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After having an Orgasm does it wake you up or put you to sleep?

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Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
After an Orgasm at first it gives me a very relaxing and almost high like feeling but then I feel perked up and awake. while my hubby just always feels tired after which I know is normal for guys, but is it normal for women to be more awake after then sleepy?

It will typically take me an hour or 2 to fall asleep after although I'm sure I've had a couple times I fell a sleep sooner but I'm just talking about majority of the time.
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Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I'm trans, but male bodied, so you can count me into the "guys" category. Generally I have no trouble at all falling asleep immediately after orgasm, occasionally I've felt similar to you and just been sort of wide awake but usually it's more of just a euphoric relaxed feeling which seems like a great way to drift off to sleep.
12/06/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
it almost always makes me sleepy. I love going right to bed after having an orgasm!
12/06/2012
Contributor: Buh-bye Buh-bye
I'm neither more awake nor sleepy afterward.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Orgasms make me sleepy.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Orgasms make me feel more energized - though, whether or not I am in sub-space depends greatly on whether or not I could fall asleep after an orgasm. Though, for me, sub-space and orgasms aren't always combined. When they are though, I find it easier to get to sleep afterwards. Otherwise - I could jump up and clean the house.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I stay awake much longer after having one, so I'm with you. My mind kicks into gear and won't shut up.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I have no problem falling asleep immediately after orgasms, but I usually only rest a bit, then go clean myself and my toys up before my beauty sleep.
12/06/2012
Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
It truly depends. Sometimes I literally just pass out after an orgasm. Other times I am wide awake and want to keep going, hubby passes out immediately after. Makes me pissed because I tend to cum right after him,
12/06/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
If I'm awake before I orgasm, I'll get sleepy after. If I'm sleepy before I orgasm, I'll be awake after. It's kinda a pain.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I get sleepy
12/06/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
no problem sleeping but it wakes my SO up
12/06/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
It can do both.
12/06/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
Either. If it's with a partner it's more likely to make me want to stay in bed either to sleep or cuddle, but if it's alone, it often makes me more awake.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by epiphanyjayne
After an Orgasm at first it gives me a very relaxing and almost high like feeling but then I feel perked up and awake. while my hubby just always feels tired after which I know is normal for guys, but is it normal for women to be more awake after ... more
Reaally to me either or. I can fall asleep or I can stay awake
12/06/2012
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
maybe I'm wrong but I feel like men get sleepy and women are more awake
12/06/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I get sleepy.
12/06/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We both fall fast asleep...unless its during the day.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
My boyfriend gets all sleepy and I get more awake.
12/06/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
Depends on the orgasm and length of "play", normally wakes me right up, though I love cuddling with my husband so I go to sleep any way.
12/06/2012
Contributor: wildshores wildshores
sleeeeepytime
12/06/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
fall asleep right afterward
12/06/2012
Contributor: Creepellah Creepellah
Sometimes I get really tired if the sex was super exciting and it took forever to finish. But when it's quick sex I wake up.
12/06/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
awake after, unless hubby wakes me for a midnight session, then because I never really wake up fully, I can get back to sleep easier.

hubby always falls asleep immediately.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Mostly we've made love just before bed and have no problem going to sleep.

But more often now we do it during the late afternoon and go to dinner after. I swear people can tell - we must have that after orgasm glow!
12/07/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I fall asleep. That is why I usually only have sex at night.
12/07/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by epiphanyjayne
After an Orgasm at first it gives me a very relaxing and almost high like feeling but then I feel perked up and awake. while my hubby just always feels tired after which I know is normal for guys, but is it normal for women to be more awake after ... more
can fall a sleep no probe after an "O"
12/07/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
Right after one, I get tired for a few seconds then I get this burst of energy.
12/07/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
my bf and i are opposites i wanna go straight to bed he wants to get up and play video games
12/07/2012
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
It's always different. Sometimes I just want to curl up and pass out, other times I want to do it all again and keep going.
12/07/2012