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Contributor: bluekaren bluekaren
I guess I have alot to learn about it. Thanks for being so open and honest with your posts. (I don't think it is weird that some of you have tasted it) I am really curious about it.
If I seem icked out, or like I am trying to discredit women that have done it, I apologize. I am only trying to understand it. I guess I need more of an open mind and more g-spot practice! Wooism me!
04/05/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by bluekaren
I guess I have alot to learn about it. Thanks for being so open and honest with your posts. (I don't think it is weird that some of you have tasted it) I am really curious about it.

If I seem icked out, or like I am trying to discredit ... more
If money is an issue, and you cannot, at this point, purchase a Pure Wand, you can try the Amethyst. Or, if glass intimidates you, you could try LELO's Ella. Personally, I think dildos are great for discovering G-spots. Since they don't vibrate it allows you to focus on the sensation going on inside you. I do use a clitoral vibe every time I use a G-spot dildo though.

If you really like vibrators and think it would be easier, my favorite G-spot dildo is the G-Ki It's not intimidating. It's small and slender, albeit pricey.

If you're looking for something a little less expensive, you could try something like the Tulip Wand, Le Reve, or Harmonia

I have the Harmonia and it's decent, though not as strong as I originally thought; though it's still a pretty good vibrator, especially a beginner.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by bluekaren
I guess I have alot to learn about it. Thanks for being so open and honest with your posts. (I don't think it is weird that some of you have tasted it) I am really curious about it.

If I seem icked out, or like I am trying to discredit ... more
The first time I squirted, I didn't realize what happened at first. For comfort, pee, ptior to playing and make sure you are hydrated. I use a clit vibe first, an orgasm helps (relaxation) and then I work on my G spot.
Yes, I have tasted my ejaculate, my wetness and my partners pre-cum and his ejaculate.
Good luck!!
04/05/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
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Originally posted by SamsDelight
Totally not the only one. I really got worried the first time I did it. I had to make sure it was not pee.
Hehe, glad I'm not that only one.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by bluekaren
I guess I have alot to learn about it. Thanks for being so open and honest with your posts. (I don't think it is weird that some of you have tasted it) I am really curious about it.

If I seem icked out, or like I am trying to discredit ... more
This is probably going to sound really strange to you, but I suggest using a g-spot toy, like Lelo Ella(or any that BBW suggested), over the toilet or in the bathtub. When I became fascinated in having a g-spot orgasm I scoured the internet to learn how to squirt. All the reading and trying won't work if you have a mental wall up. I associated any liquid coming from my squish mitten with urine. So to get over that hang up of "oh no, am I going to pee on myself?" I masturbated over the toilet and was able to squirt. I only needed that one time to bust through that mental wall that was holding me back.
04/05/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Bunnycups
This is probably going to sound really strange to you, but I suggest using a g-spot toy, like Lelo Ella(or any that BBW suggested), over the toilet or in the bathtub. When I became fascinated in having a g-spot orgasm I scoured the internet to learn ... more
"squish mitten" bwaaahahaha! You crack me up!
04/05/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
"squish mitten" bwaaahahaha! You crack me up!
I'm so glad I was able to make you laugh.
I can't take credit for it, though. I took "squish mitten" from this thread. It's fun to read through.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I'm glad somebody beat me to the science.
All I have to add is that it's definitely not pee. I locked myself in the bathroom once to..ahem..study this squirting thing.
04/07/2011
Contributor: nowaynahhhd2 nowaynahhhd2
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Originally posted by bluekaren
I am currently discussing this on my blog KissingBlue(an adult blog, with adult content). I have no idea if this is real thing, or just women losing bladder control. What do you all think, have you seen it? Do you think it is just a myth? ... more
I have experienced the phenomenal squirting orgasm a few times! I can not really do it on my own though. My partner has done it to me. There are videos on how to make your girlfriend or wife squirt. Just search the internet. It takes a lot of fingering and rough sudden movements for the man. It also takes the woman the ability to relax. It feels a lot like you are peeing. You just have to not be self-conscious about it and just let it go. As soon as you just let the feeling flow you will squirt like crazy! Hope this helps..
04/07/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
My wife squirts. It's not pee.
04/08/2011
Contributor: Karero Karero
I love gushing orgasms!!! I can get them from only clit stimulation as well, when I just use the hummer on my rabbit-style vibe. Just go with the "pushing out" feeling. So amazing...

The only trouble is making sure to cum on a folded up towel, a lot of slippery fluid gushes out. Whats so awesome is that it makes you REALLY lubricated after so you can keep up a long session with your toy without adding a synthetic lubricant.


