I'm So Confused! Need some help about G-Spot/P-Spot/and Other Stuff

Contributor: Breas Breas
Hey everyone!

So I did a number of searches on the forums but didn't find the specific answers I was looking for. This may be a bit long because I'm trying to explain my questions the best I can.

So I recently received a toy to review and the diagrams have me slighty confused. I've never had a G-spot orgasm (though I think I've stimulated it more than once). From everything that I've read, and things I've looked up in google images, the G spot would be found by doing a "come hither" motion with your fingers. So that's basically towards your belly button, not the other way around, right? I'm pretty sure this is correct because that's what most people here have said in different threads and also what I found doing searches on google. I'd like some confirmation though.

The other thing I was wondering about is:

Is there any area that can be stimulated inside of a woman's anus or vagina that beings with the letter "P". I was reading a thread that stated women do not have a "P" Spot, only men, but this diagram has a little dot on it that has the letter "P" on it. The first image shows the "P" being stimulated by the toy being inserted into the vagina, and facing backwards (so it's not towards the belly button, it's the "come hither" in the opposite direction). And then there is ANOTHER photo that shows the toy in the anus, and the direction of the curve of the toy is again, the opposite direction of the belly button.

Lastly, I'm seeing diagrams that show the P-spot on the MALE and this area would also be stimulated with a curve that's curved towards the belly button. Is that right?

I hope I explained these questions well enough. If I didn't, let me know so I can try and explain a bit better.

Thanks so much!
02/28/2013
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Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
So if i am not mistaken the P-spot is the prostate which is only on a man. Which would be the come hither in the direction of the belly button on a dude the G-spot is yes the come hither to the belly button on a woman. If i do the come hither enough and hard enough on myself or my husband does it it makes me squirt. So i dont know if that counts as a g-spot orgasm. I am not sure what the P-spot on the woman would be?? you got me there never heard of that. All i know is chicks have a g-spot men have a p-spot. hope this helps.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by Adnerbmw
So if i am not mistaken the P-spot is the prostate which is only on a man. Which would be the come hither in the direction of the belly button on a dude the G-spot is yes the come hither to the belly button on a woman. If i do the come hither enough ... more
Thanks for the reply! I'm more confused about the letter "P" being marked as a stimulation point on the woman's body. I figured that maybe someone here knew something about that. I may just send a message to the company asking about it.
02/28/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Found this:

• What is the P–Spot?
The P–Spot is the specific spot named by me in the honour of Poornachandra Nadi, as mentioned in the book Anangaranga, an ancient Indian Kamashastra (science of sex) text of 16th century. This is an area full of secretory glands in the para–urethral region. This is responsible for the ejaculatory orgasm of the woman. This is a new concept in the female sexuality. This explains the finding of some of the scientists that some women do have discharge through their urinary tract at the time of orgasm. Most women do ejaculate when their G–Spot is stimulated. But some may ejaculate even without the stimualtion of the G–Spot. This latter condition can be explained by the postulation of the P–Spot.


Read it on this site.

I had never heard of such a thing either.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Found this:

• What is the P–Spot?
The P–Spot is the specific spot named by me in the honour of Poornachandra Nadi, as mentioned in the book Anangaranga, an ancient Indian Kamashastra (science of sex) text of 16th century. This is an area ... more
Interesting! I wish they had a diagram though, that way I could see if it's the same spot that the toy is supposed to stimulate. I ended up sending a message to the company.
02/28/2013
Contributor: phoenixfire phoenixfire
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Found this:

• What is the P–Spot?
The P–Spot is the specific spot named by me in the honour of Poornachandra Nadi, as mentioned in the book Anangaranga, an ancient Indian Kamashastra (science of sex) text of 16th century. This is an area ... more
Interesting reading POP, thanks for linking it.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Missy27 Missy27
Thanks for posting. Good to know I'm not the only person confused about some of this.
02/28/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
I get to contribute valid information! It's called the p-spot because it medically known as the perineum.
02/28/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
Interesting! I wish they had a diagram though, that way I could see if it's the same spot that the toy is supposed to stimulate. I ended up sending a message to the company.
Let us know what they have to say in response!
02/28/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
Interesting! I wish they had a diagram though, that way I could see if it's the same spot that the toy is supposed to stimulate. I ended up sending a message to the company.
Let us know what they have to say in response!
02/28/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
OOOOOOOPPSSSS!!!!!

I honestly thought I knew it was the prostrate after I read an article about it in a well known men's magazine...damn it!!

