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Contributor: Carrot Carrot
Lately my Sex Drive has plummeted to an all-time low and I don't quite know why. Any tips on rekindling it or ideas as to why this might happen after some time?
07/29/2013
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Have you tried kegel balls ? I understand they are to help with arousal.
07/31/2013
Contributor: sweisb4100 sweisb4100
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Originally posted by Carrot
Lately my Sex Drive has plummeted to an all-time low and I don't quite know why. Any tips on rekindling it or ideas as to why this might happen after some time?
I recently regained my libido. I had lost it for a couple of years. Honestly, A COUPLE OF YEARS. I started flirting again, demanding my partner give me dirty pictures, and trying to accept myself as I am. I started thinking about how attractive I can be. When I felt ugly and boring my libido was at its worst. I also started watching porn constantly to help boost my sex drive.
08/05/2013
Contributor: babyrock babyrock
Have you talked to a doctor about the change? it could be physical.
08/27/2013
Contributor: AnotherBrother AnotherBrother
I lost my sex drive for awhile due to outside factors making life very un-sexy. Have you been through something stressful? Perhaps someone or something is making you very unhappy? If you can figure out what is putting a damper on things and remove it from your life, things just might return to normal!
08/31/2013
Contributor: ryejon ryejon
Maybe you're going through a lot of stress. You need to take care your mental health if you want to rekindle that libido.
11/22/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
As ryejon said, stress can be the reason. However, trying something new to spice things up can help. Start solo. Try a new masturbation position, change a place where you do it(shower instead of bed, for example? ), and try a new toy finally.

This article can be very helpful
11/23/2017
Contributor: CurvyVixen CurvyVixen
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Originally posted by Carrot
Lately my Sex Drive has plummeted to an all-time low and I don't quite know why. Any tips on rekindling it or ideas as to why this might happen after some time?
Sometimes when someone loses their sex drive it could mean that there is an issue subconsciously that isn't being address. Maybe you might need to look at was your love language is such as words of affirmation, acts of Service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. If that is not being satisfied then that could make you lose you libido.
04/09/2020