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Do you have a high sex drive? What age group are you in? Also have you ever lost your desire for sex for whatever reason?

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Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Im just curious and it would be interesting to see how many people actually have a high sex drive..and how many people have lost that desire for a while or completely.
Personally Ive always have had a very high sex drive but recently it has diminished due to birth control I believe.
If you want share your experience or thoughts on your sex drive!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I have a very high sex drive
Wicked Wahine , RonLee , wicked48 , notxsorry , Trysexual , fly1212 , Pretties , C&K0143 , nikki0668 , calliope , Bullfroggy and Rose , sexfreak62 , DreezzyyBabyy , naturegirl , js250 , SecretKinksters , Gluesnffr , ichigostrawberry , Msmueller , Missy27 , KinkyKatieJames , matry , Thong man , Qozt , Enjoia , Tolroe , Glinteye , Holly Wood , Live-love-laugh , Joemoe14 , HannahPanda , ben12 , Mistress M. , Slutty Girl Problems , Ziva , charmedtomeetyou , Adnerbmw , Tasha , jake53
39
I think I have a normal sex drive
Taylor , Trixxxy , Cinnyree , Isola , peppermintgal , dontbackdown02 , wishing77 , edeneve , FableStrike
9
My sex drive is very low and hardly desire sex
calliope , Deeder
2
I am within 20-30 yrs old
WanderlustinGypsy , Taylor , Trixxxy , Pretties , C&K0143 , calliope , Isola , DreezzyyBabyy , dontbackdown02 , Gluesnffr , ichigostrawberry , Msmueller , KinkyKatieJames , matry , Qozt , wishing77 , Lullaby~ , Tolroe , Glinteye , Live-love-laugh , HannahPanda , Slutty Girl Problems , Adnerbmw , Tasha , Deeder , FableStrike
26
I am within 30-40 yrs old
fly1212 , Cinnyree , Bullfroggy and Rose , SecretKinksters , Missy27 , Thong man , Enjoia , Tolroe , Holly Wood , ben12 , Ziva , charmedtomeetyou
12
I am within 40 -50 yrs old
Wicked Wahine , wicked48 , Trysexual , nikki0668 , sexfreak62 , peppermintgal , js250
7
I am younger than 20
notxsorry , CinnamonNights
2
I am older than 50
RonLee , naturegirl , edeneve , jake53
4
I have gone through periods where my sex drive diminshed
Wicked Wahine , WanderlustinGypsy , Taylor , Cinnyree , C&K0143 , naturegirl , Msmueller , Missy27 , matry , Qozt , Enjoia , Lullaby~ , Holly Wood , edeneve , CinnamonNights , Slutty Girl Problems , Adnerbmw , jake53
18
I have never had a problem with it so far..
notxsorry , Thong man , Glinteye
3
Total votes: 122 (52 voters)
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Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I have always had a very high sex drive, even before I knew just what that meant. I was already crushing on boys (and some girls) at 3 and 4 yrs old and not just my own age, but grown men, lol.

The only times my sex drive has diminished a little has been due to pain/illness or medication as ShySEXXaddict mentioned. But, even when I tried antidepressants for my migraines, I still had a drive, I was just unable to orgasm! Good thing it didn't help my migraines so I could get off the medicine. I can't believe what a raw deal it is for a depressed person to feel better, want sex and then find out the pill helping them, is actually stopping them from one of reasons you want to live!

When I'm extremely nauseated or in extreme pain, I lose my sex drive, but as soon as the illness or the pain subsides enough to not be all consuming, the urge just comes right back! Even if I don't masturbate for a little while, my body takes care of it while I'm asleep - I will have orgasms while sleeping and since I'm such a light sleeper, I almost always wake up during it. (If I don't awaken during, I can tell when I do get up because of the 'evidence' shall we say.)
07/25/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
I have a high sex drive. The only time it's diminished is when I'm not feeling well. The reason I started using toys was because I was in between boyfriends and needed a little excitement in my life!
07/25/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I've had a high sex drive since childhood.
07/26/2013
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I've gone through periods where I've had a very high or very low sex drive, but the times when I am feeling the most mentally and emotionally healthy I think I probably have close to an average sex drive.

When I am lacking something emotionally I tend to focus more on sex I've noticed and get a high sex drive, and when I am going through health problems I tend to lose my sex drive completely.

