I will be taking ASL translator classes soon, and will be working with elementary school kids with deafness to translate and help them in class. Recently, there has been a focus in my queer discussion groups on deafness in the community, but also about sex in general. I've found quite a great resistance within my circle towards trans people, let alone deaf people. Many people remarked things such as;
"Well, how can you do it if you can't HEAR them?"
"Do you they do it in the dark?"
"I bet they can't even do it in the shower."
Now, what struck me as odd was that there was a big "they vs. us" type thing, and some people even questioned how they would know they are queer if they are deaf (ridiculous, I know.), and I was curious to know your opinions.
What would you have done in this situation? Are you a deaf individual, and if so, what would you like to be said to these folks? I want to educate them, because a lot of them do not get it (racism, transphobia, ableism, etc).
"Well, how can you do it if you can't HEAR them?"
"Do you they do it in the dark?"
"I bet they can't even do it in the shower."
Now, what struck me as odd was that there was a big "they vs. us" type thing, and some people even questioned how they would know they are queer if they are deaf (ridiculous, I know.), and I was curious to know your opinions.
What would you have done in this situation? Are you a deaf individual, and if so, what would you like to be said to these folks? I want to educate them, because a lot of them do not get it (racism, transphobia, ableism, etc).