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MeliPixie
I recently read a post where a woman was concerned about "spacing out" after she orgasms. I have something similar happen. I do not orgasm often during sex, mostly because I am afraid that this will happen when I do... I don't
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I recently read a post where a woman was concerned about "spacing out" after she orgasms. I have something similar happen. I do not orgasm often during sex, mostly because I am afraid that this will happen when I do... I don't "space out" so much as I "noodle out" on him. When I orgasm during sex I'm usually on top, and then, I just kind of, go limp for about thirty seconds. It's not long but it's long enough to feel his frustration that suddenly my body isn't cooperating with his anymore. I'm not tired or anything... I just, can't move properly. Orgasms with him are so powerful, and I feel this noodly post-orgasm state is negatively affecting me (and possibly him?!) when we have sex. Does anyone have any suggestions to help me, or perhaps at least suggest why this happens to me?
Tl;dr version: I go involuntarily limp for thirty seconds after orgasm during sex, whether he's done or not. Help!
Men are welcome too, I hope to get a "his" perspective on noodly women like me I emphasized body fitness in the poll because that's my main concern. Perhaps my overweight-ness is causing this...? (Answers are based on biology, not personal gender identity )
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During orgasm, you have a FLOOD of hormones and a huge shift in body fluids, PLUS...here is the biggie, you were probably HYPERVENTILATING. All that can make you loopy, dizzy and weak. Believe or not, that is called NORMAL, with a large enough "event". Of course, it could also indicate low OR high blood pressure, heart disease and thus inadequate blood flow to the brain too, or other problems, so getting those regular checkups and NOT ignoring major symptoms are a good idea.