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Contributor: pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
I like my partners to be around the same age or slightly younger. What about you? I was just curious what the highest ranking answer would be.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Older
Alan & Michele , WhoopieDoo , SexyStuff , Beck , LittleMoreSonic , quinceykay , RavenWolf88 , geliebt , DreamWolf , Kitten has left the site , Lilith Bealove , lilyflower , calliope , OrangeKushBB , wildorchid , Falsepast , hall5885 , Various , gorgeous , SMichelle , FLUFFERKINZ , (k)InkyIvy , ciderspider , SadoMas , Jeanette , bayosgirl , anonkitty , ghalik , booboo111926 , remember.me , SecretKinksters , xMila , epiphanyjayne , BG529 , HotMilk , Supervixen , Gone (LD29) , Aisling , misty82 , FallFire , richsam , lovebites , PlasticScythe , Velocity , sugar&spikes , pussy licker , souris , Missmarc , Graniteal , CaseyDeuce , shorejen9 , EmuLove , caligaliber
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Younger
Mike Honcho , Avant-garde , Llahsram , Sci , Ms. N , Thomas90 , Cora Jane , edeneve , Gluesnffr , woodsdragon , zz1aag , minstrel69
12
Same age
Ryuson , darthkitt3n , Mihoshi4301 , SexyStuff , MidnightStorm , Sex'и'Violence , -BillD , Avant-garde , Tangerine , MamaDivine , Lilith Bealove , shesFlawless , Ice1 , ~LaUr3n~ , Llahsram , <3BF , toxie m , Tork48309 , (k)InkyIvy , Stinkytofu10 , ciderspider , humpday , SadoMas , BlooJay , sunkissedJess , ghalik , ud328 , sexxxkitten , Rockasaurus , Rory , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , thisisadeletedaccount , Gone (LD29) , chelly411 , PlasticScythe , Gluesnffr , potstickers , CaseyDeuce , hhh
39
Doesn't matter
bdvnt , Jon S , DeliciousSurprise , Breas , Lummox , Ryuson , XercesBlue , Diabolical Kitty , married with children , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Bigkc , wrecklesswords , Fun Lover , LavenderSkies , ily , EJ , zracer , The Curious Couple , wrmbreze , Raym , MidnightStorm , Checkmate , LittleMoreSonic , Wildchild , oohlookasquirrel , aliceinthehole , Pixel , -BillD , badk1tty , DreamWolf , Undead , Kitten has left the site , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , curious kitten , 31 Flavors , ghalik , Heatherbipoly , booboo111926 , Llewey , LoooveMonkey , Andrey2052 , edenguy , Harpina is gone , needapacker , damnbul12 , mistressg
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Total votes: 150 (130 voters)
Poll is closed
11/04/2011
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Contributor: bdvnt bdvnt
I don't think it really matters. As long as you have a connection, age is just a number. I'll admit that extreme differences in age might be a little odd, but who am I to judge. I've tried to become more tolerant of things. I try to think of them as "different" rather than good or bad / right or wrong.
11/04/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
That was me who voted "Older"... Alan obviously doesn't mind younger (lol)

~M
11/04/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
I personally don't think it matters. What matters more to me is their age mentally. A guy could be older than me, but still mentally be a fourteen year old kid. I'd be uninterested in that.
11/04/2011
Contributor: Mike Honcho Mike Honcho
I agree, emotional and mental age play into the choice. I've meet older women that literally act half there age. Considering she acts her age, I would prefer younger.
11/04/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
All depends on the person versus the age.
11/04/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
If I was looking again, I might go for someone younger. But then if I found someone that I enjoyed being with, her age would not matter.
11/05/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I am really, really into older guys.
11/05/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Let's see, I've mostly only ever had partners that were older. Oldest I've gone is 15 years older, hahaha! Youngest I've gone is I think 3 years. My current girlfriend is about two years younger than me. I'm quite okay with this.
11/05/2011
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
It's not about the age or anything else, it's about the person.
11/05/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
For me the age does matter. I'm not interested in younger men- they just aren't at the same place in life. So pretty much same age to 5 years older.
11/05/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I like my partners to be around the same age or slightly younger. What about you? I was just curious what the highest ranking answer would be.
Doesn't matter to me.
11/06/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Older, hubby is 42 I am 22.
11/06/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
It doesn't matter t me.
11/06/2011
Contributor: Raym Raym
I really don't think it matters. But all personal preference.
11/06/2011
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
It doesn't matter a lot, though I do prefer someone kind of close to my age. Love is love though, in the end!
11/10/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I like my partners to be around the same age or slightly younger. What about you? I was just curious what the highest ranking answer would be.
I like 5-7 yrs older or younger, no more than that. 5-7 is the most I would go under 7 yrs no biggie.
11/16/2011
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
Definitely older.
11/17/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
roughly the same age- give or take a year.
11/17/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I like my partners to be around the same age or slightly younger. What about you? I was just curious what the highest ranking answer would be.
current partner is 3 years younger. partner before that was 6 years older. one before that was 9 years older. it just depends on the person really.

i try not to limit myself to any specific type of person. if iàm attracted to them, that's that!
11/17/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
My current partners are 3 years younger, 24 years older, and 10 years older than I, respectively. I have no age preference at all.
11/17/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
I've been with guys my age, 10 years older than me, and I'm now married to a guy 8 years younger than I am, and so far he's treated me the best. So
11/17/2011
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Preferably, the same age or a year or two younger.
11/17/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Older. Something about the idea of being with someone younger (or even the same age as me!) totally turns me off
11/29/2011
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I like my partners to be around the same age or slightly younger. What about you? I was just curious what the highest ranking answer would be.
I prefer my own age lately. When I was younger it was older guys.
03/19/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I like my partners to be around the same age or slightly younger. What about you? I was just curious what the highest ranking answer would be.
Around the same, no more or less than 5yrs
03/19/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
it doesn't matter really, but i do perfer them older
03/26/2012
Contributor: shesFlawless shesFlawless
I like to date guys my age but it really does not matter to me
03/26/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
have friends of all ages and that includes boyfriends.
03/26/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
I guess older my husband has 6 years on me and I think it's perfect.
03/26/2012