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Do all men masturbate?

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Contributor: Envy Envy
I think it's possible that some guys don't. I know an asexual guy who doesn't masturbate, doesn't want sex, can't get turned on, etc. And some guys may not believe in doing so but believe in having sex only.

It's probably not as common as it is with women, but I think that yes, some guys just don't masturbate.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I've known a few people who really just didn't masturbate. They didn't stay this way though.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Everyone's done it once. Anyone who says otherwise is lying
05/29/2012
Contributor: michael scofield michael scofield
its a must!!! i sometimes have to when i dont want to because the urge is too strong and i need to release!
06/01/2012
Contributor: Bodhi Bodhi
I'd say trust him.

I'd say most people masturbate, but you get the odd one who doesn't.
06/14/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband doesn't masturbate, but I do enough for both of us, LOL!
06/24/2012
Contributor: sextoylover sextoylover
i never met someone who doesnt masturbate, but theres a first for everthing
07/01/2012
Contributor: goo goo
Sometimes they have no sexual desire. I have met people that say they don't I later found out they all lied
07/02/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
I have an ex who never did. Whenever it was mentioned I would never believe him, but after years of that I started to realize he really just had no interest in it.
07/02/2012
Contributor: FHeemz FHeemz
He'd be an extreme minority... but it's possible. Everyone's different.
07/02/2012
Contributor: einad einad
i have trouble believing people in general who dont
07/02/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
My husband used to masturbate often before we met. We have a very active sex life and he says he doesn't feel the need to satisfy himself any longer, and it feels better when we do it together. I didn't believe him for a long time, but he has no reason to lie to me, I wouldn't be upset if he did.
07/02/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Most men do, and deny it. But there's a small chance he's telling the truth. Regardless, does it really matter?
07/02/2012
Contributor: wes wes
Quote:
Originally posted by Stinkytofu10
It's possible...
Right
07/09/2012
Contributor: funcouple funcouple
When I am in a relationship I dont masturbate unless it is with the other person. When my boyfriend and I were long distances I would go months without getting off at a time.
07/16/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
No they do not.
10/04/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Falsepast
Everyone's done it once. Anyone who says otherwise is lying
Even asexuals? Lots of assumptions on this topic, and some of them are frankly insulting.

Everyone is different, and just because it's something you love to do, or it's something normal to do, or something healthy to do doesn't mean everyone has done it, or will do it, or wants to do it.
10/04/2012
Contributor: magicmaxx Mr.Mrs magicmaxx Mr.Mrs
I can believe it I do not masturbate I love sex but not by myself the wife and I have sex almost every other day no need to masturbate
10/06/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
I think most people masturbate unless they are hardcore religious and their religion forbids it.
10/06/2012
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Allison.Wilder
A guy I've been dating says he never masturbates. Is that even possible?
This man does. I suppose it's possible for a guy not to masturbate. I wonder if he's ever masturbated
10/07/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
The only way he doesn't is if he's a T-rex (arms are too short).
10/07/2012
Contributor: Major Panda Major Panda
Quote:
Originally posted by Bullfroggy and Rose
I have always thought that there were only two kins of men who didn't masturbate cripples and liars.
Be nice.
10/07/2012
Contributor: Major Panda Major Panda
Who dosen't? Its free, fun, and healthy. Why deny it?
10/07/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Most of them do.
10/07/2012
Contributor: glasskitten glasskitten
Wait... has he NEVER masturbated, or is it just that he has, but doesn't anymore? I ask this because I've gone through periods in my life where I'd masturbate extremely regularly, and then I just wouldn't. There were periods where I'd have years between masturbation sessions. Granted, I have a mood disorder. So that might be why.

Like others have said, maybe he was brought up to believe it is a shameful act.

Also, I'm curious as to if he has ever slept with anyone before.

Maybe there is a bigger problem, maybe there isn't. I think we'd have to know more about the situation to provide you with better advice. Either way, I wish you the best of luck. And honestly, even if there is a problem, it might be something you two can work out. Perhaps you could "show him the ropes" when he's ready.
10/07/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Totally possible he's telling the truth. Everyone has different levels of sex drive, different religious ideals, and different mental hangups. It would be silly to think every guy in the world has the same behavior when it comes to masturbation.
10/07/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
It's possible.
10/07/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
Have I heard that babies and small kids will naturally play with themselves? I suppose that doesn't count though. I think it's certainly possible, though I'm guessing it's a very small percentage!
10/08/2012
Contributor: playsalot playsalot
I would find it highly unlikely that a guy who is over 20 has never masturbated. It seems likely that some don't do it on a regular basis exspecialy if they have sex often. Even when I get as much sex as I want I still like to beat it once in a while.
10/16/2012
Contributor: Jaxxie Lifeless Jaxxie Lifeless
it could be possible either way. but you know, studies show that even fetuses masturbate in the womb so..
10/19/2012