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Contributor: indiechick indiechick
If you could magically reduce the number of people you've been with/ Remove specific partners from your list would you?

Explain please.

And as always thank you in advance to the beautiful community
05/29/2012
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Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I wouldn't.

I'm not happy with a few people that I've been with, but they've all played a part in making me who I am today.
05/29/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I wouldn't change a thing!
05/30/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'd rather increase it - I can still count all my partners on one hand.
05/30/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
i would there is one that i am asshamed of
05/30/2012
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Sure! I'd remove the ones I didn't gain anything from in terms of experience. I'm fine with how it is and am not "haunted" by any one but my life wouldn't be changed by a few of them if they never happened, so I'd magically remove those few.
05/30/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Only one because he was really horrible in bed. But then I would be left with only one person I actually slept with and would want to increase it.
05/30/2012
Contributor: Nora Nora
I'd happily remove a few of my sexual partners from existence...but "now", not so much "then", lol.
05/30/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I am who I am today cause of what I have been through and who I have been with sometimes I wish it were less but eh it is what it is young and dumb
05/30/2012
Contributor: Maximusx Maximusx
Nah...everyone I've been with has taught me something I'd never trade my education for anything
05/30/2012
Contributor: Maximusx Maximusx
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Sure! I'd remove the ones I didn't gain anything from in terms of experience. I'm fine with how it is and am not "haunted" by any one but my life wouldn't be changed by a few of them if they never happened, so I'd magically remove those few.
Educations are hard to come by! lol
05/30/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
If you could magically reduce the number of people you've been with/ Remove specific partners from your list would you?

Explain please.

And as always thank you in advance to the beautiful community
Nah, probably not.
05/30/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Nope.
05/30/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope. Had some partners that I regretted after for relationship reasons, but I learned from all of them. Without them, I wouldn't be who I am today.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
no cuz then i'd have been with -1
05/31/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
nah
05/31/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
No, what's done is done. If nothing else they were learning experiences.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
Not for me, since I don't want to be a virgin again... Sex is awesome!
05/31/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I would but ONLY if I could keep the two children I got from that relationship.
05/31/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I wouldn't change anything, maybe add a few more to my past, if that were possible, but maybe not.

Each man I no longer have a sexual relationship with I feel a strong bond. I never see some anymore, and am friends (online as he lives out of state) with one. I'm comfortable with the number and the men themselves. It wasn't always the greatest sex, but I cared enough about the men to love them, if even for a short time. So, they'll always have a place in my heart.

I've only regretted saying no to one man. (The others I said no to, I'm damn glad I did say no to them!) but it may have changed the course of my life, so maybe it's better we didn't.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I would take all of them off a still be a virgin.I've had good sex occasionally but,it wasn't worth it.I can never seem to be with a man who doesn't treat me bad.Being treated good by a man that I'm sleeping with doesn't exist in my world.It's so many men out there but,the only ones who will talk to me is the weird guys or someone who I think may be normal and turns out treating me like crap.I'm celibate now and I think I'm just going to have to be the rest off my life.
05/31/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I would but ONLY if I could keep the two children I got from that relationship.
<3 no rules here. Glad you don't regret your kids, I've been the regretted kid. it sucks
06/01/2012
Contributor: oldman oldman
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I wouldn't change anything, maybe add a few more to my past, if that were possible, but maybe not.

Each man I no longer have a sexual relationship with I feel a strong bond. I never see some anymore, and am friends (online as he lives out ... more
Lovely, P'Gell!!
06/03/2012
Contributor: oldman oldman
I've only had 1, so it would be hard to go down to 0 after all these years!!
06/03/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I think I might change one of them, but I too would be more likely to add to my number.
06/03/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I'm ashamed of one of my past partners and I do wish I could take it back.....and the sex wasn't even very good.
06/03/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I don't regret any of my partners. I am still friends with all of them. I can think of at least two people that I wish I had slept with, but didn't.
06/03/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
Oh god no! I DON'T WANT TO BE A VIRGIN AGAIN!
06/03/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
I don't regret any of my partners. I am still friends with all of them. I can think of at least two people that I wish I had slept with, but didn't.
Been there....those "i wish I had done that" moments
06/04/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I'd like to take 2/2 back! lol.
06/04/2012