Hi everyone. Newbie here. Hoping someone can help me with my issue I'm having. First I will provide a little background information: I'm 25 years old and I recently got out of a relationship that was on and off for almost 8 years. I was on birth control pills since I was 17 and stopped them when I was nearing the age of 24. We performed sexual acts on eachother however I rarely ever got aroused and if I did I would lose it. I've tried masturbating before but it has no effect on me. I'm starting to think I'm asexual and am doomed to live a life of not being pleased. I will please others because I am a giving/dominant person however this does not turn me on, I just like making people happy. I feel if I could just get aroused and keep it I would be having a kick ass love life right now LOL!
I'm on this kick lately about trying out a bunch of new things and I've recently started a sexual relationship with a friend I've known since high school. We've done some sexting and at first that would make me aroused but since our relationship is not so new anymore it's kinda worn off. When we do see eachother for the very first few mins and he rubs his hard member on me, that would get me aroused but then I'd lose the feeling. It just goes away and I can't for the life of me figure out why. It seems I'm having the issue of what a guy who goes flaccid has but in female form. I don't know if the birth control pills have totally screwed me or what. I'm considering talking to a sex therapist, what do you all think? And yes, I am attracted to this guy so there are no issues there!
I'm on this kick lately about trying out a bunch of new things and I've recently started a sexual relationship with a friend I've known since high school. We've done some sexting and at first that would make me aroused but since our relationship is not so new anymore it's kinda worn off. When we do see eachother for the very first few mins and he rubs his hard member on me, that would get me aroused but then I'd lose the feeling. It just goes away and I can't for the life of me figure out why. It seems I'm having the issue of what a guy who goes flaccid has but in female form. I don't know if the birth control pills have totally screwed me or what. I'm considering talking to a sex therapist, what do you all think? And yes, I am attracted to this guy so there are no issues there!