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I feel like a sex-crazed maniac!

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Contributor: Elaira Elaira
Before I joined the site, I really didn't feel like I needed to have sex very much. It was nothing too exciting to me and I had a easy time controlling any urges.

Since joining, my sex drive has returned to a normal level. I'm much more interested and want it a lot more often.

However, for about the past week, I've been in some sort of sex-crazed maniac phase. I haven't had another actual person to have sex with in about a week and a half, but this is nuts. It never gets that bad. All the toys in the world can't help me turn it off! I have no idea what's going on! Sometimes, I'll just feel like I'm turned on for no reason, too. It's become slightly frustrating.

I know it's not my hormones. My period ended last week, and this is usually when I go into a "dry spell" without it not being anything serious.

Have any of you ever had a serious bout of the sex crazy that just couldn't be turned off no matter what you do?
09/27/2011
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Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
Before I joined the site, I really didn't feel like I needed to have sex very much. It was nothing too exciting to me and I had a easy time controlling any urges.

Since joining, my sex drive has returned to a normal level. I'm much ... more
Yep. The last 4 years or so of my life. I just go with the flow. It was always high before, but the last few years have been crazy.

I wish I had something to tell you, but chances are it IS hormones, testosterone often doesn't go along with a woman's menstrual cycle. You can have Testosterone spikes any time for any reason. And sometimes the levels stay high. When you get used to having sex frequently, you want it more often.

I don't have a solution, though.
09/27/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
This absolutely happens to me. I'll go through dry spells where sex isn't the main thing on my mind and then suddenly something clicks and it's all I can think about. I'm in that type of mood lately and my husband says I'm like a nyphomaniac when I get this way. I could masturbate for hours or have sex for hours and still need more.

I think it's normal or at least has been in my experience. I don't know what can be done about it other than to masturbate more? Lol. I get that's it frustrating though. I get annoyed when I'm horny 24/7 and no amount of sexual activity seems to stop it. It does pass in time though like everything else.
09/27/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
Hopefully the Pure Wand I'm getting in tomorrow will help to sedate me. It's a bit distracting when I'm at work, seeing as I work with tons of porn and toys.
09/27/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
I've definitely experience this. Actually been going through the same thing for the past few weeks as well!
09/27/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I have a crazy sex drive, I usually ignore it and I clean a lot.
Or watch something scary, when I'm on the shot it goes down some, but I still want sex consistently.
Since my shot needs to be refilled on the 18th, I'm getting really horny again, plus super emotional cause my period would be on.

So I'm a horny, then sometimes cry mess.
09/27/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Here's a video for those raging hormones

link
09/27/2011
Contributor: catgirl9 catgirl9
I think it's completely normal! I get that way occasionally. This last time had me in tears numerous times because sex was seriously ALL I could think about. I wanted sex constantly. I'd just look at my husband and want to throw him down. I couldn't even hug or kiss my him without wanting sex. It got to the point where I was feeling like I was abnormal.

I know how you feel and how frustrating it can be. The best advice I can give you is to just give it time. Before when it's happened, it lasted a week or 2, but this last time was a few months.

I really have no idea what causes it and I haven't been able to identify any pattern yet. Usually when it happens though, it goes away without warning and things are just back to normal.

eta: just wanted to say that a sex-crazed maniac is exactly how I felt!
09/27/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Pretty much since I was 16! Although it mellows out if I go without for a month. If I want to put myself on a celibacy streak, the first thirty days are impossible-sex-crazy-c an't-really-focus-on-s choolwork like you're going through, but after that my body mellows out and stops demanding.

(Of course, the day after I call off a celibacy streak, it's right back to where it was before I started.)
09/27/2011
Contributor: SoSexxxay SoSexxxay
This... is my life
09/27/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I think bursts of hypersexuality are normal.
09/27/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
One other possibility---

Sometimes when I'm really stressed out, like a large sort of situation that I have little-to-no control over, I get extra-horny. It's kind of like my lizardbrain thinks Hm... she seems kind of stressed out... what usually puts her in a good mood? Oh yeah, sex. "heeeey Antipova! Cocks pounding you in every hooooole!"

And I have to be like, "okay, lizardbrain, that would be awesome, but it would not actually help me solve this problem so shut up for a while while I deal with [stressful situation]."
09/27/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
Here's a video for those raging hormones

link
I LOVE this song.

This one is the one I feel most like. Haha. link

And having this video on repeat certainly isn't helping, but I'm obsessed with this song/video.

link
09/27/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Welcome to my life. I used to get off *on average* 11 times a day (often more). I have cut back to about 5 (it took up too much of my day). At least twice a week I have a nice little cry because I am sexually frustrated. Today in design class I left for fifteen minutes to masturbate in a place I could have EASILY been caught. I feel for you.
09/27/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Congrats! You're working out your sex drive!

I really think that the more you embrace your sex drive, the stronger it becomes.
09/27/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
Quote:
Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
Welcome to my life. I used to get off *on average* 11 times a day (often more). I have cut back to about 5 (it took up too much of my day). At least twice a week I have a nice little cry because I am sexually frustrated. Today in design class I left ... more
Nice one.

