I was on the bigger side before but had a pretty flat stomach. My elasticity is bad to so after two kids that stretched me pretty far my stomach is not the same pooch galore and don't even get me started on the whole stretch mark thing I hate my stomach now and unfortunately even after loosing the baby weight plus and when I get to my ideal weight the stomach is only going to go bye bye with surgery

For me I was about a size 10 before the babies and after I was a size 12. I eventally lost the weight, mainly because of nursing.

I have a pooch too. I used tons and tons of lotion when i was expecting so i didn't get streach marks.

Being happy and confidant in who you are now is the most important thing, I think. Listen to you husband when he says you are sexy. Let it sink way deep in and realize you are beautiful with or without the baby pooch.

I have had 2 boys ages 8 and 4 now bot C sections and gained weight with both 20 with first kid I was 18 years old then my 2nd was at 21 years old gained 35 pounds and breastfed both over a year each. I miss the breastfeeding a lot not to leave out the gigantic boobs now time has past and boy I have lost all the baby weight but my boobs are horrible very self conscious of them see so many confidant women and just wish I was its hard been in a relationship 10 years with kids dad I was 16 years old him 23 at the time and my feelings of my image is kinda hurting us a lot now Eden Fantasy is helping me explore new things though love this site it is helping me become the women I want to be keep your head up babes you are not alone love