staying hard

Contributor: Chevylady37 Chevylady37
what makes you stay hard?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
My partner
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55  (81%)
stay hard cream or gel
nothing i get hard on my own (nature)
married with children , MeliPixie , Sex'и'Violence , EastCoast36 , MR Chickhabit
5  (7%)
cock rings
RonLee , playsalot
2  (3%)
other please explain
Xavier7 , Checkmate , joshuaty2010 , Trysexual , <3BF , Chefbriapink
6  (9%)
Total votes: 68
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My partner is hard all the time. He wakes up with boners, gets a bunch of random boners here and there. He masturbates at least once a day to get rid of the bone or to help him fall asleep.

We are in our 20's so I'm pretty sure that this is normal for this age range.
01/17/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My partner for sure - but I love having the ring on to help me stay hard longer.
01/21/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I replied for my boyfriend since I'm definitely not male ^^;; He gets/stays hard all on his own, no need for any assistance, though I'm more than happy to help whenever I can
01/22/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
I replied for my boyfriend since I'm definitely not male ^^;; He gets/stays hard all on his own, no need for any assistance, though I'm more than happy to help whenever I can
At his age that makes sense - we'll see how it goes 30 years down the road!
01/22/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
what makes you stay hard?
Having my dick sucked makes me stay hard or get hard again, haha.
02/03/2011
Contributor: WHITEMIKE WHITEMIKE
when you get into your 40's sex is more of an emotional act, and less of a physical one. So if your partner is not into you, or has an incessant nagging condition, it will affect you and it will be obvious. Her level of enthusiasm is in direct proportion to the firmness of your erection. So ladies if you nag, berate, put down, lay there like a dead fish, are recalcitrant to participate, expect the penis to be deflated and unenthusiastic.
02/20/2011
Contributor: RedGoddess RedGoddess
answering for my man- he says that his partner keeps him hard. 'he's in his 20's. doesn't need a pump, or a ring, but sometimes they are fun to use & experiment with.

he can get hard whenever he wants...which is most of the time lol
02/20/2011
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
Had to answer with the dreaded "other" on this one. For most of my life I would have answered my partner. But with advancing age, medical conditions, etc., things have changed abit to where I would have a answer that my wife WITH the use of ED drugs will usually keep me hard.
03/17/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
My partner gets me hard and keeps me hard. In our open relationship, I have had difficulties getting hard for some other girls, but I alway rise to the ocassion with my SO. I usually need to feel some kind of connection with the female to be able to perform...
05/29/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
So far I am able to get hard and stay hard with just my partner. In fact, I have a rather short refractory period and sometimes it is almost like there is no change at all after orgasm. I hope this continues for the foreseeable future, but I am in my late 30s and who knows what will happen in a couple decades?
05/30/2011
Contributor: zeb zeb
I like being sucked on
10/08/2011
Contributor: joshuaty2010 joshuaty2010
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
what makes you stay hard?
I take Erectzan as my Sexual Enhancement to fight erectile dysfunction.
02/06/2012
Contributor: Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
Knocking on the door to 50 and am happy to say that my girlfriend does it for me, no meds needed. An occasional combo of vitamins do help if we are gearing up for a long weekend in bed though, L-Arginine and an herb called Tribulus are the 2 if you are interested. Works great.
02/13/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
My wife works for me! We have used rings or even a plug if we are going for one more time.
07/23/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
I don't need any help getting it up for her, and she knows how to get it when she wants it
07/23/2012
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
I just turned 40 and I'm freaking hard all the time. I need the anti viagra. but my sexy bitch certainly makes me rock hard.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
43 and my partner gets me hard often, so do other things...porn, the water, reading sexy writing/stories/review s.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Layenna Layenna
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
My partner is hard all the time. He wakes up with boners, gets a bunch of random boners here and there. He masturbates at least once a day to get rid of the bone or to help him fall asleep.

We are in our 20's so I'm pretty sure that ... more
exactly the same situation here. Yes, it is normal for us. lol
08/04/2012
Contributor: sw33t1zm3 sw33t1zm3
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
what makes you stay hard?
My husband stays hard with bjs. so during intercourse i usually have to stop and suck it again
09/29/2012
Contributor: peleusMD peleusMD
My partner for sure. One night stands aren't really that of an assurance. EdenFantasys Logo
09/29/2012
Contributor: Major Panda Major Panda
concentration.
09/30/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
My husband has no problem getting an erection but blames my "tightness" on him not being able to hold it very long when we're having sex. Using a condom helps extend the act to 15-20 mins, which is often still not long enough for me, but it's better than 2 minutes.
10/01/2012
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
In my 50's. Still wake with morning wood. To stay hard need to have plenty of foreplay. Otherwise, what comes up quick, goes away quick. After climax can stay hard if there was plenty of play time prior to climax.
10/10/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
I stay hard with light but constant stimulation.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
what makes you stay hard?
Her...and she does it well.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
I asked the hubby and he said His partner. He could have been lying since I was typing in the answer!
10/12/2012
Contributor: Chefbriapink Chefbriapink
My dildo lol
10/14/2012
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
its a combination of the ring and myself.

god i love cock rings
10/15/2012
Contributor: playsalot playsalot
I dont have any problems staying hard or getting hard but once in a while I use a cockring.
10/16/2012