My Man and I have been together a LONG time, decades.
People often ask us how we have managed to stay together so long, if I'm in a silly mood, I'll just say, "He's good in bed, otherwise I would have kicked his sorry ass to the curb years ago." But, there's more to it than that.
We touch each other a lot. We also PLAY! Not just during sex, but frequently throughout the day.
We have these little plastic nubby balls that we throw at each other to surprise the other one. We have all shapes and sizes and we call them "Porky Balls." "There are NO rules to Porky Ball." "You do not talk about Porky Ball." They are all over the house, on the headboard, on the counter, under the water bed mattress, in the corners of rooms, covered in dog hair, in our pockets. It's a silly thing, but this small amount of attention we pay to each other throughout the day really pays off. (He threw one at me, while he was going down on me this morning and I had to start over ha ha.)
We also play tickle fight all the time. I will also open the upstairs bedroom window, when he is in the driveway or on the deck and lift my shirt quickly and then just walk away. Ice down the other's back is always a good one, as is a cold cup of water over the top of the shower curtain when the other is showering.
What do you and your partner(s) do to keep the Love and Attraction alive?
I'd love to hear other people's stories.
People often ask us how we have managed to stay together so long, if I'm in a silly mood, I'll just say, "He's good in bed, otherwise I would have kicked his sorry ass to the curb years ago." But, there's more to it than that.
We touch each other a lot. We also PLAY! Not just during sex, but frequently throughout the day.
We have these little plastic nubby balls that we throw at each other to surprise the other one. We have all shapes and sizes and we call them "Porky Balls." "There are NO rules to Porky Ball." "You do not talk about Porky Ball." They are all over the house, on the headboard, on the counter, under the water bed mattress, in the corners of rooms, covered in dog hair, in our pockets. It's a silly thing, but this small amount of attention we pay to each other throughout the day really pays off. (He threw one at me, while he was going down on me this morning and I had to start over ha ha.)
We also play tickle fight all the time. I will also open the upstairs bedroom window, when he is in the driveway or on the deck and lift my shirt quickly and then just walk away. Ice down the other's back is always a good one, as is a cold cup of water over the top of the shower curtain when the other is showering.
What do you and your partner(s) do to keep the Love and Attraction alive?
I'd love to hear other people's stories.
