Just curious how many people have discussed with their partner what would happen if they had an unplanned pregnancy. So my question is have you discussed it? If you feel like sharing what would you and your partner do.
Have you discussed what would happen for an accidental pregnancy?
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My hubby had a vasectomy, so we are covered
08/13/2012
We've talked about it. I would abort. We disagree on when life begins so there's a chance he might break up with me if that happens. I love him to death but I would never give birth against my will.
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We check in with each other every few years, or whenever we feel like we are moving to a new stage in our lives. New jobs, new home or location, etc.
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I always discuss this before even considering having sex with someone. Children are not on my to-do list so i don't even want the chance of them.
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My hubby has an appointment for a referral for a Vasectomy. We are working on getting him one. We have discussed it though. We aren't looking to have another one, but whatever happens, happens. We are doing our best not to have one though.
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We've talked about it. If it's really early we both agree I would get an abortion. If it's too far along already I guess there's nothing we could do about it. Hopefully this never happens but it's really good to talk about it!
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Many years ago we thought about it and talked about it as we thought there was another pregnancy. I was a high risk patient and even though we had two healthy kids, we would have went through with the pregnancy and had it. Thankfully, it was a false alarm! our religious beliefs wouldn't allow for an abortion.
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We've discussed it and while we aren't quite ready right now, it wouldn't be the end of the world if it happened. We will likely be looking to get pregnant in the next 2-3 years anyway and would work things out if it were accidental.
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We talked about it a little but not a lot.
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We talk about it daily - either by cracking jokes about it or seriously checking in with each other, we're always wanting to make sure we're on the same page when it comes to that.
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we've talked about it so if it happens it happens, but we arent trying our daughter is 3 its almost time to give her a sibling anyways
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We've talked about it, and decided that we'd do the same thing we did with my other (unplanned) pregnancies: keep it. While we weren't setting out to have kids any of those times, we believe that the pregnancies (even my miscarriage) all happened for a reason. We love our two living kids to death, and can't imagine what life would be like without them.
That said, we're not just going at it, "playing with fire". I've recently gotten Implanon, and for the time being we're trying to hold off on another. (While we definitely want one or two more, right now we just don't have the necessary space for another kid.)
That said, we're not just going at it, "playing with fire". I've recently gotten Implanon, and for the time being we're trying to hold off on another. (While we definitely want one or two more, right now we just don't have the necessary space for another kid.)
08/13/2012
I don't have a partner at the moment but if I would I'd like to have that conversation for sure...
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We're married so its a given that if we fuk up, well be happy
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Zandrock
Just curious how many people have discussed with their partner what would happen if they had an unplanned pregnancy. So my question is have you discussed it? If you feel like sharing what would you and your partner do.
08/13/2012
When I was with both of my long term ex's, we discussed it.
08/13/2012
I'm pro-life so it isn't really an option of anything but keeping the baby
08/14/2012
Yes. In long-term relationships I always have this talk. At this point in my life, now that I've at least graduated college, I'd keep it. My boyfriend respects my decision.
08/14/2012
I told my second wife if she got pregnant it could not be mine, when I got seperated from my first wife I got a vasctomy and a good thing I did as she had 3 kids after I left and tried to pass them off as mine, we went to court and my doctor testified that I had a Vasectomy 6 years ago and none of the childern were over 4 years old, Case closed.
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Absolutely - we are in total agreement.
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Yes, we have talked about it.
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We joke about it sometimes, but we've never seriously talked about it.
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Of course we've talked about it. We talked about it before the first time we had sex. I think that's the responsible thing to do.
We've been together for decades, have kids and are married. We have an agreement.
We've been together for decades, have kids and are married. We have an agreement.
08/14/2012
didn't until it happened
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I would think anyone that was having sex on a regular basis would have this convo. I would think (and be proven wrong) that disagreeing on this issue would be a deal breaker in the relationship.
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We're both in college and agreed we would definitely do abortion. It wasn't even much of a conversation. We both just knew that was our only option.
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I would have the baby, even if I developed a health complication, even if my life were at stake by continuing the pregnancy. After my miscarriage, I am absolutely, 100% affirmed in my pro-life stance for myself.
08/14/2012
When we were newlyweds we agreed that neither would recommend abortion - so if it happened we would be parents. She had her tubes tied after our second was born 20 years ago - so we don't worry anymore.
08/15/2012
Yes, we've talked about it on a few occasions.
08/15/2012
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