Thanks POP & MrW for the answers!! Great questions sktb!!
02/28/2013
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
I get to contribute valid information! It's called the p-spot because it medically known as the perineum.
Thank you!!! I looked up a diagram and wanted to ask you:


Looking at this diagram, it would make sense that the perineum is stimulated by inserting the toy vaginally, and having the curve facing backwards (the opposite direction of the belly button). But this "P" spot (according to the toy's included diagram) also seems to be stimulated on one of the diagrams by inserting the toy into the anus, with the curve facing the opposite way (again, away from the belly button). Wouldn't the curve need to be directed towards the belly button when inserted into the anus for it to stimulate this area?
02/28/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
Thank you!!! I looked up a diagram and wanted to ask you:


Looking at this diagram, it would make sense that the perineum is stimulated by inserting the toy vaginally, and having the curve facing backwards (the opposite direction of the ... more
Not necessarily. The toy being inserted anally will cause pressure on the perineum. Think of it this way: the sphincter muscle gets spread, putting pressure on all surrounding tissue. The only reason (I believe) that the same idea doesnt apply vaginally is because there isn't a muscle in the right place to put indirect pressure on the perineum from the "walls"
02/28/2013
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
Not necessarily. The toy being inserted anally will cause pressure on the perineum. Think of it this way: the sphincter muscle gets spread, putting pressure on all surrounding tissue. The only reason (I believe) that the same idea doesnt apply ... more
Thank you so much! Your explanation makes sense to me. I emailed the company earlier today and I'm hoping that I hear back tomorrow from them. I'll update here with what they said as soon as I receive the response!
03/01/2013
Contributor: Breas Breas
Hey everyone who was interested!

I received a response from the company. This is what they said:

The P-spot stands for the spot located opposite to the G-spot, in the opposite side of vagina. It resembles the male P-spot and it is very sensitive for both men and women.

Hm... so is this response talking about the prostate? Or is it confirming what Mr. Willy was saying? I feel that it's quite vague. I think I prefer Mr. Willy's explanation lol.
03/01/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
Hey everyone who was interested!

I received a response from the company. This is what they said:

The P-spot stands for the spot located opposite to the G-spot, in the opposite side of vagina. It resembles the male P-spot and it is very ... more
Strange response and very vague!
03/01/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
In my honest and humble opinion (as I do not claim to be an expert by any means) this is just creative marketing.

Take an erogenous zone everyone has (the perineum in this case), take the first letter, and a hyphen and spot.

There you have it! A brand new marketing tool!


I'm oversimplifying things I'm sure, but realistically that seems to be what is going on here.

All of this is related to the Pudendal Nerve which actually is responsible for ennervating the exterior genitals in both sexes. Stimulus to the perineum stimulates this nerve in both males and females (no offense to anyone that doesn't identify either way. I am speaking in a purely anatomical/biological sense). The spasms that are unequivocally essential for a physical orgasm, are cause by stimulation of this nerve and the nerves that branch from it. Consider this nerve the trunk of your tree of sexuality.

It's confusing and misleading that they are using it as another spot to try to sell women toys because it does seem to just be creative marketing, although I've yet to meet a woman who didn't like being touched/licked/rubbed between the posterior side of her vaginal opening and her ass hole.


At it's simplest: Yes, toys marketed for the "female p-spot" will indeed stimulate the perineum and the pudendal nerve.. but the P-spot is the prostate. Any other use of it is creative marketing and the invention of another selling feature.


I'm not bashing the company for creativity, and as I don't know what toy you are speaking of I'm not bashing a particular toy... but this can certainly lead to confusion for everyone. I think it stems from not wanting to put overly clinical sounding terms on a toy box.



In lay-mens terms: Play with yourself and see if you like the sensations you get from the space between your pussy and ass. If you do, go for it.. but it shouldn't be called the p-spot on women's toys.
03/01/2013
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
In my honest and humble opinion (as I do not claim to be an expert by any means) this is just creative marketing.

Take an erogenous zone everyone has (the perineum in this case), take the first letter, and a hyphen and spot.

There you ... more
Shoot. You are incredible. Thank you so, so, So, SO much!
03/01/2013
Contributor: solly solly
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
In my honest and humble opinion (as I do not claim to be an expert by any means) this is just creative marketing.

Take an erogenous zone everyone has (the perineum in this case), take the first letter, and a hyphen and spot.

There you ... more
I was a bit confused at first too but this makes a lot more sense, thanks for clearing things up!
03/01/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
MrWilly is amazing!!!!!
03/01/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Ha ha I typed that in a bit of an informative fury, so forgive my spelling and grammar errors! Thanks for the love ladies!
03/01/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
Thanks for this discussion, sktb0007, and for your contributions, MrWilly and PropertyOfPotter. This has been educational!
03/01/2013