A friend of mine said "start small" but I have no idea what to get! Do I get lubes? Do I get a bullet? What do I get????
How do you spice up your sex?
05/29/2013
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I would start with massage oil candles or a tingling lube. Also, I like finding a new lingerie set and texting my partner a pic of me in it while he is at work.
06/12/2013
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There are several products we've explored thanks to Eden that have really helped. One of my favorites is flavored lube. Not that I mind my husband's taste, but it adds an element of excitement to oral. I also like wearing lingerie for him. Now that I'm pregnant, the Babydoll style works best, but you could experiment with what you like. Our very FAVORITE item in our collection is the Mio cock ring. There are a lot of lower end c-rings available, and we've tried some, but they don't come near the convenience (being rechargeable) and strength of Mio. I love that it allows me to have a hands-free orgasm when we're making love. I used points to buy mine but I would shell out the cash in a second if I had to. Hope that helps!
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TiffanyW
A friend of mine said "start small" but I have no idea what to get! Do I get lubes? Do I get a bullet? What do I get????
06/12/2013
Okay...first...deep breath. This is sex not rocket science. No one gets hurt (mostly) and its completely natural. We know so little about your situation it is hard to say buy this or buy that.
second, you have to make a decision to talk to your partner about spicing things up, even if he or she doesn't see it, or thinks everything is "ok", they probably wouldn't mind if you asked to start exploring different fantasies or sex toys together. If he or she does...ask if you explored by yourself. Ask if you can surprise them with something sexy chances are...they will not say no to that!
once this is done...you can start to figure out how to start small and what you should look at. My wife and I first got a pair of handcuffs because she knew I wanted to tie her up...and the cuffs were a great starting point.
if you are flying completely blind and your partner doesn't have anything to help you and you have never used a sex toy, I recommend a simple vibrator to get started. Doesn't have to be much but it will get you learning (in a hurry) what you like and don't like.
second, you have to make a decision to talk to your partner about spicing things up, even if he or she doesn't see it, or thinks everything is "ok", they probably wouldn't mind if you asked to start exploring different fantasies or sex toys together. If he or she does...ask if you explored by yourself. Ask if you can surprise them with something sexy chances are...they will not say no to that!
once this is done...you can start to figure out how to start small and what you should look at. My wife and I first got a pair of handcuffs because she knew I wanted to tie her up...and the cuffs were a great starting point.
if you are flying completely blind and your partner doesn't have anything to help you and you have never used a sex toy, I recommend a simple vibrator to get started. Doesn't have to be much but it will get you learning (in a hurry) what you like and don't like.
06/12/2013
I would start out small. Introduce him to something smaller, a bullet, or maybe you two can sit down and try to find something together. If you want to surprise him, do a sexy piece of lingerie, maybe a cock ring with a vibrating bullet.
07/02/2013
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