But what can a therapist even do besides bill me? I've tried communicating with her in every way and she's always been the type that's closed off. It's actually pretty pathetic in how little she'll tell me. Such as if I ask her "Do you like the way I maved my facial hair?" She will not answer me and not even shoving bamboo shutes under her nails will make her answer me.

Most of those kids that are dealing with divorce have parents who are fighting all the time. We barely fight, it's the absence of physical effection that I can no longer take. We don't kiss anything more than a quick peck on the lips, ever, not even during sex. This is only a small example. Also I want to be a full time part of my kids lives, not just a weekend dad. There are a few traits my wife has that I never want instilled in my kids(i.e. she came from a home that lives off the system and looks for handouts first, I am very self sufficiant and do not like asking people for handouts), and without me there it'll be monkey see-monkey do.

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I just checked out this thread. [url:Do you get off every time you have sex?]

Just adds to my depression here. I make my wife cum no less than three times, every time we do have sex. And this poll says that most women don't even get once. Actually, this doesn't make me as depressed as it does resentful."