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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I find I hardly ever do- or atleast don't remember. Share how often you dream of nookie!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Hardly ever- or I don't remember
38  (38%)
On occasion- or a few times a month
44  (44%)
All the time!!
18  (18%)
Total votes: 100
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11/20/2010
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Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Usually if I dream about sex its rape and in a nightmare.
11/20/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Usually if I dream about sex its rape and in a nightmare.
Me too. I have terrible nightmares about rape and wake up terrified.
11/20/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Bunnycups
Me too. I have terrible nightmares about rape and wake up terrified.
Supposedly this occurs because your brain is trying to communicate that you feel like you are being forced into something you are not comfortable with in your waking life.

I'm sorry this happens to you too, it really is terrifying. I usually cannot sleep until the sun comes up after a dream like this.
11/20/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I am so sorry! That is terrible. I usually dream about sex all the time if not daily. For me, it is really great. I usually pick up my fantasies from my dreams. It is like watching a great erotic novel play out, and I usually have an amazing orgasm to accompany it too.
11/20/2010
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I don't really have them anymore, but before I started masturbating I used to have sex dreams and wake up in the middle of an orgasm.
11/20/2010
Contributor: Vally Vally
GWF and Bunny I used to have rape dreams like that when I was younger and I almost think it was a subconcious fear (terrified is not a strong enough word) of being raped or maybe of not being in control of my life??? Not a psychiatrist here rofl anyway as I got older they started going away and I haven't had one in a very long time now.

I have sex dreams a lot sometimes about the man I am dating and sometimes about friends and boyfriends from the past.
11/20/2010
Contributor: flamefire flamefire
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
I don't really have them anymore, but before I started masturbating I used to have sex dreams and wake up in the middle of an orgasm.
Thats the same for me, before I started masturbating I asked my best friend if she ever had sex dreams too and she looked at me like this twisted look on her face saying "NO!". Since she masturbated all the time she never had orgasms while sleeping and it was the exact opposite for me!

And Girl With Fire and Bunnycups, thats just awful! Rape is my biggest fear, so that would probably be my worst nightmare ever!
11/21/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I used to have rape dreams and the man in the dream would alwasy be an actual person in my life that I didn't feel comfortable with. Those dreams freaked me out so much that I stopped trusting those men and stayed as far away as possible from them. Ir felt like it really happenned even if it was a dream. Those dreams are horrbile.

I do occasionally dream about sex but mostly when I haven't masturbated in a while or my hormones are really high and I haven't had sex for whatever reason.
11/21/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I have really hot sex dreams and I'll end up jackin' it during the night without my knowledge.. awkward! I also have really terrible sex dreams with guys I know in them. Like all my friends are just chillin, I go into a room with a guy friend, have the WORST and shortest sex of my life, and I wake up.

Sex dreams are supposed to be GOOD! What's wrong with us? :[
11/21/2010
Contributor: gookiebaby gookiebaby
sex dreams are the best!
11/21/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
Sometimes, it's not rare but it's not an all the time type dream either..
11/21/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
Occasionally, but it's rare.
11/21/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
Almost every night.
11/22/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Not often enough.....hehehe.
11/22/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
I find I hardly ever do- or atleast don't remember. Share how often you dream of nookie!
I have dreams when I am particularly hormonal and/or missing the guys.
11/23/2010
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
I find I hardly ever do- or atleast don't remember. Share how often you dream of nookie!
I have never, as far as I know, ever had a dream about sex. I have had dreams with women in them, but that's as far as it went.
01/31/2011
Contributor: AU AU
I used to dream about sex more often. It is rare that I do now. Maybe once a month or so. Usually it involves a person other than my partner or some strange creature. O_O I actually don't prefer sex dreams over other kinds, but they usually aren't really bad dreams. Oh, unless they are with people I REALLY don't want to even imagine having sex with.
01/31/2011
Contributor: Crystal1 Crystal1
It's pretty rare for me. Usually when I have a dream that's sexual in nature, it is all about the build-up and I wake up before anything happens. SO frustrating!
01/31/2011
Contributor: 16one94@gmail.com 16one94@gmail.com
I dream about sex all the time, particularly on mornings when I can sleep in. I end up just laying there half dreaming half daydreaming.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I usually do about once a month, at least that I remember anyway.
02/03/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I hardly ever do! Sometimes, my dreams will dance around it but not go into it. Very frustrating.
02/13/2011
Contributor: Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
I dream about sex about once a week. Sometimes it's abstract, sometimes clearly defined. Sometimes it's with my primary partner, sometimes it isn't.
02/13/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
It fluctuates with the time of the month I think
02/14/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
I actually have them quite often.
02/14/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Usually if I dream about sex its rape and in a nightmare.
That's awful! I just usually dream about falling in love with someone but not being able to have sex with them, but my complaining stops now.
02/14/2011
Contributor: VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
At least a few times a week for me... usually involves giving or receiving oral sex.
02/14/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Very rarely, but sometimes....
How do I have more sex dreams?
03/02/2011
Contributor: viciouschristine viciouschristine
Usually, when I dream about sex, I'm with a female partner. The first time this happened, it bothered me because I'd always considered myself straight, but now I don't mind the dreams at all.
03/13/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
She: Usually it's just for a second or so and then my dream wanders off.

He: When it happens, it's the most obscure dream possible.

She: Like the Marla/Tyler scene in Fight Club?

He: No, I wish! They're much weirder than that.
04/14/2011