Do you have a waiting period for sex after you've had a break up

Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
After you have had a relationship end, do you have a waiting period for sexual activity afterwards with a new partner? This question came up to me and I was curious to see how other women would respond. I said no, I wouldn't put a time limit on myself (of course I've been married 16 years and haven't been through a break up in quite some time).
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
No waiting period for me, I go with what feels right
AngelvMaynard , Sublime , whitknee , Kitka , philly , TexasBrat , ohsnaprawr , LuckyLady , Beautiful-Disaster , Trixxxy
10  (83%)
I do give myself a waiting period of (fill in the blank)
Other: Explain please :)
El-Jaro , butts
2  (17%)
Total votes: 12
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12/14/2011
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
It'd really depend on the person you're coming from and the person you're going to.

If your previous partner was bad in bed or just didn't do it for you, jumping in the sack with your next partner kinda makes sense.

If I had a friend do this, I wouldn't say anything to them unless they were doubling up on the same day.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Sublime Sublime
I did the waiting period once, more so because I got into bed with every girl I've ever dated within the first week and felt perhaps the reason why I got into bad relationships was because of that. So I waited a over month before we(my next relationship) did "anything" and in the end the relationship ended like most of the others. So I found out waiting doesn't really do much for me.
12/14/2011
Contributor: whitknee whitknee
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
After you have had a relationship end, do you have a waiting period for sexual activity afterwards with a new partner? This question came up to me and I was curious to see how other women would respond. I said no, I wouldn't put a time limit on ... more
Everything happens for a reason
12/14/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I would just go with what feels right.
12/14/2011
Contributor: philly philly
I just go with my heart
12/15/2011
Contributor: TexasBrat TexasBrat
I usually just goes with what feels right. However, this is my first time being single with a child, so the norm for what I did 12 yrs ago has probably changed. As of right now, it's been about 8 months since I've had sex, been separated for 4 months.
01/02/2013
Contributor: butts butts
this is the first sexual relationship I've been in, so I can't really say.
01/02/2013
Contributor: LuckyLady LuckyLady
After my 1st breakup I think I went a day? Then 2 wks later had another partner. Then 2 wks later had another partner. I had just gotten out of a relationship that was 1yr 1/2 of bad sex. I owed it to my vagina, lol.
01/13/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
Yes and no.

I don't think I'd wait to have sex, but I would wait to let myself fall in love again because I feel pretty traumatized and sad afterward.

So one night stands that happen after a break up are okay, but relationships are not, for me
01/19/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
i wouldnt wait.
01/19/2013