A video I found about female ejaculation that summed it up nicely:

link
04/10/2011
Contributor: lick123 lick123
Very interesting. I heard that when a woman is about to squirt it feels almost like the urge to urinate, but I have no idea. I want to try to do it but don't want to pee, so I don't know.
04/10/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by lick123
Very interesting. I heard that when a woman is about to squirt it feels almost like the urge to urinate, but I have no idea. I want to try to do it but don't want to pee, so I don't know.
You won't pee. If you're concerned, you could try to pee before you get started, lay down towels in your bedroom, or try in the bathtub or over the toilet.
04/10/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
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Originally posted by lick123
Very interesting. I heard that when a woman is about to squirt it feels almost like the urge to urinate, but I have no idea. I want to try to do it but don't want to pee, so I don't know.
BBW's right. You won't pee. However, the fear that you will pee can prohibit you from squirting. That's why it's a good idea to search for a g-spot orgasm over the bathtub or toilet.
04/12/2011
Contributor: horngry horngry
never seen but definitely want to.
04/12/2011
Contributor: leatherjacket leatherjacket
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Originally posted by bluekaren
I'm just saying I have studied the female anatomy and I don't see where that much fluid would come from, if it is not supplied in some part by the urine. It may not be the same consistency. Some of the site I mentioned on my blog breaks down ... more
I squirt, and I have considered the possibility of the liquid being urine. Like many others have said, it is clear and smells differently. I have also urinated prior to intercourse and I still squirted with an empty bladder. Also, when urinating, one is able to push out all the urine; when squirting it starts and stops.
04/13/2011
Contributor: Willis2011 Willis2011
Never squirted and I have never seen it happen so I have no idea
04/14/2011
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
I have only just recently acquired this skill and it's most definitely not urine.
04/17/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
It's definitely not urine, not even close. As others have said, it's very slippery and makes fantastic lubricant. I'm more of a gusher than a squirter, and the first time I did it really surprised both my husband and I. I had tried since I discovered g-spot toys to ejaculate (even masturbating in the bathtub as others have), and never had luck until it randomly started happening when I was relaxed, comfortable, and really enjoying myself.

I kind of don't understand why it's so hard for people to believe. Male and female anatomy all has the same beginnings.
04/24/2011
Contributor: socceras socceras
women do this but i never have. it is not urine. i think its more like water.
04/29/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
I do not squirt and I've never been with a woman who has, but I do believe women who say they squirt and I don't believe it's pee.
04/29/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
I started doing it within the past year and the first time it happened I made sure it was not urine.
04/29/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
it is not a myth! I used to think so until I had my first g-spot orgasm and squirted. I tasted it (so shocked had to make sure I didn't pee) and it was not pee at all. It doesn't happen all the time but if I get my g-spot just right I will
04/29/2011
Contributor: osiris osiris
Mine does
04/29/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee has squirted before. Not a huge amount, but definitely some!
05/02/2011
Contributor: onehotmama onehotmama
its def. not pee I was shocked the first time I did it and kept asking "are you SURE its not pee??" lol but it def. smelled and looked different...
05/29/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Supposedly yes, very much so. Check out this excerpt & article by Em and Lo on advanced anatomy....

"urethral sponge, a.k.a. the female prostate: The spongy erectile tissue surrounding the length of the urethra that consists of glands, known as paraurethral glands, which produce an alkaline fluid similar to that produced by the male prostate (i.e. it's not urine). This fluid may be expelled into and then out of the urethra and out of the paraurethral ducts in a process known as female ejaculation; this may occur in spurts, in a rush of fluid, or in such insignificant amounts as to be undetectable" link
05/29/2011
Contributor: CAKES CAKES
I can squirt, and it is definitely not urine. It is thicker like a man's cum.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by bluekaren
How do you know?
Because urine has a briny smell and taste. It will look yellow and not be clear like ejaculate. Female ejaculate is generally clear, and either tasteless/odorless or be thick, syrupy and sweet and smell very faintly like her vaginal fluids. Generally it will bead up on towels or throes rather than sinking in quickly like urine will. Also when dry it will be slightly shiny and have a sweet smell not a salty/briny smell.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by bluekaren
Wow! Alot more of you than I thought.... I just don't understand the anatomy, where does it come from?

It must have some amount of urine in it.
Actually there isn't urine in female ejaculate anymore than there is urine in male ejaculate...that is to say it's nominal if it's present at all. Female ejaculate comes from the female prostate just as male ejaculate comes from the male prostate. It's a gladn that partially surrounds the urethera and it can be stimulated to spasm by stroking/pressin/ stimulating the G spot.
05/29/2011