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Contributor: Cowboyssweetie Cowboyssweetie
how many virgins have you been with?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
0
potstickers , leatherlover , liilii080 , ~LaUr3n~ , Tidwtrguy , Kynky Kytty , Orion , firekitten , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , danellejohns , mama2007 , Danielle1220 , Xomandypantsxo , Crash , x cherri , Taylor , Kaltir , extrafun , shelly8791 , BBW Talks Toys , DeliciousSurprise , MnWolf , IrishLassie , vibrantmango , HoneyHoney , gehuwd , Red Riding Hood , sixfootsex , swf , RubberDuckie , PiratePrincess , jazz4me , Crystal1 , Cedarlooman , krisvida , moonch1ld , tinadice , shirley15461 , lovin , joja , cburger , froggiemoma , Keegski , evelyn15401 , musicfan2935 , Fuck it. , Enchantedkitty , Choolz , Lady Venus , *Ashley* , Kdlips , Ajax , BlueDog , CarmenGore262 , mandiegk , Kilgorescowboy , Mr. Jim , MontereyJak , sexygoddess , starsNairguitars , AlaskanBeauty , slynch , ThoughtsAblaze , beemonkey , Sinfully , MidnightStorm , karay123 , SAE09 , LAndJ , Sublime , Nothere , jc123 , LM , noelleish , Lummox , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Kitka , Azule , catsin , SMichelle , Ashley2012 , Falsepast , Mwar , CutiePatootie , GONE! , Jordan B , TexasBrat , MistressDandelion , CynicallyYours , Chami , gorgeous , Deeder , kristina0121 , Rainbow Dash , Wonderstruck , bottled-diva , AmethystSmoke , malantha , SaraW0512 , Geogeo , cicispizzaisyummy , sweet&lush , butts , Stagger13 , fizzygato , Lavendar , apple4me , XxFallenAngelxX , Isola , Khanner , purpledesert , Pegee03 , evie.amor , kitten07 , LoganAshlee. , Chastity Darling , lilyflower , PropertyOfPotter , twelve13 , Noelle , PandaDearest , Beautiful-Disaster , Miss Morphine , MrWood , Rokmai , libbyv , SaucyxGirl , sunkissedJess
128  (38%)
1
Cowboyssweetie , VenusianThunder , Selective Sensualist , Kayla , AU , Kindred , Jimbo Jones , csweatc , Jul!a , Coralbell , xMila , Vaccinium , Gunsmoke , Xavier7 , mrs.mckrakn , The Giveaway Diva , ScottA , OroNomi , married with children , onehotmomma , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , Purpleladybug , CPTInsanity , The Curious Couple , Mr.RightNow , KikiChrome , Persephone's Addiction , Airen Wolf , Valentinka , Dusk , Joyjoy , SerenityRed , SexyStuff , rdytogo , kitsuneyouko5 , *HisMrs* , Kitt Katt , Xiel , hornypoet69 , stner2000 , Lithaewyn , MaryExy , kutekatie , callsignhusker , Checkmate , Miss Anonymous , AgnesTrevejo , tesseract , ToxicHeart , ToyBoy , MN58 , DCorrelle , Midway through , daniel and frances , C-Rae , Beck , Kkay , Bignuf , kinksters , ily , thebest , ashesqueer , lovabeleesa , TheSlyFox , badk1tty , StarbucksAddict , geliebt , duff , her angelness , Eliza , Jon S , Chirple , Hallmar82 , sweetcaroline , WhoopieDoo , Skyshadow , voenne , T&A1987 , SweetSurprise , mandaj , Aberrant , Ice1 , oneeyedoctopus , MissCandyland , Ikkyika , BiJess , Lilith Bealove , 425shark , Kitten has left the site , hall5885 , corsetsaurus rex , Lizzy , Ilovelingerie , True Pleasures , squire , deltalima , pootpootpoot , DiamondKoala , El-Jaro , SubmissiveFeminist , jalolo , ejrbrndps , Velocity , Glinteye , Stinkytofu10 , Hubby80 , minstrel69 , Shortc8ke , Supervixen , leanright69 , chelly411 , TheirPet , shielaray , RememberMe , novanilla , Missmarc , damnbul12 , atryonix , Llahsram , MacNCheese , Martiniman , bmweida , sillylilkitten , kdlt , nikki0668 , Rory , smlove , falalena , Munko , Marie Hanna , VeganChick (is Gone) , KinkyKatieJames , Pumpk1nPatch , dancingduo , Nullipara , sXeVegan90 , thegogofiasco , Bubba29
138  (41%)
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darthkitt3n , Emma (Girl With Fire) , toxie m , pinkcupcakes , Gallowraven , indiglo , Alan & Michele , Lucidity , gladiola , Saphyra , Mnemosyne , UnknownGirl , TumorCrunch , Erotica Explorer , AngelicaU , Ms. Spice , emiliaa , Ryuson , MissStormRyder , klyte , mistressg , (k)InkyIvy , x203 , Melan!e , Sex Positivity , InNeedOfABuzzzz , blacklodge , sjclayton2912 , willk , SG , gloomybear , JirieV , The Majikat , gsfanatic , mjtheprincess , LovesAPoet , Vaginas , woodsdragon , Breas , padmeamidala , LoraE , Robespierrethecat , Nickki Hard , CJK , spiced , Cosmonaut , WestTexasBarbie , MissCatastrophe
48  (14%)
3
BadassFatass , PussyGalore , jjonk , KrystalFayeO , sassyNsensual , kfdarling , Pantonality , AliMc , souris , EmuLove , null , hhh
12  (4%)
4
Awby , Lady Marmelade , lolsos , shinypinkstars , pussy licker , Cas A Nova , Britt&Rich
7  (2%)
5
Adam02viper
1  (0%)
6+
G.L. Morrison , no longer here , Trysexual , epiphanyjayne , Trixxxy , Big&Bald
6  (2%)
Total votes: 340
Poll is closed
01/16/2011
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Contributor: AU AU
Hehe! I claimed my significant other's virginity. But he took mine, too.
01/16/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I prefer having been with experienced guys. Not man whores, but not too new to the game either. I feel like that eliminates some if the usual hang ups and we teach each other things.
