How do you feel about the size of your vulva/vagina?

Contributor: Average Joe Average Joe
Men, feel free to answer how you feel about your partner's vulva/vagina.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
My genital area is too large.
42
My genital area is too small.
6
The interior feels too loose.
31
The interior feels too tight.
44
My vaginal canal is too short.
54
I don't care about how I feel or appear internally.
45
My labia is too large.
86
My labia is too small.
8
My labia is too hairy.
33
I don't care what my labia looks like.
64
My clitoris is too small.
32
My clitoris is too large.
12
I don't care how my clitoris looks.
107
There are things I would change about the appearance of my genital area.
107
There are things I would change about the feel, tightness, or stretch of my internal canal.
46
Overall, I'm satisfied with the appearance of my genital area.
270
Overall, I am unsatisfied with the appearance of my genital area.
28
Overall, I'm satisfied with the interior tightness or stretch of my vagina.
229
Overall, I'm dissatisfied with the interior tightness or stretch of my vagina.
23
Other
33
Total votes: 1300 (426 voters)
Poll is closed
06/28/2009
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Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Not quite sure how to answer this. Should I vote on my whole vulva, just my vagina, or both?
06/28/2009
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
I am not concerned with mine's appearance, the only thing that's bothersome is that I'm internally pretty shallow, which makes toy use with partners a bit of a challenge.
06/28/2009
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
I think I look pretty, and my partner does, too. I sometimes wish I could be stretchier without needing to warm up first, but other times I like how tight I can be. So...a little unsure about which boxes to check but I like this survey! I am surprised it seems like everyone so far has said they are too shallow. I didn't know that was a common thing.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Well, I'm not a thin person. I don't have a thin vulva and it feels noticeable but I don't stress about it. Internally and clitorally, however, I don't give a crap.
06/29/2009
Contributor: imp imp
I don't really compartmentalize or want to change anything although it would be nice not to have a Clit-O-Steel lol. I am surprised at the high vote regarding the vaginal canal being too short though? I like my cervix being hit lol.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Nashville Nashville
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Originally posted by imp
I don't really compartmentalize or want to change anything although it would be nice not to have a Clit-O-Steel lol. I am surprised at the high vote regarding the vaginal canal being too short though? I like my cervix being hit lol.
Oh god, that's the worst! I have a very sensitive cervix and after I had an IUD it hasn't been the same- I will never forget how painful sex was when I had it in and even for a year after it was taken out.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
Quote:
Originally posted by imp
I don't really compartmentalize or want to change anything although it would be nice not to have a Clit-O-Steel lol. I am surprised at the high vote regarding the vaginal canal being too short though? I like my cervix being hit lol.
I'm among the women who find it very painful to get my cervix hit; it happens on a regular basis if we're not careful, so I'd like my canal to be longer to avoid the whole issue.

Otherwise I'm pretty satisfied. I mean, if was able to change anything without surgery, I'd also make my vulva symmetrical (they're very NOT. It doesn't bug him, but I find it annoying, and in some positions, irritating).
06/29/2009
Contributor: imp imp
Yup I'm weird. It changes during the month as to how much I do or don't like it. Hormones play a big part too.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Valyn Valyn
On having my cervix get hit, it depends on the time of the month. Sometimes it's really uncomfortable, and other days I love having something (toy/partner) in so deep.

Like Luscious Lily, I'd much prefer symmetry. One labium is quite a bit bigger than the other, and while the boyfriend likes how I look, I've had a half a mind to just cut the stupid thing to size (I'd NEVER do it.. scissors have NO PLACE near those areas)!
06/30/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I think vulvas are gorgeous. The Everyday Vulvas Project at VaginaPagina proved that to me (you need to be a member of the group to see it, though, which is a bit of a shame; still, it's TOTALLY worth it): link
06/30/2009
Contributor: LilyLust LilyLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I think vulvas are gorgeous. The Everyday Vulvas Project at VaginaPagina proved that to me (you need to be a member of the group to see it, though, which is a bit of a shame; still, it's TOTALLY worth it): link ... more
I'm part of live journal, but I can't access it. it keeps telling me I'm not authorized Is there a like to the group I could join?
07/24/2009
Contributor: Undressed Reviews Undressed Reviews
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Originally posted by Average Joe
Men, feel free to answer how you feel about your partner's vulva/vagina.
Where's the "I fucking love my vagina" option?
That would have been my choice.
07/27/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by Nashville
Oh god, that's the worst! I have a very sensitive cervix and after I had an IUD it hasn't been the same- I will never forget how painful sex was when I had it in and even for a year after it was taken out.
You have me thinking....my next plan for birth control is the IUD. The "pill", various one's,messed up my hormones something fierce, we are now using condoms but I would rather not on an ongoing basis.
I have a short vaginal canal and anything hitting my cervix is painful.
07/27/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by Valyn
On having my cervix get hit, it depends on the time of the month. Sometimes it's really uncomfortable, and other days I love having something (toy/partner) in so deep.

