Male prostate stimulation and urination

Contributor: sweet sally sweet sally
My bf and I enjoy anal play, but he always makes me stop because it makes him have to peee.

Is this normal? He's 48 and I want to make sure this isn't an indication of an enlarged prostate. He's the type to avoid Dr's at all cost.
09/28/2010
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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09/28/2010
Contributor: sweet sally sweet sally
So...it's probably normal. (at least in our situation) Believe he doesn't have erection problems. lol
09/28/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Does it really make him have to pee, or does he just feel like he does? Perhaps test it out with him on the toilet or in the shower.

Prostate stimulation (or the bladder stimulation that sometimes goes with it) can make you feel like you're going to pee, but you don't (assuming that you've peed recently).
09/29/2010
Contributor: Shamu Shamu
I was 50 when I was diagnosed with aggressive prostate cancer. Thank God when I got a second opinion it was down graded. Because of that I was able to keep my prostate by using radiational seeding. At 48 your man needs a digital exam by his doctor and a PSA test which is a blood test. I would guess he feels the need to urinate more often even without anal stimulation. He could simply have an enlarged prostate but not cancer and can be given medication to relieve the symptoms before they develop into something else. Most doctors want to cut an remove the prostate to cure cancer, however, I have seen this fail as some of the cancer cells can be missed in the process. I have gone 10 years without a reoccurrence. The best digital exam I ever had was by a female oncologist intern, nothing matches the caring touch of a woman.
09/30/2010
Contributor: guy4guyz420 guy4guyz420
Quote:
Originally posted by sweet sally
My bf and I enjoy anal play, but he always makes me stop because it makes him have to peee.

Is this normal? He's 48 and I want to make sure this isn't an indication of an enlarged prostate. He's the type to avoid Dr's at all cost.
Me and my partner enjoy anal play on a daily basis, and neither he nor i have to stop cause it made us have to pee. I think maybe your partner should see a doctor.
10/06/2010
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Agree with Scotta, he might feel like he has to pee which is pretty close to normal, he might be on the verge of a dry orgasm. He should pee before hand & try it in the shower. I have peed a little while stimulating my prostate but it wasn't much & I was prepared for it with towels.
06/02/2011
Contributor: Scott Ghost Scott Ghost
The prostate is a large part of the plumbing. Might need to go check that out. Or just use another forum if you don't like the answers LOL. Seems to be the norm now.
06/04/2011