Do you have vaginal contractions during orgasms?

Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
I was just wondering how many women on here have contractions during their orgasms? My girlfriend has never had contractions during orgasms which I thought was a bit odd at first. When I looked it up though, I found that it's somewhat common.
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I Have Contractions
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I Don't Have Contractions
vegan.guy , GONE!
2  (1%)
It Varies
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Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I think she's probably having them but isn't aware of it. I never noticed them until I started using toys and could feel the resistance on the instroke. If something is inside you past the point where the contractions happen or if nothing is inside you, they're not quite as noticeable.

She might also try kegel exercises. The stronger her PC muscles are, the easier it will be for her to feel the contractions.
02/05/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
I think she's probably having them but isn't aware of it. I never noticed them until I started using toys and could feel the resistance on the instroke. If something is inside you past the point where the contractions happen or if nothing is ... more
Thats interesting. And yeah, I've heard that kegel exercises can help. But not having contractions doesn't bother her and it doesn't bother me, so I doubt she'll end up doing anything. Thanks for the advice though!
02/05/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
The contractions are more or less felt depending on the strenfth of my orgasms. Sometimes they are so strong that my contractions give me cramps after orgasm/sex.
02/05/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I answered for my wife. She does.
02/06/2011
Contributor: VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
I do every time and like Naughty Student, they are so strong sometimes I get cramps afterward.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Polyserena Polyserena
I have contractions but they don't always correspond to when I orgasm. I occasionally notice them after my boyfriend pulls out which is surprising, so what Tuesday says also sits well with me. Also contractions for me are not always located in my vagina; contractions can be felt in around the anus/rectum or the clitoris or the pelvic region (uterus).
02/06/2011
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
I'm voting for my partner here, but she does seem to have them whenever she orgasms.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Polyserena
I have contractions but they don't always correspond to when I orgasm. I occasionally notice them after my boyfriend pulls out which is surprising, so what Tuesday says also sits well with me. Also contractions for me are not always located in my ... more
Yes. The uterus contracts during orgasm too. I didn't know that until I was pregnant, when you can really feel them.
02/06/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I contract hard enough that I usually push the toy I have in there (or my partner's cock) out upon orgasm. The harder my orgasm, the harder the contractions. It happens every time.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My girl definitely has contractions - like VieuxCarre, my wife's contractions can expel a dildo or vibe if I don't hold it in place - or thrust it further in.
02/06/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
Yeah, I always thought that all women had pretty strong contractions. The only reason I know (or think) my girlfriend is having an orgasm, is that she squirts. And there is definetly a climax there, infact it tends to be quite intense, but I'm just not sure why she doesn't have contractions. Also, she had never squirted before we started dating, so she's pretty sure that she had never had an orgasm before. Every time she has an orgasm, she squirts. Is it the same for any of you?
02/06/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I contract hard enough that I usually push the toy I have in there (or my partner's cock) out upon orgasm. The harder my orgasm, the harder the contractions. It happens every time.
I often do the same thing. My Man will often push whatever it is back in, like he's angry. He's playing. ("Keep that where I put it, slut!")

Other times, I feel the contractions and there is not a huge outward sign I am having them. Usually the first few minutes of the first orgasm are the strongest. Although I have pushed him out with even aftershocks.

Vegan.guy, she may be having them but they may not be strong enough for either of you to feel. Is she fairly new to sex and orgasm? (Less than a few years.) She may not realize it, or her muscles may not be strong enough yet for you to feel them if your cock or fingers are inside her while she is having them. If she uses dildos or penetrative toys when she comes, the toy being expelled is a good sign.

For a lot of people, male bodied as well as female bodied, a butt toy being expelled during orgasm is also a sign of muscle contractions.
02/06/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
Yes. The uterus contracts during orgasm too. I didn't know that until I was pregnant, when you can really feel them.
OMG, the uterine component of the orgasm while you are pregnant is amazing! Until peri-menopause, I rarely had orgasms like that unless I was pregnant. (Then the kid starts kicking around like mad and My Man would always kind of freak out a little. I told him, "We just gave the baby a little massage, she'll be fine.")
02/06/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I often do the same thing. My Man will often push whatever it is back in, like he's angry. He's playing. ("Keep that where I put it, slut!")