Like Luscious Lily, I'd much prefer symmetry. One labium is quite a ... more
You are so fortunate, my cervix just doesn't want to be hit by either toy or partner.
07/27/2009
Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
You have me thinking....my next plan for birth control is the IUD. The "pill", various one's,messed up my hormones something fierce, we are now using condoms but I would rather not on an ongoing basis.
I have a short vaginal canal ... more
You should seriously discuss this with your doctor before getting the IUD. My IUD definitely increased my cervical sensitivity. A LOT. Also, if you often have deep penetrative sex, especially PIV, your IUD can actually become displaced (which happened to me.)
08/05/2009
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
My EVERYTHING is too small. Not even for aesthetic reasons, just for practical ones. Vagina, mouth, anus, clitoris, labia, it's all too tiny. I'm 5"8 ...what gives?!
08/12/2009
Contributor: Envy Envy
I wouldn't really know, I don't go around and compare to other women. o_O; However I do feel I'm too tight/narrow inside, and I was told my grandmother was the same and that's the reason for bad cramps. (Bull, I know, but I inherited the cramps-from-hell from her side.) And outside, the 'flaps' (labia?) are asymmetrical.... one is larger and folded over itself, makes it looks like I have 2 on one side and 1 on the other, lol! Somewhat annoys/embarasses me, but my hun don't mind of course!
08/13/2009
Contributor: Dark Muse Dark Muse
I feel like I'm a bit too tight and shallow most of the time. My partner is rather large and it makes some of the more deeper positions almost too painful to bear. He loves doggy, but it bruises me too easily, so I won't want any more sex for awhile after that. Needless to say, we don't do it often. Also, sometimes I'm so tight it almost hurts my partner. A lot of foreplay will help, but not completely. Size does matter--sometimes it's just too big!

I am told my labia and genitals look really nice, but to me they kind of look like cow lips. Ahh well. I'm not the one who has to look at them, so I don't care.
08/16/2009
Contributor: lexical lexical
Strange and interesting poll...It's funny, the things we all secretly worry about.
08/24/2009
Contributor: WildKimA WildKimA
Hey, Ravenstar, it sounds like you're describing me! Good to hear that other women look like this.

I've discovered (and I'm old so it's about time) lots of new things recently. One is that I have a TINY clit. It works very well, thank you, but it is very small. Another thing I've learned is that things stretch with use. Very good.
09/03/2009
Contributor: Darling Dove Darling Dove
I've always been self conscious of my genital area since I find my labia too large and very different compared even to other women of a similar size. I also am very self conscious about the amount of hair I have. My clit is pretty small which makes pinpointing it annoying.. but it works fine despite the size. it's hard for men to find it though.
09/03/2009
Contributor: Sir Sir
(Moderator's note: This post has been dealt with already. Please do not flag it. We are aware how it comes across and Sir was spoken to about this and Victoria even posted about it within this thread. Sir's partner is actually a consenting adult. Thank you.)

I enjoy my little girl's pussy, in every way. There isn't anything wrong with it at all. Her lips are rather small, she has a tiny little clitoris, and inside, she's fairly tight but opens up easily for me. It actually looks similar to a child's genitals. Quite perfect for me.
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11/05/2009
Contributor: EffinSara EffinSara
Don't care, don't care, don't care.

I am bothered by the trimmed labia trend in porn, how the "perfect" pussy has suddenly become hairless, lipless, and nearly identical to that of a three year old. Ugh.

Don't get me wrong, I find the shaving to be sexy. But having your labia surgically trimmed?! It's your fucking labia!
11/05/2009
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by Sir
(Moderator's note: This post has been dealt with already. Please do not flag it. We are aware how it comes across and Sir was spoken to about this and Victoria even posted about it within this thread. Sir's partner is actually a consenting ... more
I need to step in here - please be more mindful when discussing children on the forum, this post could be very easily construed to mean that you find actual childrens' genitals appealing (and "perfect for you"), and that is SO not appropriate. I don't think I need to explain all the ways that that is disturbing. Your clarifications would be appreciated. And in the future, please *everyone* be considerate of things like this.
11/05/2009
Contributor: Miss Jane Miss Jane
Quote:
Originally posted by EffinSara
Don't care, don't care, don't care.

I am bothered by the trimmed labia trend in porn, how the "perfect" pussy has suddenly become hairless, lipless, and nearly identical to that of a three year old. Ugh. ... more
I completely agree with this statement! Thank you! I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. My labia is definitely bigger than the porn stars', and you know what, I still have damn good sex.
11/05/2009
Contributor: Miss Jane Miss Jane
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Originally posted by Darling Dove
I've always been self conscious of my genital area since I find my labia too large and very different compared even to other women of a similar size. I also am very self conscious about the amount of hair I have. My clit is pretty small which ... more
I'm on the small size and also have a larger labia. It's just more to stimulate
11/05/2009
Contributor: Heather Heather
Funny question. I never really considered asking myself but now that you have, I think I'm just fine. I'm glad you asked. I looked and think it's all kind of cute. Little concerned about finding a grey hair though but all and all, looks nice. Having only seen fast glimpses of any "porn" I'm not sure about this trimmed labia stuff you all refer to but have seen some Ron Harris stuff. Again, just glimpses and I guess given his style and direction everything being shaved and trimmed is kind of needed. But I'm not sure any of the girls had trimmed labia. I must say there is something very beautiful about a woman's pink parts and Harris gives sheltered people like me a view.
11/06/2009
Contributor: Red Red
I feel smug for cliking "I don't care" over and over, but it's true. Life is way too short to obsess over something I can't do a damned thing about.

Granted, I don't have any 'problems' that bother me, so I suppose I'm actually just lucky.
11/06/2009
Contributor: WildKimA WildKimA
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Originally posted by Heather
Funny question. I never really considered asking myself but now that you have, I think I'm just fine. I'm glad you asked. I looked and think it's all kind of cute. Little concerned about finding a grey hair though but all and all, looks ... more
Got to admit, Heather, when I found a couple of grey hairs down there I wasn't too happy. Not a place you're going to use hair color, either lol.
11/06/2009