Condoms and You: When Do You Put It On?

Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt 10/07/2012

When you use a condom/have your partner use one, when do you have them put it on?

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Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I do occasionally skip on condoms, but we have both been tested and have been dating only each other for a long time.
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Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I don't use condoms with either of my partners, but they have both been tested, and I am informed of any sexual partners they have other than me. Also, they use condoms with any other partners.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I put it on
10/08/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
I do occasionally skip on condoms, but we have both been tested and have been dating only each other for a long time.
Used a condom...one time, over 35 years ago. That told me I wanted to get on the pill. I did and that is that.
10/08/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Don't need them any more
10/08/2012
Contributor: glasskitten glasskitten
I don't. The only time we ever needed to was when I'd take my birth control pill late, and we wanted to be safe. Now that I have an IUD, I don't need to worry about it. Besides, condoms never worked out well for us. We always had some kind of reaction to them; latex & non-latex.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Lizard Lizard
I always wear them.
10/10/2012
Contributor: AnotherBrother AnotherBrother
When penises go up, condoms go on. It's a sort of sexy confirmation for me that yes, this is going to so places! No glove, no love and all that stuff.
10/13/2012
Contributor: smasmasma smasmasma
With one person long term and we do not use a condom.
10/14/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
My husband and I only used condoms as a form of birth control in the first six months or so of our relationship (I was on the Pill) but began keeping condoms on hand for anal sex. We only use them if it's well past our bedtime and we have to work the next morning - makes for a quick cleanup.
10/14/2012
Contributor: Huff Huff
Always.
10/18/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Usually only because it helps him last longer.
10/18/2012
Contributor: The Majikat The Majikat
Always!
11/06/2012
Contributor: molly molly
always!
11/24/2012
Contributor: Sexymommaof2 Sexymommaof2
haven't in awhile since i've been on birth control
01/24/2013
Contributor: IvyFayette IvyFayette
Some times we do sometimes we don't. We have both been tested, are monogamous, and have been together over a year.
01/24/2013
Contributor: kaylajoy89 kaylajoy89
i use condoms when something interferes with my birth control pills, such as antibiotics.
04/06/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
We haven't in a long time. We used them the first few months together...then not for years. We used maybe 2 after our daughter was born but they were painful for me, so we ditched them pretty quickly into the sex session and went without all together after that.
04/09/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
I do when something is interfering with my partner's birth control. Helps that it's a monogamous relationship that both of us were tested, so they're only contraceptives
04/11/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
I do all the time
04/16/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
I do occasionally skip on condoms, but we have both been tested and have been dating only each other for a long time.
We generally don't use condoms.
04/17/2013
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
I use condoms
06/28/2013
Contributor: AnotherBrother AnotherBrother
Eight years of condoms. We're Looking forward to many, many more years and brands of condoms.
08/31/2013
Contributor: Thong man Thong man
We currently use condoms but I am scheduled for the snip next month
08/31/2013
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Do you delay or put it on right away?
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Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband and I don't use condoms.
10/08/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Usually a few minutes in
10/08/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Late as possible but usually end up with taking it off an using the pullout method
10/08/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
At the end when he is ready to cum.
10/08/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Never waited.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Do you delay or put it on right away?
A few minutes in
10/09/2012
Contributor: glasskitten glasskitten
Not at all anymore, but we used to put them on just before actual intercourse.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Do you delay or put it on right away?
Depends on what kind of fun we are having-For a quickie we get ready right away.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
No need for such things for U/us...
10/12/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
No need for such things for U/us...
Indeed... ^^
10/12/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
When a condom was needed (either a new partner or used as birth control with a fluid-bonded partner) there was no leeway - no condom, no penetration, no exceptions.
10/14/2012
Contributor: Huff Huff
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystSmoke
When a condom was needed (either a new partner or used as birth control with a fluid-bonded partner) there was no leeway - no condom, no penetration, no exceptions.
Exactly
10/18/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Sometimes right away, sometimes a few minutes in.. We're not really worried about getting pregnant, it's just to help him last longer.
10/18/2012
Contributor: Danneh Danneh
Either right away or a few minutes in
11/25/2012
Contributor: Sexymommaof2 Sexymommaof2
as soon as he is hard is when it goes on
01/24/2013
Contributor: IvyFayette IvyFayette
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Sometimes right away, sometimes a few minutes in.. We're not really worried about getting pregnant, it's just to help him last longer.
Same
01/24/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Do you delay or put it on right away?
A few minutes in
01/24/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
my partner and i tend to practice various types of foreplay, but we never hesitate to get the condom on right away once we're ready for penetration.
01/26/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Don't use condoms.
01/26/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I would use one right away!
03/16/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
Depends on why we're using it - if it was a new partner, no sex unless there was a condom on. With my fiance...we got lazy right before we stopped using them. But, sort of the other way around - often he'd put it on to start with, and then take it off half way through after we got annoyed enough with the thing.
04/09/2013
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
I can't put one on and expect it to be effective unless I am at "half mast."
04/16/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
near the end
04/16/2013
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
Right away
06/28/2013
Contributor: AnotherBrother AnotherBrother
Condoms are our sexy green light. No glove, no love.
08/31/2013