Yeah. I have some plates and screws in my body that can hurt and can't be treated which makes it a hassle.

I’ve had rheumatoid arthritis for 23 yrs, also now have fibromyalgia and osteoporosis and my bones breaks easily, currently have 5 fractured vertebrae in my spine and a broken foot! Everyday all day is painful and sex can kill my joints, muscles and back! I’m just very open and honest about having limitations and what they are at that time like what I can and cannot participate in and things that might ease the pain to make it more enjoyable for me also. I was with someone 6 yrs who understood and was cool about it but that’s over and it’s hard for me to explain to anyone new but they seem to be respectful of me and my issues! I’m also very insecure about my body the ex constantly degraded me and told me I was so fat constantly, I weight 130 lbs now and think I’m a huge cow, that now one will find me attractive without clothes on! I’m traumatized to let other men see my body and think like he did! I suffer with bipolar disorder and panic disorder so I get all worked up mentally and emotionally also plus all my meds suppress my sex drive! I’m researching how to deal with everything I struggle with 1 thing at a time, talked to my drs but now have to go to my gyno because none of my drs are willing to start changing my meds around when we found what works for all my physical and emotional/mental problems!!