I've been focusing a lot on self care lately and taking care of my physical and emotional needs, this seems to have caused my sex drive to even out.
07/26/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
Im just curious and it would be interesting to see how many people actually have a high sex drive..and how many people have lost that desire for a while or completely.
Personally Ive always have had a very high sex drive but recently it has ... more
I have a high sex drive
07/26/2013
Contributor: Trixxxy Trixxxy
Sometimes I go a couple weeks without giving a shit and others it's like I want to fuck five times a day :/
07/26/2013
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
ya seriously from the time I was 25 to now besides late in my pregnancy my sex drive has always been high..thinking sexual thoughts alday everyday,masturbating everyday and getting as much sex as i could. My boyfriend of a year and a half has just recently asked me if i wasnt attracted to him anymore as i barely touch him let alone ask for sex..then i got to thinking what the hell has happened to me! I barely ever think about,I never masterbate and i dont want sex! Thats when i realized that not only has the birth control i WAS on screw with my hormones and body completely but it has also tooken my sex drive away completely! This is the only medicine i have ever been on(antidepressants and all) that has ever done this and i pray my body and sex life go back to normal very soon! birthcontrol
07/26/2013
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
I would love to say that my sex drive is insane and I always want it but the truth is sometimes it's just not worth getting undressed and redressed for.
Then again it may be where my boyfriend and I are at in our relationship
07/26/2013
Contributor: calliope calliope
I usually have a high sex drive but lately I haven't quite the opposite actually for the first time in my life. I'm kinda scared. Will it come back?
07/28/2013
Contributor: sexfreak62 sexfreak62
Quote:
Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
Im just curious and it would be interesting to see how many people actually have a high sex drive..and how many people have lost that desire for a while or completely.
Personally Ive always have had a very high sex drive but recently it has ... more
I have always had a high sex drive and love all kinds of toys, dirty talk, kinky, etc. I will be 51 on November 29.

Keep looking for more and different toys to try
07/28/2013
Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
21 & very high sex drive.
07/30/2013
Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
As a representative of the "older generation" here, my case is a bit variable! As a teenager I was a very precocious individual when it came to sex, I was permanently horny, this carried on with a brief hiatus in my twenties while I went through my divorce. Then I met Phil, my appetite returned with a vengeance & stayed that way until I started the menopause some 6 years ago. I lost my appetite badly but the combination of hot flushes & headaches made me try Hormone Replacement Therapy and my libido not only returned, it is now as voracious as it was when I was in my late teens!!
07/31/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
32, higher than normal sex drive.
08/01/2013
Contributor: Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
I have a high sex drive and I'm in my twenties.
08/03/2013
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
I think mine is fairly high. In the 20s
08/04/2013
Contributor: Msmueller Msmueller
My sex drive is the highest its ever been, I will be 30 this year. It has gone up and down due to birth control, pregnancy, breastfeeding, etc. But now that I'm done having kids and have a IUD without hormones I'm always ready!
08/04/2013
Contributor: Missy27 Missy27
I have definitely had some lows, especially when my kids were very, very young. My husband and I have some sexual compatibility issues so that has cause me to lose it at times as well. But I have a very high drive.
08/25/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I have a high sex drive and, thankfully, so does my boyfriend. I've had some lows because of medication, but was able to fix that thankfully.
08/29/2013
Contributor: matry matry
i've always had a really high sex drive. i have depression and there have been times when that caused me to have a lower sex drive, but i think that when that happened it just brought it down to a "normal" level lol
09/01/2013
Contributor: Qozt Qozt
I've had a high sex drive every since my early teens. It diminished a bit when I was having some uncomfortable relationship troubles a while back, but it's definitely high again.
09/02/2013
Contributor: cmm cmm
Quote:
Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
Im just curious and it would be interesting to see how many people actually have a high sex drive..and how many people have lost that desire for a while or completely.
Personally Ive always have had a very high sex drive but recently it has ... more
Mine is incredibly high. Thankfully, I have found someone that can match me in sex-drive. In the past, I've been too much to handle for some of my partners.
09/05/2013
Contributor: Lullaby~ Lullaby~
Mine used to be high. Antidepressants ugh :c
09/17/2013
Contributor: Glinteye Glinteye
I'd say mine is quite high, haha, but it can vary depending on how frequently I'm able to address it.
10/12/2013
Contributor: Live-love-laugh Live-love-laugh
I have a high sex drive and I'm in my early 20's.It increases the more I exercise. It actually gets to be a bit much sometimes.
10/13/2013
Contributor: Joemoe14 Joemoe14
Quote:
Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
Im just curious and it would be interesting to see how many people actually have a high sex drive..and how many people have lost that desire for a while or completely.
Personally Ive always have had a very high sex drive but recently it has ... more
I had a problem with my drive so my Dr. checked my testosterone and it was on the side of normal to low. He then prescribed me a shot of testosterone once every three weeks which my wife or he administers. Now my drive is through the roof. I'm going on 40 this year and I feeling like I did after puberty. My wife cant keep up. lol
10/13/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
My libido is high and I'm 22.
10/14/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I've lost my sex drive after it was revived several times throughout my life. after many years of NO sexual desire, there are some specific reasons for this which I won't go into right now, I am happy to say YAHOO! it's back since last year spring. YAHOO!!!
10/14/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
I'm younger than 20 buuut I'd say my sex drive is kinda low. I think about sexual things very very often but I never actually do anything sexual most of the time (though sometimes its a bit higher than usual). Sex drive gets even lower if it's actual sex rather than masturbation. Having another person involved can stress me out sometimes.
10/14/2013
Contributor: Mistress M. Mistress M.
I'm 24 and I like to fuck like rabbits.
10/25/2013