Does your partner know you rate sex toys?

Contributor: socceras socceras
Do you ever talk about rating and reviewing sex toys with your partner? I tell mine but I wanted to know if some people were embarrassed about it.
11/29/2011
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by socceras
Do you ever talk about rating and reviewing sex toys with your partner? I tell mine but I wanted to know if some people were embarrassed about it.
My husband knows, nothing to feel embarrassed about.
11/29/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I just spent about two hours taking pictures of new toys. So that would be hard to explain if he didn't know what I was doing!

We discuss ratings on things, especially on couples toys and lingerie. On female toys I ask him what he thinks but decide the rating myself. If he really hates something I'll take that into consideration for the rating.
11/29/2011
Contributor: SelectZen SelectZen
My partner introduced me to EF so no shame in it for us,
11/29/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Oh, he definitely knows and supports me. He actually helps proofread my reviews, adds in his 2 cents, and helps me with my video reviews. He's a huge help! I actually never would have started reviewing stuff without his encouragement and help! (Plus, he sometimes comes up with wittier titles than I do. LOL)
11/29/2011
Contributor: meitman meitman
Since she helps me test them all out, she definitely knows. I'm always asking for her thoughts on the latest toy we tried. Wouldn't do it if she wasn't ok with it.
11/29/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
He's the one who told me about this site (he isn't a member) and suggested I start reviewing
11/30/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
Absolutely. He tests out male products as well. We're a team lol
11/30/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Hahaha. I actually start saying what I'll put in the review as we're using them! Ha Ha. It takes several uses of a toy for me to form an opinion though. After we use one, he says "so, is THIS one getting a good review?" Lol. I purchased the glass rotator a few months ago and while we were using it he said "I KNOW this one's getting a good review." Lol.

So yes. He knows about every word I plan to put in the review. I'll get in my own little world while holding the toy and start saying things to myself as a kind of reminder of important things to add. Lol. He's about got the reviewing process down pat. He helps me test the noises. He stands outside the door to listen to the loudness then I crank it up and he moves further and further away and reports back with how far until he can't hear the toy at all.

We have a lot of fun reviewing together. Honestly, it wouldn't be half as much fun if I weren't able to tell him all about it. He isn't interested in reviewing or using toys himself so really, I get all the good parts out of the deal.
11/30/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I can't imagine keeping it from him. Not only because we're very open with each other, but because he has such a curious and analytical mind. He breaks down the properties of everything that comes into his life; I can't see him turning that 'reviewer' viewpoint off just because it's a sex toy!
11/30/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by K101
Hahaha. I actually start saying what I'll put in the review as we're using them! Ha Ha. It takes several uses of a toy for me to form an opinion though. After we use one, he says "so, is THIS one getting a good review?" Lol. I ... more
Haha, my husband also asks "so, is this one getting a good review?" on occasion too.

So yes, my husband knows, and he encourages it.
11/30/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
We often test things together. And I use him as a test subject pretty often. So, ya, he knows I review sex toys.
11/30/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Yes, he knows. He is amazed at all the boxes that come to the house, no charge to us. He also likes trying out new toys (and older ones) with me.

I've even gone to the trouble of saying, "Tired? You're tired? No, I have a toy to test. Get in there! Nobody's sleeping until the first test round is done."
11/30/2011
Contributor: TheCleansing TheCleansing
..... Yup, she knows.
11/30/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Yup. My girlfriend reviews toys too! And my boyfriend and my Owner both love getting to play with the various things I get for review.
11/30/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
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Originally posted by socceras
Do you ever talk about rating and reviewing sex toys with your partner? I tell mine but I wanted to know if some people were embarrassed about it.
I have and its no big deal
11/30/2011
Contributor: GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
My fiancee knows and is supportive of it.
11/30/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by socceras
Do you ever talk about rating and reviewing sex toys with your partner? I tell mine but I wanted to know if some people were embarrassed about it.
Sigel has contemplated writing reviews himself so yes he knows....Arch has known from the beginning but isn't interested in writing reviews himself just in testing the products.
11/30/2011
Contributor: Rarity Rarity
Yes! He's quite supportive of it as well since it keeps me busy.

My partner has even decided to register to EF for himself after I've introduced him to the site.
11/30/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Yes, Master knows. I usually have to be a good girl and beg her for permission to use. (if it's a new sex toy, as she controls my pleasure.)

If it's clothes or other things I just send her pictures.
11/30/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by socceras
Do you ever talk about rating and reviewing sex toys with your partner? I tell mine but I wanted to know if some people were embarrassed about it.
Hubby knows... mom knows... most friends know. Use to have a huge red passion part banner on my suv and mercedes so not much of a secret - went well with the chains required whips optional license plate frames and the personalized platea lol.
11/30/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Of course, I dont know how one could hide a bunch of toys and explain that you are not spending thousands of dollars on them. I get things suited for him at times and we discuss it, and I ask him a ton of questions so I can write the review. He tells me if he thinks I should make note of anything particular.
11/30/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
He knows. I have no reason to hide it from him. He isn't really interested in the reviewing, but he loves all the lingerie I get here, and we use the toys together too.
11/30/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
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Originally posted by socceras
Do you ever talk about rating and reviewing sex toys with your partner? I tell mine but I wanted to know if some people were embarrassed about it.
of course. every toy is better with four hands.
11/30/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Absolutely. Sex toys are far more fun with someone else in control. Besides, most of the toys I look at are for use as a couple, so my partner has to know about it so he can have a say in what we buy. Plus, it heats things up when we start talking about how we'd use a particular toy in the bedroom!
11/30/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
She totally knows. She's more shy about sex toys than I am, otherwise she'd rate them too
11/30/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
Yeah for the most part he knows.
11/30/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
He knows, and is pretty indifferent.
12/01/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
He knows and sometimes uses my opinions/review information to go make his own purchases.
12/01/2011
Contributor: swaggsohott12 swaggsohott12
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Originally posted by socceras
Do you ever talk about rating and reviewing sex toys with your partner? I tell mine but I wanted to know if some people were embarrassed about it.
yes he has no problem with it
12/05/2011