Who here is on birth control pills? Who here has been and got off of them?
Little over 2 years ago I was put on low-ogestrel for my dysmenorrhea, shortly after meeting my boyfriend of now online. I used to have a very strong drive (I was 19) and would get so wet my jeans would be soaked. Was a virgin, though, so all things done were typed out due to the fact it was long distance between him and I anyway.
Well I was informed the extreme pain I was having was NOT normal, so I saw the obgyn and she put me on birth control. She said if I kept taking painkillers all the time (800mg ibuprofen 3 times a day for about 6 days out of the month) by the time I was middle-aged I'd have stomach and liver problems. Now I'm thinking she might be a quack after all.
Shortly after going on it, I started seeing a psychologist, and my drive just gradually fell away into the nothingness I feel now. And I'm on the lowest of the low doses there is, not on any medications, etc. So I've graduated college and my medical will be running out (on my dad's) and I figured I'll just get off the bc pills. Not to mention after doing some research (2 years late on this) I now understand all the problems bc pills actually cause and am happy to chuck these things in the trash and say no more! I wouldn't be surprised if my acute depression and anxiety have been caused by the pills since I've been moody ever since taking them, but just didn't notice.
The only problem now is my drive. I started using toys about 6 months ago because I never could 'get off' with my hands or anything and would get so crampy from being aroused I'd almost cry and not want to do anything sexual, just lie on my bed in the fetal position for about 30 minutes until the cramps subsided. Now that I have a release, lo and behold, my drive has gone on vacation.
So my questions are: for those of you who got off the pills (or other forms) how long utnil you got your drive back? Were your orgasms more intense after you went back to normal? How did you quicken getting your drive back? (Vitamins? Hormone treatment?)
I ask these because never did anything before the pills and I've been close to getting gspot orgasms but always lose them, so I wonder if I'll be able to once I go back to normal. Plus the dryness has lead to a tear between my vaginal opening and my anus and it hurts because it's chaffed all the time. And now recently I've noticed, too, my clitorial orgasms seem way less intense than they used to be.
Phew, sorry for the long post! I'm just trying to figure this all out and am worried over it.
Little over 2 years ago I was put on low-ogestrel for my dysmenorrhea, shortly after meeting my boyfriend of now online. I used to have a very strong drive (I was 19) and would get so wet my jeans would be soaked. Was a virgin, though, so all things done were typed out due to the fact it was long distance between him and I anyway.
Well I was informed the extreme pain I was having was NOT normal, so I saw the obgyn and she put me on birth control. She said if I kept taking painkillers all the time (800mg ibuprofen 3 times a day for about 6 days out of the month) by the time I was middle-aged I'd have stomach and liver problems. Now I'm thinking she might be a quack after all.
Shortly after going on it, I started seeing a psychologist, and my drive just gradually fell away into the nothingness I feel now. And I'm on the lowest of the low doses there is, not on any medications, etc. So I've graduated college and my medical will be running out (on my dad's) and I figured I'll just get off the bc pills. Not to mention after doing some research (2 years late on this) I now understand all the problems bc pills actually cause and am happy to chuck these things in the trash and say no more! I wouldn't be surprised if my acute depression and anxiety have been caused by the pills since I've been moody ever since taking them, but just didn't notice.
The only problem now is my drive. I started using toys about 6 months ago because I never could 'get off' with my hands or anything and would get so crampy from being aroused I'd almost cry and not want to do anything sexual, just lie on my bed in the fetal position for about 30 minutes until the cramps subsided. Now that I have a release, lo and behold, my drive has gone on vacation.
So my questions are: for those of you who got off the pills (or other forms) how long utnil you got your drive back? Were your orgasms more intense after you went back to normal? How did you quicken getting your drive back? (Vitamins? Hormone treatment?)
I ask these because never did anything before the pills and I've been close to getting gspot orgasms but always lose them, so I wonder if I'll be able to once I go back to normal. Plus the dryness has lead to a tear between my vaginal opening and my anus and it hurts because it's chaffed all the time. And now recently I've noticed, too, my clitorial orgasms seem way less intense than they used to be.
Phew, sorry for the long post! I'm just trying to figure this all out and am worried over it.