Prostate PLay

Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Hello, fairly new to the site and this is my first discussion.

I'm just starting experimenting with prostate play. But I am wondering, on, average, how many "times" did it take for you to really enjoy it and/or have a prostate orgasm?
09/13/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Good question...I really don't have an answer for that. Sorry!
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
That's highly individual, and it depends on your specific wiring, ability to find the prostate, and prior experiences.

The more you worry about it the harder it will be, so the best way is probably to sit back (or lay back, or however you want to be) and pay attention to the feelings and what feels good. It does help (both for finding the prostate and enjoying it) if you are sexually excited first.

As far as orgasms go that's also something that no one can say for certain. It took me years, but once I had my first one they became much easier to have. Some people never have them, but the best way is to find a method of stimulation that feels good and keep it up rhythmically. For the first couple of times getting your self close with penile play can help as well.
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Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I was yound and in the army when I had my first prostate play experience. Once I got over the she-wants-to-put-her-f inger-up-my-ass fear, I enjoyed it right away.
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Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
1st time I really enjoyed it, but didn't orgasm for many times (hands free that is).
Have only had a few hands free orgasms, & have never been able to completely milk the prostate either. After 4 years of trying off & on
10/08/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I'm still working on it too....
10/12/2011
Contributor: markwashere markwashere
I bought this butt plug with a similar shape as the tantus bronco. I guess the width and softness of it created a really nice feeling. Thing that sucks is that i havent felt anything as good since, so i ordered the bronco, i hope it feels similar
12/17/2011
Contributor: Roshandalaquanda Roshandalaquanda
Quote:
Originally posted by aimtoplease
Hello, fairly new to the site and this is my first discussion.

I'm just starting experimenting with prostate play. But I am wondering, on, average, how many "times" did it take for you to really enjoy it and/or have a prostate orgasm?
you just ned to be doing it right and keep going at it. i felt mine on my first time. it was great.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
First off, welcome to Eden! As far as P-play goes, I'd say I enjoyed it from about the first time I tried (although that was solo play, so I had more control over the situation than if, say, a partner was doing it), though I haven't had a P-spot orgasm yet.
03/01/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
I LOVE prostate play, but I can't say that in years of trying I have experienced a pure prostate orgasm. It usually stems from growing tired of trying as I will feel like I'm so close and then my arm will cramp or batteries die.


That being said, regular orgasms with some prostate stimulation added are absolutely amazing!
03/01/2013
Contributor: MrWood MrWood
I've been playing with mine off and on for a few years. While I love the feel of playing a toy in there, I've never had an actual orgasm from it. The extra excitement creates a wonderful jack off session though. I did have one partner that would "finger fuck" me, and that was great, but I always felt like I was doing something that wasnt natural for a man to do.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
Quote:
Originally posted by aimtoplease
Hello, fairly new to the site and this is my first discussion.

I'm just starting experimenting with prostate play. But I am wondering, on, average, how many "times" did it take for you to really enjoy it and/or have a prostate orgasm?
Enjoying prostate play depends a lot on my ability to relax.


The more relaxed the more intense prostate play can be.

Which toy do you use? I have the aneros helix.

I would suggest to plan a time of about 30 minutes, to start really slow and to expect absolutely nothing.

I think 20 trials is a good number...
03/18/2013
Contributor: hut22dunn2 hut22dunn2
Quote:
Originally posted by aimtoplease
Hello, fairly new to the site and this is my first discussion.

I'm just starting experimenting with prostate play. But I am wondering, on, average, how many "times" did it take for you to really enjoy it and/or have a prostate orgasm?
Can't really say but I play with my bf but only rub.not penetrate.
07/13/2013