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Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I kinda love my breasts, they're 40D's, sometimes they feel too small because I'm so tall... I guess I feel like with my shoulder span or something they should be bigger.
Most of the women in my family are DD's or DDD's so it also makes me feel like an oddball.

However, my boyfriend loves them and says they're perfectly bouncy, soft and yummy.
And, I guess I just haven't thought much on it.
10/18/2010
Contributor: null null
I wish they were a tad larger, but it's kinda nice to have little-ish ones sometimes. They suit my body pretty well.
10/20/2010
Contributor: Mnemosyne Mnemosyne
I really dislike mine. I'm 19 and they're awful looking due to rapid weight loss. ;\ But all the same they're a part of me and Im trying to accept that. I'll probably get surgery one day.
10/23/2010
Contributor: [[M@R!3]] [[M@R!3]]
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Originally posted by Mnemosyne
I really dislike mine. I'm 19 and they're awful looking due to rapid weight loss. ;\ But all the same they're a part of me and Im trying to accept that. I'll probably get surgery one day.
I understand how you feel. After I got out of a terrible relationship i weighed 140. I began to weight train every single morning & dropped to 125. I loved my breast before since they were nice and round, but now they're small. I'm also trying to accept my body the way it is.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
Breastfeeding for 21 months killed them. They bounced back a bit once my son was finished with them, but I'm due with #2 in December, so I get to go through the flat, floppy, all-around sad boob drama all over again.
10/23/2010
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
Mine suit me. They're smaller than a lot of women's, but since I'm built like a 12-year-old anyway, it's all in proportion.
Same here... I wish mine were a bit bigger though.
10/24/2010
Contributor: CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
for the most part i love my boobs but i do wish they were more even. i notice though that guys often miss the uneveness...lol something about focusing on having boobs to play with and not the imperfections.
10/24/2010
Contributor: GeekWife GeekWife
Started as a 36DD, went up to a 38F/G after my son, and never went back. I have to buy my bras online because regular stores don't carry anything above a DDD cup They aren't cheap either. And very rarely they are cute as well. Bah.
10/24/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I voted that they're saggy and perfect. If I hadn't had children, I'd probably just think they're too saggy, but the truth is, the sagginess is a result of having two beautiful girls and I think that the bodies of women who have had babies (no matter what disfigurement may have resulted) are beautiful. It's a vessel of life and that's an amazing and beautiful thing.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
I was once offered a free breast surgery by a former lover. That moment I looked down, and took a real good look at my tits. I realized then that I love them just the way they are.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by NaughtyButterfly
I am overall very pleased with mine, the hubby enjoys them, but sometimes I wiss they didn't sag. After 2 kids they just aren't the same, but I will ditto what others have said & say I did it for my kids & I'm proud of that.
Oh totally. I am a DD and my breasts would SWELL when they were full, and deflate when they were emptied. This wreaks havoc on everything in that area. Also my nipples are all chewed up now.

