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Creams or sprays that relax tighten vaginal muscles.

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Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I suffer from something called Vaginismus.

Vaginismus is a Painful spasmodic contractions that affects a woman's ability to engage in any form of vaginal penetration. The muscles in the vagin unknowingly contracts. It is something you cannot control. I have weeks where it's perfect, and than I have weeks were I'd rather rip my nails off one by one than attempt to have sex.

I noticed that EF has a spray to make anal sex easier. I guss it helps relax you (anus). I was curious is there something like that for vaginal muscles? Not just here on EF but anywhere?
08/05/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful breakdown of Desensitizing creams:

Tightening Gel/Cream
Is there any tighening gel/cream that actually works? I would really like to try some but i dont know what REALLY works.

Best shaving cream to prevent irritation?
I have very sensitive skin, and quite often my skin gets very irritated after I shave, especially in the bikini area. I have been using Neosporin to.

Prolonging creamms
Will desensitizing creams affect my partner?

DHT cream for genital growth (FAAB)
Does anyone have any person experience on this? The growth I've received from T has been rather... small. 1/4 of an inch, maybe. And I'm just hoping..

Ice Cream or Frozen Yogurt
Which do you prefer? My favorite is frozen yogurt.
08/05/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Ok, here's the deal. These creams and such are topical and are used to numb the tissue. Numbing the tissue can lead to rips, tears, and (anal) fissures. While I understand it is something that is incredibly frustrating to you and your partner(s), I really advise staying away from them. You won't actually be relaxing the muscles, just ignoring the signals being sent to your brain.

Poke around this site for alternatives: link
08/05/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
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Originally posted by Ansley
Ok, here's the deal. These creams and such are topical and are used to numb the tissue. Numbing the tissue can lead to rips, tears, and (anal) fissures. While I understand it is something that is incredibly frustrating to you and your partner(s), ... more
Oh, wow. I never thought about it that way. I've never used any, I thought it would be different but now I don't want to try them lol hahaha.
08/05/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
Oh, wow. I never thought about it that way. I've never used any, I thought it would be different but now I don't want to try them lol hahaha.
I'm sorry you didn't find your light at the end of the tunnel. I believe everyone should be able to enjoy physical pleasure in life and it really sucks when the body checks you and says nope don't think so, sucka!

I have heard that starting out with extremely thin dildos and working to a larger diameter in a single session can allow for virtually painless penetration and intercourse.
08/05/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
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Originally posted by Ansley
I'm sorry you didn't find your light at the end of the tunnel. I believe everyone should be able to enjoy physical pleasure in life and it really sucks when the body checks you and says nope don't think so, sucka!

I have heard ... more
Awe thank you. I hope I find it soon. lol My vagina likes to pay games with me. I'll have weeks and sometimes months without one problem. Than randomly I'll have weeks when using anything isn't going to happen.
08/07/2011