Other times, I feel the contractions and there is not a huge outward sign I am ... more
I'm not positive when she lost her virginity, but it would have been less than 5 years ago. We're pretty sure that I gave her her first orgasm and that was around 4 months ago, so maybe that does have something to do with it. I'm not sure if this is related or not, but she's never orgasmed with "regular" intercourse. I can only make her orgasm with my fingers and only by stimulating her g-spot. Anyway though, thanks for the info!
02/06/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
Quote:
Originally posted by vegan.guy
I'm not positive when she lost her virginity, but it would have been less than 5 years ago. We're pretty sure that I gave her her first orgasm and that was around 4 months ago, so maybe that does have something to do with it. I'm not ... more
Oh, and I'm thinking of ordering the heart shaped liberator wedge today. Does anyone think that might help to make her orgasm during sex?
02/06/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
I thought every woman had vaginal contractions during sex... It doesn't make sense without them. There's a lot of muscles down there. I would also suggest kegels. She can use an aid on EF or start off by randomly squeezing and releasing her kegels during the day. The perk is that no one can tell that you're doing them unless you inform them. Hell you can do them while you're typing, so long as you can multi-task...
02/06/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
I didn't vote because I'm not really sure. I think I'll have to start doing kegels.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I have contractions every time, usually very strong ones. Like others have mentioned it tends to make toys pop out.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
i've actually read a research study suggesting that some women do not have a certain type of muscle tissue that causes vaginal orgasm contractions
02/06/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I have had contractions all over: the vaginal area, rectal, uterine, clitoral, and have even had contractions move upward into my abdomen and even higher to the point my jaw has gotten a cramp in it (think that is more of a whole body orgasm though).
02/06/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
yes yes yes!
02/06/2011
Contributor: Polyserena Polyserena
Quote:
Originally posted by vegan.guy
Oh, and I'm thinking of ordering the heart shaped liberator wedge today. Does anyone think that might help to make her orgasm during sex?
It might, but if not you could always use it for oral sex positioning. In general I think it makes penetration feel deeper, which can be a good or bad thing, but I never really mastered the g spot thing with it. (I bought the wedge ramp combo not the heart wedge, but I think they're similar). Don't get me wrong I love the wedge for its ability to create new positions and make others easier (its so damn fun), but I don't know exactly how much weight you want to put on it making her cum. Its seriously an awesome valentines prezzie though!

I used to lean towards g spot stimulation, but nowadays I'm more of a clit girl. I don't know if I sensitised it or what, but I think the clitoris is the biggest factor for orgasm. I need it to be stimulated outside in some way or I feel like I'm missing something. Squirting feels great and its almost an experience in itself. It can occur without orgasm, but the best way to tell if someone has climaxed is if they feel extatic and happy and relaxed. I like dual stimulation of the vulva/clitoris and g spot, that's really intense.



This is the stuff I have learned so far about orgasms during sex that you could read up on:

"coital alignment technique"- it is a position/ technique that gives maximum stimulation of her vulva and is a really easy shift from missionary. THe way I think the main thing is maintaining genital contact for as long as possible rather than just in and out.

any position that allows you or her to stimulate her clitoris with her vibrator or fingers could be a good one.

Reverse cowgirl is sorta sexy and gives fairly easy access for her fingers or vibrator.

Some people like normal cowgirl (woman on top) because it gives her the ability to move the way she wants, but I honestly don't make it work very often.

Does she masturbate much? Maybe she should. The more orgasms you have the easier it gets.


Anyhow I think I've yabbered on enough. Hope you find it useful
02/07/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I frequently have contractions after a strong, satisfying orgasm. Sometimes, I have even had cramps in my leg muscles as well. For me, it all depends on the orgasmic intensity...
02/07/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by vegan.guy
I'm not positive when she lost her virginity, but it would have been less than 5 years ago. We're pretty sure that I gave her her first orgasm and that was around 4 months ago, so maybe that does have something to do with it. I'm not ... more
Most women (about 85 to 95%) simply do not have regular orgasms during PIV sex. (Penis in vagina intercourse.) It is actually normal for a woman to only orgasm from stimulation which includes a great deal of clitoral stimulation.

After many years of having sex (over 20) I almost always have my first and most intense orgasm from clitoral stimulation (along with some penetration from his hand or a toy.) I may or may not have other, smaller ones during PIV, or anal but even if I don't, the clit stim is necessary for the first one. I don't think I've ever had a first orgasm from PIV without clit stim. This is actually very common for many women.
02/07/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
I do.
02/07/2011
Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by vegan.guy
I was just wondering how many women on here have contractions during their orgasms? My girlfriend has never had contractions during orgasms which I thought was a bit odd at first. When I looked it up though, I found that it's somewhat common.
most of the time i do
02/08/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Yes sometimes and they often continue for awhile after play. I really enjoy it!
02/09/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I do most of the time and sometimes they continue for up to ten minutes or so. I like the feeling.
02/10/2011