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Contributor: jenny10 jenny10
How healthy is it for a man to want to try role reversal? I mean both mentally and physically. I have liked to do some light crossdressing since about age 10. Have always enjoyed wearing panties and a bra, have been with other men before and acted out the cute dressed up school girl. Men were sex only types of things for me and am now engaged to be married to a woman, whom I love very much, but I want to try role reversal with her. She has gone so far as to let me wear panties when I want and she thinks it is sexy. She has mentioned needing to work up to things like strap ons and complete role reversal but Do you think pegging and more role reversal might be a little unhealthy, or as long as we are both ok with it it's good?
02/23/2012
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
As long as you are both 100% okay with it and have the freedom to speak up, openly and honestly, if a problem does arise then you should be ok. Safe, sane and consentual...if anyone starts to feel bad about themselves because of it or sees the relationship or activity in a negative light then it's time to back off and revisit the concerns. No one should feel pushed or forced into it.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
As long as both of you are comfortable with it mentally and physically than there is nothing unhealthy about it. As Stormy says, if anyone is uncomfortable with it that's where the problem happens. Make sure you communicate well and understand that you both may have different expectations and desires when it comes to the roles you play.
02/23/2012
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
i completely agree with what the other people wrote. as long as youre both comfortable with who you are there is no issue. its not for me and my wife, but everyone has their own thing
02/23/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I think the only unhealthy thing about it would be to not express it at all. Role reversal isn't everyones thing, but plenty of people are into it and it can be fun, I'm sure! Explore the possibilities and test your limits!
02/27/2012
Contributor: Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
I agree completely that the only unhealthy part is not expressing it. I am in the same situation as you are but the only difference is that I have never been with another man. I believe that as long as both partners agree with the situation it's perfectly fine. I, like you, need to warm my gf up to the idea of full role reversal.
08/09/2012
Contributor: gavind gavind
I shave it regularly. It maximizes the sensation for me. EdenFantasys Logo
08/12/2012