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What's the best way to introduce prostrate massagers and anal play to your male partner?

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Contributor: Ayumi Ayumi
My boyfriend and I really enjoy anal together (I am on the receiving end), but every time I bring up prostate massagers and anal play for him, he says, "Well I'm not sure since I don't know much about it." I thought of just buying a massager for him and starting there because he does enjoy me licking his perineum and did ask me to use my fingers anally once and he enjoyed it. Thoughts on how to get him more interested? What kind of conversation would you or have you had?
(We've got the hygiene stuff down, I just need a little help on he above).
12/26/2012
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Sounds like you're both on your way to exploring more. Just go with what you're comfortable with.

Cheers!
12/27/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Ram it up there lol
12/27/2012
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Ayumi
My boyfriend and I really enjoy anal together (I am on the receiving end), but every time I bring up prostate massagers and anal play for him, he says, "Well I'm not sure since I don't know much about it." I thought of just buying a ... more
Have him go to the Aneros forum and read up a little. Or get him a Aneros MGX and some lubricant for it. I like Liquid Silk. Then if he likes that get him a Lelo Billy and a small butt plug. If he likes that then go research and read reviews on other plugs. The NJOy large and 2.0 are great. Go for walks with him wearing on.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Ayumi Ayumi
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Have him go to the Aneros forum and read up a little. Or get him a Aneros MGX and some lubricant for it. I like Liquid Silk. Then if he likes that get him a Lelo Billy and a small butt plug. If he likes that then go research and read reviews on other ... more
Thanks so much for this detailed response! I will do my research.
And JR thank you. I think we are moving toward exploring more things comfortably.
03/19/2013