I'm 22 years old and I've been sexually active for over a year now. Well, I lost my virginity a little over a year ago. Technically, I've had "relations" for a year or so before that. But I digress.
I have never been to a gynecologist. Ever. The closest thing I've done was go to a doctor to get an ultra sound to see if I had ovarian cysts and they didn't check me "down there" because I was menstruating at the time (or maybe I just didn't let them. I can't remember. I was embarrassed).
I know I should go. I know I really need to. But I don't have the money. I am NOT going to have the money for years and years to come, IF I ever do. I can't go to the doctor for horrible sickness and I definitely can't go for my lady parts. So what should I do?
Is there anywhere that can help me? I likely won't be able to pay a dime. There's more important things we need to spend money on and we often only have $10 or so to last us a week. Is there anywhere that gives free exams? Is there anything I can do myself to make sure I'm healthy?
I have never been to a gynecologist. Ever. The closest thing I've done was go to a doctor to get an ultra sound to see if I had ovarian cysts and they didn't check me "down there" because I was menstruating at the time (or maybe I just didn't let them. I can't remember. I was embarrassed).
I know I should go. I know I really need to. But I don't have the money. I am NOT going to have the money for years and years to come, IF I ever do. I can't go to the doctor for horrible sickness and I definitely can't go for my lady parts. So what should I do?
Is there anywhere that can help me? I likely won't be able to pay a dime. There's more important things we need to spend money on and we often only have $10 or so to last us a week. Is there anywhere that gives free exams? Is there anything I can do myself to make sure I'm healthy?