortable with yourself and your partner and just giggle about it. I say it's love when you can accidentally poo or pee and the sex was still great and your and your partner still had fun!
04/17/2011
Contributor: Fullbeauty Fullbeauty
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Originally posted by bunny love
Congratulations! Isn't it fun!?



I totally agree with you about the mental aspect. There were times in the past where I felt like I was going to pee, but held back the feeling.



I no longer associate that feeling with ... more
Maybe that's the key.....to just let myself go a bit more mentally. I know that feeling when you first start with ass play, it feels kinda like needing to poop, but it's SO much better. Interesting...
04/18/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
I think that's a great comparison! Don't be afraid of what you think it feels like. Besides, even if you did end up making a mess of the less sexy nature, be comfortable with yourself and your partner and just giggle about it. I say it's ... more
Thanks!

I gotta say, one of the best things my boyfriend has ever told me was when we were trying to get me to squirt for the first time. I was still a little bit worried about the "need to pee" feeling even though I knew that was a good sign. He reassured me, "You're not going to pee. Even if you did, it wouldn't be a big deal. Hell, if you need to pee to have the most amazing orgasm ever, then I'm more than okay with it."

It was fantastically reassuring (it made me love him even more ), and hey, I didn't pee!
04/21/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
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Originally posted by Fullbeauty
Maybe that's the key.....to just let myself go a bit more mentally. I know that feeling when you first start with ass play, it feels kinda like needing to poop, but it's SO much better. Interesting...
Go for it! Good luck!
04/21/2011