01/16/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
Apparently more than the other people who have voted so far, lol.
01/16/2011
Contributor: csweatc csweatc
I've been with a virgin, but also a few girls who turned out to be very inexperienced, having only been with one person before and only once or twice. I find that that never really makes for a good time. Always better to be with someone that is comfortable and who knows what they're doing.
01/16/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
None and I never will be.
01/16/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
I have been with 2 virgins, only one of which was I able to teach, the other, was my first time too.
01/16/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
I've had men tell me they were non-virgins and then act inexperienced in the sack, maybe they were fibbing.
01/16/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
My last boyfriend was a virgin when we started dating. My husband would have been my first in high school, but he wanted to wait.
01/16/2011
Contributor: xMila xMila
Ony one, my boyfriend in high school, and he was my first too.
01/16/2011
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
we were both virgins
01/17/2011
Contributor: The Giveaway Diva The Giveaway Diva
It was both our first time and we've been together ever since
01/17/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
One, my wife.
01/17/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
None, but I'm getting there!
01/18/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
just my wife
01/19/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
My wife was the first, and hopefully, the last.
01/19/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Three virgins, all female. I've never been with a guy who wasn't experienced.
01/20/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by AU
Hehe! I claimed my significant other's virginity. But he took mine, too.
none
01/24/2011
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
My first was with a guy who was also a virgin!!
01/29/2011
Contributor: Awby Awby
In my younger years I had a handful of virgins, and enjoyed being able to teach them how to perform to my preferences.
01/29/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
I haven't had one since I was a virgin at 14. To be truthfully honest it was kind of a pain, litterally.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I haven't been with a virgin before. Also the older I get, the less likely I think it will be that I ever will be with one.
01/30/2011
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
just 1
02/03/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
I haven't been with many people in general, so no virgins for me. Lol.
02/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Cowboyssweetie
how many virgins have you been with?
I prefer partners with experience but I loved my life partner deeply before we had sex. I agonized about being his first mainly because I didn't want him to look back and think he got robbed. He is glaring at me right now as I type this....
02/12/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
None. I was my husband's first, and he will be my only
02/15/2011
Contributor: G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
I went through a period in the 80s where I seriously fetishized virgins and was "the first woman" for literally dozens of lesbians.

I was young and egotistical and actually got off on the fact that I was creating a "template" for their future sexual encounters. (And in my mind, changing lesbian culture one lover at a time.) I had an entire list of things to do and playful slang for the hard-to-say stuff so that they could ask what they wanted. Analingus became "Butterflying".

I thought it was my duty as a sex positive feminist to destigmatize anything that seemed dirty or shameful like menstrual blood and anal play and toys. Also to teach every woman how to help her partner to bring her to orgasm by encouraging and training in hot talk that is actually instructive: Oh yes, yes, right there. Harder. To the left. More this. Less that. I love that!

I am way, way over the virgin fetish. Now when some cute thing leans on me and whispers "I've never been with a woman before." I say "Good luck with that." And move quickly away to find the woman who has been there and done that. A lot.
02/16/2011
Contributor: HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
One, my wife.
D'awww
02/20/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
We took each other's
02/20/2011
Contributor: Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
None... But there's a guy I'm sooo into right now and my sister has her suspicions that he is a virgin. I'm not sure how to approach the subject, though. He's 29 and says he has feelings for me. He then shuts off anything sexual. I guess I'll find out soon enough.
02/21/2011