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Do you get off every time you have sex?

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Yes
Peggi , ghalik , BlooJay , - Kira - , Rossie , OhMy! , meitman , humpday , Talena , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , soe , Gunsmoke , SimpleHedonist , ciderspider , J5ive , quackbuster , brevado , darthkitt3n , Airen Wolf , ghent529 , Bittenflame , hall5885 , hyacinthgirl , sexykiss , SecretKinksters , Beck , Miss Anonymous , HarlequinBunnie , rockblenny , epiphanyjayne , Undead , Incendiaire , rom323 , Istanbull , preciousbbw , novanilla , pussy licker , NarcissisticLust , TdotY
39  (30%)
No
bayosgirl , MissCandyland , unfulfilled , Lilith Bealove , sweetiejo , LovesAPoet , Kitka , P'Gell , xOhxSoxScandalousx , LaSchwartz , Geogeo , KrissyNovacaine , Bullfroggy and Rose , meezerosity , Gone (LD29) , gloomybear , Badass , Melan!e , CindyH , Sir , deltalima , Breas , solitudinarian , Gracie , Kissy , caligaliber , John E W , married with children , needapacker , Sundae Sparkles , remember.me , Girly Juice , pootpootpoot , xMila , giftdgecko , gsfanatic , MaeGal , Deeder , AliMc , PropertyOfPotter , Noelle , RonLee , oldman , Squeaky , Sureshot , Allison.Wilder , HB042 , mistressg , MK434 , Howells , A.Mari , LunaLuthor , einad , Dusk , mpfm , Checkmate , Pi , Zandrock , MissBre , Cora Jane , TheirPet , AmethystSmoke , LAndJ , Pururin , Rory , Lildrummrgurl7 , MrsHouseWife , neil i. , lovebites , BiJess , Gallowraven , Pink Lily , Kittybit , ska , Intrepid Niddering , DomonCoshu , invisiblehat , WhoopieDoo , Lummox , Robespierrethecat , lainebug , Happenstance , falalena , leanright69 , kat17 , JDear , surreptitious , Beautiful-Disaster , karenm , oneeyedoctopus , quinceykay
91  (70%)
Total votes: 130
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06/12/2012
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Contributor: Peggi Peggi
He's always sure to make sure I do, because that's the whole point, for both of us to enjoy
06/12/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband could care less That's why I have toys to finish after he's done if I feel like it.
06/12/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
For us it's not always about getting off. Some times he can't/doesn't sometimes I can't/don't.
06/12/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
Not always sometimes I have sex because I know he wants it badly and he tries to make sure I fully get off,but if im not in the mood it just doesn't happen.
06/12/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Sometimes I just don't have enough time to orgasm if we're having a quickie.
06/12/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Lilith Bealove
For us it's not always about getting off. Some times he can't/doesn't sometimes I can't/don't.
This!

A lot of the time, evening sex is for "me" and our marathons. A lot of the time, he goes and goes and doesn't even get off. He likes to get "creative" and get me off in as many ways as possible. Then, we just do it again in the morning, and he gets off fairly quickly and most of the time, if I had many orgasms the night before, I won't need one the next morning. If we didn't have sex the night before, then I will want to get off. But, for me, getting off in the morning is more difficult. Day is breaking, I'm afraid the kids will be getting up (yeah, right, it's summer, they sleep half the day!) one or both of us has to get to work. It's just more stress, unless it's a day off.
06/12/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
He always does. I sometimes don't. But most of the time I do.
06/12/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
I'm gonna go with never on that question.
06/12/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I always do
06/12/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Sometimes I can't but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy myself.
06/12/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Almost always. Every now and then I'll have a day where nothing will make me orgasm. Those days I dread, but other than that I usually have multiple orgasms during sex. I get pissy if I only cum once in a session. lol
06/12/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My husband always make sure I come at least once during foreplay, before continuing on to the real deed.
06/12/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
almost always one way or another
06/12/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
My wife and I both usually get off at least once.
06/12/2012
Contributor: meezerosity meezerosity
No but that's not the most important part to me.
06/12/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I make sure she gets off at least once - usually 2-4x. As for me it's 1 and done.
06/13/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
not always but its not a bad thing
06/13/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
But I sure as hell try.
06/13/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Quote:
Originally posted by Lilith Bealove
For us it's not always about getting off. Some times he can't/doesn't sometimes I can't/don't.
Exactly this.

Sometimes it's just not in the cards, but we both always enjoy ourselves and each other.
06/13/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
no i have a hard time
06/13/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
No.
06/13/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Peggi
He's always sure to make sure I do, because that's the whole point, for both of us to enjoy
Aww how nice!
06/13/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
No, but about 80% of the time.
06/13/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
Most of the time, but sometimes for a reason or another we have to make it quick or it isn't the right mood for me.
06/13/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
If it is a quicky, I may or may not orgasm. That is okay with me. A quickie is fast and intense and always very pleasurable. It is more about feeling our connection. I need more time to get there. When we take our time I typically climax several times. I figure it all evens out!
06/13/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
One way or another, I'm getting mine!
06/13/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
Sometimes I don't but it's usually equal and even for us!
06/15/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
i think that I havent once or twice in my life, most of the time I do. My wife does about 75%of the time. sometimes she cant find her spot and gives up.
06/15/2012
Contributor: Sundae Sparkles Sundae Sparkles
I dont always get off during sex. but the reason I have sex is to be in control of him and get him off and thats what makes me happy. If I wanted to just get off every time I would just masturbate
06/16/2012