It's starting to get to the point where it's uncomfortable. It's like I'm more physically aroused than mentally, but one thing leads to another. Having to stare at porn and sex toys for 10 1/2 hours a day doesn't really help, either. It's just so weird.

I feel like such a creepy perv. Haha.

I remember watching a documentary about women with PSAD. One of them said she couldn't go near her washing machine during the spin cycle because it would trigger "an episode". I was originally slightly amused, but now I kinda realize how much that could suck.

"I can't go near the washing machine because I have to masturbate afterwards."
09/27/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
Nice one.

It's starting to get to the point where it's uncomfortable. It's like I'm more physically aroused than mentally, but one thing leads to another. Having to stare at porn and sex toys for 10 1/2 hours a day ... more
I can't even imagine how much more of a perv (lech, really) I would feel like if I was surrounded by sex toys all day :/.....It's bad enough that I routinely duck out of church for a solo quickie because I'm ogling a ridiculously hot old guy (I do mean ridiculous. Where does a 57-year-old get off being so damn attractive?)


I'm very thankful I don't have a disturbing relationship with doing laundry though.
09/28/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
One other possibility---

Sometimes when I'm really stressed out, like a large sort of situation that I have little-to-no control over, I get extra-horny. It's kind of like my lizardbrain thinks Hm... she seems kind of stressed out... ... more
BWHAHAHA! That's a great explanation. (Your lizard brain solution sounds great, too.)

Illusional, did you say you "try to ignore it and clean a lot."? Honey, you are so cute.

I joined a PSAD website support group at one point. But, the women there were SO anti-sex. One woman actually said she would "ask G*d for forgiveness" every time she had an orgasm. And, there were so many words you couldn't use, normal body parts, but stuff like "girl" and "touch" it was just..... weird. I got "outed" by one of the women as "not really having PSAD, you're just hyper-sexual and probably a "word not allowed" (I'm assuming it was "slut." But, so much was "not allowed" on the site, who knows what she called me. Uh, nice way to be "supportive." Why did she say that to me? Because I said I enjoyed sex with my husband at least once a day. Enjoying it was a "sin" I guess.
09/28/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Yep. But it's been a while. Enjoy it and take full advantage
09/28/2011
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Hm...Miss Debauchery...reading your posts is putting me in a mood...
09/28/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
One other possibility---

Sometimes when I'm really stressed out, like a large sort of situation that I have little-to-no control over, I get extra-horny. It's kind of like my lizardbrain thinks Hm... she seems kind of stressed out... ... more
My boyfriend is long distance and we only started having sex beginning of this year, so I've only had one horny maniac period. It started a week ago for what seemed like no reason: none of my usual turn-on triggers were present, but I was DYING for sex. Masturbation gave me no relief.

But, two weeks ago I got feedback from my company's biggest client that it isn't happy at all with our work. I'm the youngest, newest project manager and was totally floored on how to fix my writers (especially since they were doing A+ writing, but this client expects godlike perfection). I turned into a weeping, pained, hopeless, worthless ball of pathetic-ness for a few days. I seem to have swung from one extreme (deep depression) to the other (ultra horniness).

Stress-induced horniness... why have I not considered this before??
10/01/2011
Contributor: Liz123 Liz123
I've been craving it more since I'm single.
10/15/2011
Contributor: zeb zeb
I crave all the time
10/16/2011
Contributor: mudpie mudpie
Totally normal! Just break your toys out and enjoy the ride.
11/13/2011
Contributor: MissYouBubbles MissYouBubbles
I am like this daily! Your right, it is frustrating to walk around 24/7 horny that nothing helps. I don't have any advice for you as I have yet to find out what it is myself, all I can tell you is know you are not alone
08/28/2012
Contributor: lilacviolet lilacviolet
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
This absolutely happens to me. I'll go through dry spells where sex isn't the main thing on my mind and then suddenly something clicks and it's all I can think about. I'm in that type of mood lately and my husband says I'm like a ... more
Same. I can feel horny 24/7 and no amount of masturbation or multiple orgasms can relieve the sexual tension, it drives me mad. I'm glad to read you girls' feelings on this, I'm glad that I'm not alone in feeling this way.
12/03/2012
Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
I've been like that since starting on HRT! Hubby rekons my libido is on a par with a 21 year old! There are some days when I truly can't get enough, I'll shag hubby then give myself a treat with my Omax, all ok for an hour or two then I have a shower and the urges return!!
12/03/2012
Contributor: atorturedsoul atorturedsoul
Story of my life! I always felt like I couldn't get enough. Hubby has told me before that he is not a machine and can't perform on demand all day and night.
12/06/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
That happens to me occasionally when I'm on a break from school. I just want sex constantly.
12/25/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
It has happened to me before. Typically lasts 2 weeks max with me. No reason why. Just a normal thing I guess.
12/25/2012