I think there should be nipple stipulations in here. My nipples don't bother me now, but when I was younger they drove me crazy and I was very self conscious. I have one semi inverted nipple and the other is fine. The one is normally flat or concave when the other is generally sticking out slightly. Thank god they both pop to attention when stimulated.
10/30/2010
Contributor: popples popples
I have such problems with buying bras. It's aggravating. Sometimes, I hate my breasts because they're so big sometimes I don't. One thing I hate is being gawked at when I wear a tank top during the summer.
10/30/2010
Contributor: Aly890 Aly890
I am a DD after 2 kids. They just get it the way. They need to be down sized
10/30/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I love my breasts. They're just the right size for me!!
10/30/2010
Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
I hate my breasts. My right side is about a full cup size smaller than my left side, and after breastfeeding my daughter for a day short of thirteen months they are a little bit saggy, or at least appear so to me. They're just to small for any clothing that I would like to wear or for me to feel amazingly comfortable with my shirt off. :/
10/31/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I feel mine are way too small. Because I have been exercising and dieting, they have gotten even smaller and are pretty flabby. I am kind of considering implants, though I'm not seriously considering it yet.
10/31/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
as long as there natural i am happy
11/06/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I chose other because I think mine are nice but I always wanted larger ones. Like the size I had while breast feeding. I lost my pregger weight and I swear my boobs shrank too much. Hubby is just as happy with them so I can't complain but still I'd like em a lil bigger.
11/06/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I think mine are too small, but I don't really care to do anything about it. All of the women in my family are much larger than me, though they also complain about back pain. A smaller chest means I can wear junior's bras, too, which sometimes look way cooler than misses.
11/13/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I am a full 38D and in my late 30's. My husband thinks my boobs are perfect, and more than a handful. In the last several years they have begun to sag just a bit. I am thinking I would like a bit of a lift but very nervous about surgery.
11/15/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Unconventional
Breastfeeding for 21 months killed them. They bounced back a bit once my son was finished with them, but I'm due with #2 in December, so I get to go through the flat, floppy, all-around sad boob drama all over again.
It takes up to 6 months after a baby is weaned (if you don't get pregnant again soon) for the fat deposits to redistribute from your body. Many women have the "great deflate" after breastfeeding, but it's temporary. No, you won't look exactly like you did before having children,but it's the pregnancy that breaks down the mesh of tissue that keeps breasts "perky" not breastfeeding. I will pretty much guarantee that 6 months or less after your next baby is completely done with weaning, you will have a good version of your old breasts back. Albeit, a little farther South than the Pre-Baby version.



Congrats on the pregnancy! Blessings for a happy birth and healthy baby.
11/15/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Tart
I was once offered a free breast surgery by a former lover. That moment I looked down, and took a real good look at my tits. I realized then that I love them just the way they are.
GOOD for you! I love mine, too.

I also feel that having my kids matured my body and my breasts. Medically, the breast isn't done developing until one has breastfed. Most people don't know that. The use of the ducts and ductiles and tubules not only develops the breasts, but also clears them regularly, "cleans" the ducts and ductiles and reduces the risk of breast cancer.

Pretty good deal, I think.

And I need to reiterate that PREGNANCY causes breakdown of the connective tissue that accelerates "sagging" as does your genetics, NOT breastfeeding . Breastfeeding is what breasts are supposed to do, and does not "damage them" in any way, quite the opposite.

11/15/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
sometimes i wish they were bigger, sometimes i wish they were smaller but really i love them just the way they are =)
11/15/2010
Contributor: GuiltyMask GuiltyMask
I have what I heard a person call it once an upside down broccli shape. But I've come to terms with it.
11/19/2010
Contributor: Kinkyquing Kinkyquing
I put 'other' and 'I don't like them'--thought I could have easily also checked 'they're too big'. All of these are fitting due to my gender identity--I actually plan on having a mastectomy as soon as I have the money/psych. letters.
11/19/2010
Contributor: flamefire flamefire
I've had the same breast size ever since I hit puberty. Back then they looked huge on me being a 32D at 5ft5in. But now I've grown into them over the years and I still should be around 34D at 5ft8in, but I lost some weight recently and they should be more like C's now...I liked having bigger breasts before, but now that they don't seem that big I kind of miss my old ones lol. :/
11/21/2010
Contributor: lemony lemony
I enjoy my boobs, as do others.
11/21/2010
Contributor: sunnie sunnie
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Originally posted by RainbowBrite
i have always been an A-cup and after breastfeeding 3 boys for almost a year each they have definitely decreased in size. While I do feel they are too small & flat, I honestly don't care (nor does my husband)about the size. I wish they were ... more
Your story is the same as mine except I only have one baby.
11/21/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I usually think my 34As are way too small, but I have a petite frame so I guess it's fine.
11/23/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
My breasts have recently changed, it's a normal stage in aging. Andrea Lowell is around my age and she commented on the Playboy Morning Show how all of a sudden her breasts were larger. She didn't really know why or how and I started hearing other women around my age make comments about the changes they were experiencing.

At first I was apprehensive. OMG, I don't have 18 year old perkies anymore but so what? I've got, what I think and what my beloved thinks is, a pretty nice rack and I'm going with it. They aren't too large, they aren't too small, hang where they should and have begun to bounce during playtime - something he finds to be absolutely fantastic as I'd never had that before. It would just be my nipples or the sides that moved and now it's my entire breast. It doesn't get much better than this!
11/23/2010