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Does a guy receiveing anal play during sex make him bi.

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Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
Anal play has nothing to do with being homosexual or bicurious. There are non-straight men who don't like anal play just as there are straight men who don't.

The only thing that would make a man's sexual orientation bicurious or bisexual is if they are interested in having sex with both men and women.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Not at all. Liking anal sex and being attracted to men are completely different things.
04/21/2011
Contributor: agf agf
To the ones that thinks that it makes you bi.. so when a man masturbates himself does this make him gay? I mean his is touching a penis for pleasure. That is what gays and womens do.

If you play with a woman and think in a men, even if she is only touching you, then you are probably bi or gay. It does not matter if is touching your ass, your penis or kissing you
04/21/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
no, it means you like your p-spot or perineum stimulated. If you want a man to do it, then you are probably bi or bi-curious.
04/29/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
if its jsut from a girl then i do not think so
04/29/2011
Contributor: Mewt Mewt
The way I see it, what defines if your gay/bi/straight is what your attracted too in more than just a sexual sense. Sex is about pleasure
05/01/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
Ive been told guys have something similiar to a g spot back there
05/05/2011
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
i know several hetero guys who love prostate massagers. and i know some bi guys who hate receiving but love giving. it's all relative
05/12/2011
Contributor: babypinecone babypinecone
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Originally posted by extrafun
I have alway been a little curious about how it would feel to receive anal, or anal play while having sex with a women. (and by sex I mean normal vaginal penetration). I dont think this makes me bi or even bi curious but I would like some input.
Nah, I don;t think so, one of my ex's liked to have ass play, but he was extremely homophobic. . . and if it feels good to you who cares?
05/12/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
For a guy to want a woman to have anal sex with him, does not make him bi. However, if he wants another guy to have anal sex with him, then that would make him bi. I had a bf who liked anal sex but have zero interest in guys. Was kind of fun...
05/12/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Wanting anal stimulation doesn't make you bi. If it did I would be nipplesexual and analsexual and....
05/12/2011
Contributor: Virgulino Virgulino
Of course not.
05/12/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
No way. And not every gay and bi men enjoy anal play.
05/12/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
if you don't want to have sex with a man, then you are not bi/ gay
05/12/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
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Originally posted by PiratePrincess
It doesn't have anything to do with sexual orientation. Just the type of pleasure you prefer.
agreed.
05/12/2011
Contributor: Ms. Paprika Ms. Paprika
Certain acts aren't tied to certain sexualities; I know a fair number of straight men who like some back door play. Why? Because it feels good to them!
Fantasies are also not always related to your actual sexuality either-that's why they're fantasies! On the other hand, if you were always imagining the hot guy next door...That'd be a different story and make you at least bi-curious.
05/16/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
If you're a man, and you want to have sex with other men, you might be bisexual.



Or not.





Either way, the manner in which you choose to fuck has nothing to do with your sexual orientation.
Perfectly said!
05/22/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
In my opinion, it does make you Bi-curious. I mean, you'd have to be curious to do it. You wouldn't do it if you weren't curious. But it doesn't neccessarily MAKE you gay. That all depends on a lot of things. Do you enjoy it? Do you want to continue doing it or is it something you'd just like to keep as a fantasy? Those are basic questions to ask if you're unsure whether or not you could be gay or just bi-curious or none at all.
05/29/2011
Contributor: ChickRocking ChickRocking
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I have alway been a little curious about how it would feel to receive anal, or anal play while having sex with a women. (and by sex I mean normal vaginal penetration). I dont think this makes me bi or even bi curious but I would like some input.
Just because a man enjoys anal play makes he no way near gay or bi. Does a women who has a man between her legs licking her make her a lesbian? No. A lot of men are afraid of anal play because they will think it is gay or think that their partner thinks that. For men, just as women, that is an area with a lot of sensation. Enjoying that pleasure is something that should be embrace and not felt like it is some sort of taboo subject.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Nope! Not at all!
06/01/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Nope. Would a guy giving anal pleasure to a woman make him bi? Nope. It is the sex of the other person you are attracted to
06/02/2011
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
No, it doesn't make you bi or bi curious. It means you want to experience a new form of stimulation for your body. Sexual orientation has nothing to do with it.
06/05/2011
Contributor: Scott Ghost Scott Ghost
No. Unless he likes Guys.
06/06/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
I don't think so. They are still having sex with a woman, so...
06/06/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I don't think you're gay at all. As others have said, and much better than I, it merely means you want varied types of stimulation.
06/17/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
by definition, bisexual or bicurious means you consistently (or not) are attracted to other men, sexually.


having anything up your ass that's not a penis, willingly, does not make you bi. it just makes you sexually liberated!

my man and i are exploring ass play and it's pretty wonderful. and he's super macho.

enjoy it.
06/20/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Simply wanting to stimulate your anal passage and it's related nerves doesn't change or affect your sexual orientation at all! Ask George W. In his opinion it makes you a well rounded individual!



Seriously though, I do wish men ... more
great post, airen wolf.
06/20/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I have alway been a little curious about how it would feel to receive anal, or anal play while having sex with a women. (and by sex I mean normal vaginal penetration). I dont think this makes me bi or even bi curious but I would like some input.
Not even remotely. Just means you realize you have some erogenous nerve endings there that want to be loved, just like everyone else.
06/29/2011
Contributor: Ibegoodone Ibegoodone
I enjoy having anal stimulation. I have even been using a vibrating bullet inserted while either watching porn and/or masturbating. My wife licks and tongues me. I have NO DESIRE AT ALL IN ANOTHER MAN OR ANY PENIS that is not my own! I love the sensation and it makes my ejaculations amazingly great
!
07/02/2011
Contributor: greenstarr681 greenstarr681
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I have alway been a little curious about how it would feel to receive anal, or anal play while having sex with a women. (and by sex I mean normal vaginal penetration). I dont think this makes me bi or even bi curious but I would like some input.
When one man desires to have sex with another man that makes him gay.
07/02/2011